I am totally baffled by this. I was married for decades. My husband passed away. I loved even the air that man breathed but I always remained my own person. Yes we enjoyed doing things together. And we did not live seperate lives. We did not become each others lives. We became an extention to one anothers life. We loved we did not conquer each other. I cannot help but to think of co dependent relationships when I read a sentence like that. Maybe one should rethink ones own side of the street before persueing down another street. I take it your last relationship ended due to something besides death. Unless suffocation was the cause.
GingerBe: You shouldn't have been living your life through him in the first place. His hobbies should not have been a big part of your life. You should have retained your own interests. It is easier then.
Read her post again and you might see your answer.
Ok you asked for it and I do not mean this to sound mean. Take steps. One foot in front of the other. Quit feeling bad for yourself and start feeling good for yourself. Start building your own foundation in life. Go out with friends. Even when you do not want to. Start thinking of life and other relationships be it friend or what in a positive light. Wake up in the morning and say It is great to be alive Remember you are a seperate human being unless you are siamese twins and I did not know. In that case sorry my bad. Go out and get fresh air doing fun things with a group and by yourself. And remember life is short it is not a dress rehearsal so get with the program and have fun. Once it is over no chance to come back and do the wish haves. Hope you have a good day. Now wipe the dust off your butt and go and live.
Oh and when you are out if you want to go home early go home. Move them feet. One foot in front of the other. Atta girl.
Yes I seen the other option. Sadly I could think of no other. It seems like the best are dead so I don't think they would be up to the job I doubt Jeb will run either. I heard Hillary would not either. But the day is young we will see when the time comes who will show up
I am in the east side more to the south. Vero Beach and it has been hot and stormy in the afternoons. Storms don't last long but the lightening is a show. To hot to really enjoy. I have been sick here of late so can not go out and enjoy the sun. Next season.
It sounds like a great time. Enjoy and enjoy those wonderful temperatures. I am sweatlering(if that is a word) down here. I hope it is the good bar b que like North Carolina has. Or maybe you are talking of the grill. I get lost on one word so many meanings. Enjoy your time.
Making a bed teaches discipline. Or at least I have read somewhere. Start with making your bed every morning. It adds structure into ones life. I have very little structure this last year. I use to make it every morning. I know my mom and husband are rolling in their graves. Mom always thought one should make a bed. Husband feared getting up in night to come back to a made bed. And now I live alone. But I do change my sheets regularly
Do you know how someone can say something off hand and it be something so small but it strikes a chord with another person. I think about it a lot here lately. The makeing of a bed. Yes if it has been a month. Please do consider changing the sheets
I think that is nice a meeting. Google it my friend. I do believe the most work will have to be done from her end tho I don't want to start talking about stuff I know nothing about. Does she have her passport already. I know about that part. At least from our side
Have you checked the address yourself? The address is good. But you know the area better than I you are closer to that area. Is it a safe neighborhood? I veiwed the area, building on line. I live in a small town. Am not so much use to the city. What I find questionable others might not. What do you think?
You will find or at least when I checked I found the forums in the US are very ummm lets say not busy. We are broke down state by state and I think that is why. And so it is not like it is with the other countries. I think because we are so big. I wonder if he is asking have any of us been on a date with someone we met on the internet. Please come back and clarify for me op. Thank you and hello everyone.
I sew No one does anymore But anyhow I would make me a couple of cute wrist bands and when I felt the need. Cover up and look cute to match my short sleeved outfit.
Alot of people do not see themselfs as they really are. Just a fact. I know some women I would love to have their looks and they think they look like cow dung. Skinny seeing themselfs as fat. Fat seeing themselfs as skinny. If anyone is interested I am not into a persons looks. With me it is a persons aura that I am attracted too.
Hi welcome to cs. Come on in. Stay awhile. Or not. I did not know I would be here so long But it is the good people. And the partying times You are a skip and a throw from me. When I was a little girl growing up my dad always called it kiss-a-me. And of course us girls would have fits of giggles when he said this. Oh dear I am babbling. Bye
Does she think you are Gordon. Or does she know you are not If she thinks you are Gordon missing her she might think you are not telling her the truth when you say you are not Everyone is suppose to have a look a like somewhere. Maybe gordon is yours. Don't worry about it. But poor Gordon he don't even know he is being stalked
Not really a good memory. Just it was the only record that was really mine and the song was popular so I played it over and over again. Kind of hard to forget it after that. My mom finially went and bought me the album of wake up a little suzie by the everly brothers and loretta lynns rose garden album just where I would quit playing I'm so dizzy
RE: Single personality
I am totally baffled by this. I was married for decades. My husband passed away. I loved even the air that man breathed but I always remained my own person. Yes we enjoyed doing things together. And we did not live seperate lives. We did not become each others lives. We became an extention to one anothers life. We loved we did not conquer each other. I cannot help but to think of co dependent relationships when I read a sentence like that. Maybe one should rethink ones own side of the street before persueing down another street. I take it your last relationship ended due to something besides death. Unless suffocation was the cause.