Yes you only see the skin. Think of picking up a old book and reading it. You see the outside and it looks worn. The pages are not as firm as a new book. The reason for that is the story on the inside was far greater than the outside and many people have read it. So you really can not judge a book by its cover You are young and have yet to learn that a person that is good of heart is hard to come by. Looks are just decoration. The problem is with you. You feel like you are missing something. But would you find it in a beautiful woman. I think not. There will be times thru marriage when you will want to drop everything and run the other way. But ask yourself do you love that person enough not to hurt their feelings. I do wish you the best. But never make a big life time decission like that on the spur of the moment. Life changes from moment to moment from day to day. Also beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I sometimes think when we are young we just think to much
I have found a lot of times talking on the phone etc...can be hard with the difference of accents and languages. So I tend to shy away from that till I know someone a while. I also have a thick southern accent which even some americans have a hard time with
I haven't got a bit of advice for you . I don't know why you think you made the wrong selection for a wife. Four years and a child. I take that back I am going to give advice. Instead of looking for a way out why don't you look and see if this situation can be repaired? You know in the muslim culture how they look at relationships between men and women. And you know a divorce both you and her will be frowned upon. Sorry you are going thru this. But please do not emigrate as was suggested.
Wake up come to life. There is a whole well almost whole day left for fun and play. I need to do housework. But I think I am doing so good I may go and explore the world outside of my domain. I think I drank your other cup of coffee
I can not give you an informed answer for I have not enough information. But in general I believe that people act differently with different people. I had a friend whose boy friend used her for his own personal punching bag. They broke up. He started to date another one of my friends. I thought she was crazy to date him twenty years later they are still married and seem to of had none of the problems like he had in his first relationship. So I am convinced people can change and some do.
1) It has been in the nineties most the week. We have had a little rain nothing to brag about. But not suppose to today. And we do our temperature in fahrenheight. I think in celius it is 32 not sure not even sure of the spelling 2)Today I want to hang out at the house have a few projects I need to take care of but that can change at the drop of a hat. Sometimes I just run out the door to do other things 3) I am not telling and you can't make me
Yes but I did not understand what they were saying they were all talking at the same time Have you ever just walked out of a house without a reason for it and not say good bye or kiss my butt or anything to anyone?
Some men actual like women with a few extra pounds. And some don't. Different people like different things. And that is how life is. Some say tomato, some say tomatoe.
I leave my computer on to sites for hours and do house work and stuff don't know why. And have had a few people leave me messages after a nice message then a few hours later a message. I still can not help it I will walk off and get involved in something else
For the one hundred and one times this sums up heart break and pain "Our lives are better left to chance I could have missed the pain But I'd have had to miss the dance " I am so glad I did not miss the dance
RE: Wrong selection of wife ; what is its best solution now.
Yes you only see the skin. Think of picking up a old book and reading it. You see the outside and it looks worn. The pages are not as firm as a new book. The reason for that is the story on the inside was far greater than the outside and many people have read it. So you really can not judge a book by its cover You are young and have yet to learn that a person that is good of heart is hard to come by. Looks are just decoration. The problem is with you. You feel like you are missing something. But would you find it in a beautiful woman. I think not. There will be times thru marriage when you will want to drop everything and run the other way. But ask yourself do you love that person enough not to hurt their feelings. I do wish you the best. But never make a big life time decission like that on the spur of the moment. Life changes from moment to moment from day to day. Also beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I sometimes think when we are young we just think to much