RE: Single personality

I am totally baffled by this. dunno I was married for decades. My husband passed away. I loved even the air that man breathed but I always remained my own person. Yes we enjoyed doing things together. And we did not live seperate lives. We did not become each others lives. We became an extention to one anothers life. We loved we did not conquer each other. I cannot help but to think of co dependent relationships when I read a sentence like that. Maybe one should rethink ones own side of the street before persueing down another street. I take it your last relationship ended due to something besides death. Unless suffocation was the cause.

RE: Single personality

GingerBe: You shouldn't have been living your life through him in the first place. His hobbies should not have been a big part of your life. You should have retained your own interests. It is easier then.


Read her post again and you might see your answer.

RE: Single personality

So true and if someone loves you they want you to have your own life. Hard to grow a rose in the shade of a tree.

RE: Single personality

Ok you asked for it and I do not mean this to sound mean. Take steps. One foot in front of the other. Quit feeling bad for yourself and start feeling good for yourself. Start building your own foundation in life. Go out with friends. Even when you do not want to. Start thinking of life and other relationships be it friend or what in a positive light. Wake up in the morning and say It is great to be alive yay Remember you are a seperate human being unless you are siamese twins and I did not know. In that case sorry my bad. Go out and get fresh air doing fun things with a group and by yourself. And remember life is short it is not a dress rehearsal so get with the program and have fun. Once it is over no chance to come back and do the wish haves. Hope you have a good day. Now wipe the dust off your butt and go and live. handshake

Oh and when you are out if you want to go home early go home. wave Move them feet. One foot in front of the other. Atta girl.

RE: Who would you like to see as the United States President in 2013?

Yes I seen the other option. Sadly I could think of no other. It seems like the best are dead so I don't think they would be up to the jobmoping I doubt Jeb will run either. I heard Hillary would not either. But the day is young we will see when the time comes who will show up conversing

RE: Words That Rhyme Continued...

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RE: Say Something...No Names Need To Be Mentioned...

I am in the east side more to the south. Vero Beach and it has been hot and stormy in the afternoons. Storms don't last long but the lightening is a show. To hot to really enjoy. I have been sick here of late so can not go out and enjoy the sun. Next season.conversing

RE: Say Something...No Names Need To Be Mentioned...

Surf and turf. Lobsterblues Oh you are so lucky. Don't worry about me. I will be fine down here with my lobstersigh

RE: Say Something...No Names Need To Be Mentioned...

wave It sounds like a great time. Enjoy and enjoy those wonderful temperatures. I am sweatlering(if that is a word) down here. I hope it is the good bar b que like North Carolina has. Or maybe you are talking of the grill. I get lost on one word so many meanings. Enjoy your time.wine

RE: Words That Rhyme Continued...

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RE: Do you make your bed everyday?

Making a bed teaches discipline. Or at least I have read somewhere. Start with making your bed every morning. It adds structure into ones life. I have very little structure this last year. I use to make it every morning. I know my mom and husband are rolling in their graves. Mom always thought one should make a bed. Husband feared getting up in night to come back to a made bed. And now I live alone. But I do change my sheets regularly laugh

RE: Do you make your bed everyday?

Do you know how someone can say something off hand and it be something so small but it strikes a chord with another person. I think about it a lot here lately. The makeing of a bed. crying Yes if it has been a month. Please do consider changing the sheetslaugh

RE: Good friends at CS. PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I think that is nice a meeting. Google it my friend. I do believe the most work will have to be done from her end tho dunno I don't want to start talking about stuff I know nothing about. Does she have her passport already. I know about that part. At least from our sidelaugh

RE: Say Something...No Names Need To Be Mentioned...

giggle Big blue bottle. Those things sometimes do not go down and stay down. Kick some butt my lady.cheers

RE: Say Something...No Names Need To Be Mentioned...

How true. It is an eye opener to get out there and see people with problems that make yours look so small. cheers

RE: Say Something...No Names Need To Be Mentioned...

applause ohhhhh I like butterflies. I never knew there were such a thing as butterfly farms till I joined cslaugh

RE: Say Something...No Names Need To Be Mentioned...

Good gravey what a fun evening. It is always nice to try new things in life. Thought I would hate itdunno fought going. Glad I gave in and went. dancing

RE: Let us not forget the USS Liberty.

It takes a lot but I am totally speechless (at this moment. Do keep the right to change).dunno

RE: miami,flordia...... any Advice for me????

Have you checked the address yourself? The address is good. But you know the area better than I you are closer to that area. Is it a safe neighborhood? I veiwed the area, building on line. I live in a small town. Am not so much use to the city. What I find questionable others might not. What do you think?dunno

RE: do any girls live in florida

You will find or at least when I checked I found the forums in the US are very ummm lets say not busy. We are broke down state by state and I think that is why. And so it is not like it is with the other countries. I think because we are so big. I wonder if he is asking have any of us been on a date with someone we met on the internet. Please come back and clarify for me op. Thank you and hello everyone. wave

RE: To Tat or Not to Tat

I sewroll eyes No one does anymoredunno But anyhow I would make me a couple of cute wrist bands and when I felt the need. Cover up and look cute to match my short sleeved outfit. innocent

RE: in your opinion

It is like there is goblins in this web site reeking havoc.Sometimes worse than others. wave

RE: in your opinion

I am still having trouble with this site. Not being on line. Just this sitedunno

RE: Jvaski Birthday!!!!!! Happy Birthday John!!!!!

Hope you have a great birthday. I don't think they have started taxing turning another year older yetlaugh balloons

RE: Slim build

blues Sounds familiar. I have a sister too. Funny thing I bet your two girls are like my two grand daughters. Both beauties in their own right.cheers

RE: Slim build

Alot of people do not see themselfs as they really are. Just a fact. I know some women I would love to have their looks and they think they look like cow dung. Skinny seeing themselfs as fat. Fat seeing themselfs as skinny. If anyone is interested I am not into a persons looks. With me it is a persons aura that I am attracted too. wave

RE: Hello From Kissimmee, Fl

Hi welcome to cs. Come on in. Stay awhile. dunno Or not. I did not know I would be here so longlaugh But it is the good people. And the partying timesdancing You are a skip and a throw from me. When I was a little girl growing up my dad always called it kiss-a-me. And of course us girls would have fits of giggles when he said this. Oh dear I am babbling. Bye wave

RE: how should i respond

Does she think you are Gordon. Or does she know you are notconfused If she thinks you are Gordon missing her she might think you are not telling her the truth when you say you are notlaugh Everyone is suppose to have a look a like somewhere. Maybe gordon is yours. dunno Don't worry about it. But poor Gordon he don't even know he is being stalkedmoping

RE: What was your first ever music purchase?

Not really a good memory.laugh Just it was the only record that was really mine and the song was popular so I played it over and over again. Kind of hard to forget it after that. My mom finially went and bought me the album of wake up a little suzie by the everly brothers and loretta lynns rose garden album just where I would quit playing I'm so dizzy laugh

RE: Guys in CS

blushing Sorry just a figure of speech meaning sometimes one will get a lot of mail and sometimes you might not for a little while. Hang in there. bouquet

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