JRT61 Forum Posts (149)

RE: tell me why

Because they are idiots, and cannot think of anything better to say.

No wonder the success rate on sites like this are low.

Best of luck xx

RE: Do you believe in love at first sight?

I completely and utterly believe it can happen... if you tweak it slightly.

Love is an emotion... you cannot LOVE someone simply by looking at them. Lust at first sight yes.

However, I do believe it is very easy to fall in love with someone extremely quickly. Sometimes, after even only brief communication with someone, you can learn a great deal, and if what you see and hear completely appeals to you, then yes, you can feel you love them.

Whether or not this is love in the truest sense is debatable, but I know from my own experiences that it can happen.

My ex completely bowled me over withn days, and I continued to feel that way about her for the next 4 years until we split. Even after she decided to end it, it took me 8 months to get away from the love I felt for her.

Never once did I question those initial feelings.

RE: It just puzzles me! (my rant!)

I must admit to feeling rather crappy for having given my opinion, but I would rather say it that hide behind falsehoods.

As for insulting a person for the way they look, their size, or anything else visually related, that is uncalled for, and any man that does it. not only lets himself down as a man, but as a person full stop.

You come across as a very likeable and caring person, and I am sure you will find what you seek. There truly is someone for everyone, and they often find us in the most unlikely of places.

The Forums are a good place for putting across your personality, which is hard to do in a profile comment, so as has been suggested, hang out here and get yourself known... you never know

Jeff x

RE: It just puzzles me! (my rant!)

It pains me to say this, but overweight ladies, whilst (in my experience) usually very bubbly, utgoing and personable, are just not attractive to the majority, and I assume the same can be said in reverse.

It is a fact that physical attraction is the foremost thing that brings 2 people together initially and in todays society, conditioning/media programming is all aimed towards the slimmer figure.

As I said above... and I really wish to stress this.. I personally do not find large women to my taste even if facially attractive (by large I refer to BBW as opposed to fuller figure), but I am fully aware that they are just as capable of love and fun and all other emotions as everyone else. In fact, often they are more loving and outgoing.

Sadly, and I am guilty of it even, it is a purely physical thing. We live in a visual and asthetic world, and that often extends even to our partners in life.

I do truly regret saying this, as I would have no intention of hurting your, or any other large persons feelings, but it is the truth.

Best of luck xx

RE: What Does This Term Mean To You?

Dire Straits song

RE: Hey Joe1962 Without the 1962, Good Jimmy Hendrix song

You're a good looking lady... move on.

It's enough that we suffer greatly at the end of long term relationships, without doing so after a brief encounter online.

You can abviuosly do better, and you will. Letit go, or it will eat you xxx

RE: What would you say is the most important thing about you that does NOT come thru on the forum.

I think it would have to be that I'm a nice guy... sounds very obvious I guess, but half the time I feel like I'm banging my head against a brick wall because there are so many players around.

RE: Which would you rather hear?

Well it's alright for some!!!

RE: Which would you rather hear?

RE: Which would you rather hear?

I remember when my ex, myself and my son were sat at dinner once and my son said “Mummy, why has daddy got so few hairs on his head?” he asked his mother.

“He thinks a lot,” she replied, and look at me quite pleased with herself for coming up with a good answer to expalin my shaven head.

Then he asked, “So why do you have so much hair?”

RE: Which would you rather hear?

One time I was considering having rabbits tattooed all over my head... I figured from a distance they might look like Hares!!!

RE: Which would you rather hear?

Surely that would be "Uhh... I am... uhh... lovin.. uhh... yoooooooooo"

RE: Which would you rather hear?

I hope not, or I don't stand a hope in hell

RE: Which would you rather hear?

Hmm... a different take... but I am IN love with you stil works for me... both sound being/doing, as the emphasis in either statement is on the word 'AM'

but I AM certainly warming to you

RE: Which would you rather hear?

I sway towards "I am in love with you".

To say "I love you" is a term of endearment... friends say it to friends, you say it to your family members.

"I am IN love with you" however, is much more a feeling of romance and commitment.



Thats my take!!

RE: Press two for English...WT_! That was I call placed within an English speaking area???

Ah... but when they say 'English' does that mean you'll be greeted with the message "Good aftenoon old chap. Jolly good of you to call, and may I say, Sir is sounding althogether marvelous".

or does it mean 'American English'... "Howdy bud, and thanks fer callin', ya sound purdy ok, so whats the problem?"

RE: MOST OF OLDER AND MARRIED MAN FIND MORE ATTRACTIVE WHAT IS THEIR SECRET?

I think I.... well.... erm... Hmmmm..... Vegemite or honey... it wasn't the product, it was the serving platter that concerned me

RE: MOST OF OLDER AND MARRIED MAN FIND MORE ATTRACTIVE WHAT IS THEIR SECRET?

... I'm ot man enough to handle 2 these days

RE: MOST OF OLDER AND MARRIED MAN FIND MORE ATTRACTIVE WHAT IS THEIR SECRET?

lol... I don't thik so... I genuinely do't like the guy... it would be a very short trip!!

RE: MOST OF OLDER AND MARRIED MAN FIND MORE ATTRACTIVE WHAT IS THEIR SECRET?

Kain brings out the worst in me... or the best in me... whichever way you look at it

RE: MOST OF OLDER AND MARRIED MAN FIND MORE ATTRACTIVE WHAT IS THEIR SECRET?

Virtually every woman I've even dated has been a redhead... I love trouble

RE: MOST OF OLDER AND MARRIED MAN FIND MORE ATTRACTIVE WHAT IS THEIR SECRET?

To quote my arch nemesis.... "Sheesh!!"

RE: MOST OF OLDER AND MARRIED MAN FIND MORE ATTRACTIVE WHAT IS THEIR SECRET?

REDHEADS!!!

RE: MOST OF OLDER AND MARRIED MAN FIND MORE ATTRACTIVE WHAT IS THEIR SECRET?

Don't flutter them eyelids at me young lady.... I'm as frustrated as any man could be already!!!

RE: MOST OF OLDER AND MARRIED MAN FIND MORE ATTRACTIVE WHAT IS THEIR SECRET?

RE: MOST OF OLDER AND MARRIED MAN FIND MORE ATTRACTIVE WHAT IS THEIR SECRET?

RE: MOST OF OLDER AND MARRIED MAN FIND MORE ATTRACTIVE WHAT IS THEIR SECRET?

Hmmm... that could beg a lot of questions

RE: MOST OF OLDER AND MARRIED MAN FIND MORE ATTRACTIVE WHAT IS THEIR SECRET?

RE: MOST OF OLDER AND MARRIED MAN FIND MORE ATTRACTIVE WHAT IS THEIR SECRET?

Tried and succeeded lol

4 years and a beautiful child together.

RE: MOST OF OLDER AND MARRIED MAN FIND MORE ATTRACTIVE WHAT IS THEIR SECRET?

Been there.... my most recent ex was substantially younger than me.

But... I was older than my 'potential' mother-in-law'.

My youngest son (between my ex and myself) is young enough to be my oldest sons son and young enough to be my grandson.

My oldest son was only 4 months younger than my ex...

Erm... it was a bit of a mess, and I'm a tidy guy these days lol