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RE: The nice guy always finishes last!

Ummm excuse me but I really don't know if anyone cares a bean about this but nice guys do not always finish last I married a nice man. Not perfect but perfect for me. It was his qualities that being nice gave him that I loved so much. We had a beautiful life together. So there are women out there who would much prefer a good guy over the bad boy. I want someone to enjoy life with and I fear a bad boy would not do for me. So please keep in mind your qualities are priceless. Maybe it is the women you are choosing that is making you feel this way are you looking for good women or the party women? What qualities are you looking for?

RE: It's at time good ,not to have photo on profile.............

Without a pic I have no idea are you a man or woman? I guess even with a pic you really never know Whatever floats your boat.

RE: WHY IS A MAN AFRAID OF BEING WITH SOMEONE?

Now there is something to be grateful for I am not singing

RE: WHY IS A MAN AFRAID OF BEING WITH SOMEONE?

People don't work?

RE: WHY IS A MAN AFRAID OF BEING WITH SOMEONE?

I really think you will find people react differently to different situations. So glad it was not work for you. I worked to make my marriage last and I loved him and it was worth it. And yes it was work. It was not a fairy tale. Sometimes it is just work not saying what is on your mind because you know you are wrong Sometimes it is work staying when money is little. But you hope times will get better

RE: WHY IS A MAN AFRAID OF BEING WITH SOMEONE?

I want it known right now. I am the one that is different if this is the case. I have made a commitment to my job. But I feel no love there. Just a need to pay my bills

RE: WHY IS A MAN AFRAID OF BEING WITH SOMEONE?

Well maybe the love at first site works for you. For me I like to take it slow. No need to rush. I like to build a good foundation on my relationship. Enjoy each other. Someone charging at me like a desperate person never seems to make me want to do anything but run. Not commitment issues. For me it is showing good sense.

RE: do you believe

I have no honey to do, I have to do my own now sometimes taking care of a house is a lot of work for one.

RE: What makes you happy ??

I know I am happy to have one. Have a good day!

RE: What makes you happy ??

It shouldn't be that way

RE: What makes you happy ??

It shouldn't be that way

Are You Appreciative???????

I would bald headed I would pull my own hair out. Some of the threads stress me and I don't even have to read them all or comment

Are You Appreciative???????

Are You Appreciative???????

I was sitting here thinking about how much the mods really do for us. And how unappreciated they must feel. They have had to come on here a lot lately so we have been really keeping them busy. I actually have no complaints about them. With me I have been treated fairly. And have been given some play room. I do not believe they take banning as lightly as some would like to think. Sometimes we are like a group of over grown bad children. And in the forums I know I have a tendency to forget that it is only a very small part of cs. And it cannot be easy trying to keep all of us happy. So I for one would like them to know how appreciative I am of this lovely site they provide for me to visit. And I thought I would see if anyone else would like to add a here here to the appreciativeness.



Thank you mods for fixing my pictures that I leave up for you to fix.

RE: Name protocol in the forums.

Alot of times people call me Happy. Don't know why I look at them as if they just stepped off a cs page. But it is just someone that knows me off line and I guess I have a bad reputation of being happy alot

RE: do you believe

August and September geez Have read this thread. Maybe we shouldn't hijack it really some serious bickering going on here. I do believe I am not edumacated enough for this thread. I jest one of dem dare rednecks So much hate so little life. What a waste. I'm outta here talk to you later lee. I think I will go get dressed and go out for a while

RE: do you believe

Hello! Hot enough for you?

RE: do you preferr.

What would you prefer? Since I don't think it really matters what I prefer. I am not going to date them. No offense ladies. All of your are lovely. Just not my style.

RE: Regrets

Regrets no, wish I had done somethings differently yes. Would I wish to change them. No. Every place I have passed in life. Gave me the life I have. My life has been blessed with love and family. And everything always ended up just how it was meant to be. Regardless of me and my actions or inactions.

RE: How was your day?

Just starting my day if it is half as good as the last two I will be happy

RE: if you knew BajanBlue

Did not know her. But have looked at the link. Sorry for your saddness mindful

RE: Shameless request for liquor!!! LOL

Hey Hope your not hung over. Do you need a hair of the dog that bit you? I have found since I am not a regular drinker that malibu coconut rum and pinapple juice is a good drink and not high in alcohol content. At least that is what they tell me

RE: The Site

I was on it off and on all day yesterday. No problems. But I only had problems occassionally. But when I did it wasn't fun. I don't think the site ever went down.

RE: Dknew

Just wanted to bump this thread back up just in case someone did not see it that might would of wanted to know

RE: Shameless Request for flowers

Must of got your flower box fixed so you have a flower in there. Hope you get to feeling better Must be in the air. Earlier I was hit all of a sudden with a pang of saddness.

RE: Drops.......love links....

Have not seen you in a while. Click click.

RE: Dknew

Did not know you two were brothers. So sorry for your loss. I only knew him from here. But he was very nice. The last thing I seen him post that made me smile was something on the way of saying he was only looking for someone who would not flatten his motorcycle tires. Otherwise he did not care if she was slender or what. I will miss him and his post.

RE: Single personality

When I thought of my future it was not with out him in it. Sometimes life throws us a curve ball. No you don't have to like it. But think of what he would of wanted. Not you being sad. I miss mine too. Every day. But I have family friends and children. But what I always saw for my future is gone. I now have no clear picture. But I try to make the most of what I have.

RE: Single personality

The way you posted it it sounded to me like you lived every minute in his shadow. Just for him. As if he was your only form of entertainment in life. I to am a stay at home type. Try joining things that are in the area of stuff you like. Maybe a book club. My mom told me once to make good female friends in life. Because these would be the women when I was older that would be there for me. She was right. So turn to your female friends. Do nights in playing games dominos, chess or something. But also go to dinner and movies with them. Learn to laugh. Laugh at being alive. Sorry I mistook your post

RE: Single personality

I am totally baffled by this. I was married for decades. My husband passed away. I loved even the air that man breathed but I always remained my own person. Yes we enjoyed doing things together. And we did not live seperate lives. We did not become each others lives. We became an extention to one anothers life. We loved we did not conquer each other. I cannot help but to think of co dependent relationships when I read a sentence like that. Maybe one should rethink ones own side of the street before persueing down another street. I take it your last relationship ended due to something besides death. Unless suffocation was the cause.