rider4u Forum Posts (1,361)

RE: Ignor ddddddddddddd or not ? please vote to know what to do

RE: What makes you say YES?

That's a lovely pic of you DF...I responded to Cathy because we seemed to be on the same page in many respects. And lucky I did

RE: Way is it so hard to find a good woman?

Keep the faith man...there are lots of good ones left. You just have to be patient. Or lucky...or both

RE: What's up with that?

Yup...here's yer sign

(his sign not yours)

RE: What's up with that?

With the whole world at your doorstep (figuratively) why waste any more time on this loser? You deserve better and he deserves the kiss off. Do you really think it is going to improve, you are a convenience to him and girl he's jerking your chain. Better no one than one who doesn't respect you. Good luck and make a better choice.

RE: Anxiety attacks !

Better meditation than medication

breathing exercises help to expand the consciousness and elevate the spirit

if you can centre your consciousness you will find that peaceful balance within

best of luck with the new job

RE: Question?

Because without it in the beginning it is just too dry and way too much work and distractions can get in the way. I prefer to have my total attention on my mate and chemistry makes it all the more fun.

RE: HI FOLKS.

maybe we should introduce bennyroy to "christine"

RE: If your life was on the line & it was kill or be killed would you be ready & willing to kill

In a heartbeat...not violent but will not let someone else be either.

RE: Your favourite Beatles song.

Her majesty's a pretty nice girl
But she doesn't have a lot to say

Boom boom boom boom

Her majesty's a pretty nice girl
But she changes from day to day

I'd like to tell that I love her a lot
But I'd sure need a belly full of wine

Her majesty's a pretty nice girl
And some day I'm going to make her mine

Oh yeah

Some day I'm going to make her mine



that's it hahahahahahahaha

RE: TONY CURTIS

What a great actor he was.

RE: One of our fellow CS members has suffered a loss

quote: do not be sorry but be thankful for hero's like my son and the others.for if it was not for them.we will not be the countries of the free world

I thank God for the brave people like your son and all of those who have died fighting for our freedom and continue to fight. My sincere condolences for your loss Tim and but your pride in his heroism rings true.

RE: Thanks to all

Awesome news


Cathy and I wish you all the happiness that you can handle...it couldn't have happened to a nicer lady (but Cathy might give you an argument over that)


Ontario is becoming the CS capital for success

RE: AFRICAN MEN ARE MORE ROMANTIC

But I bet it's "southern" Saskatchewan

RE: What Makes You Happy?

Catherine
Being in love
Being loved
Long motorcycle rides with soft landings
Spring, summer and fall (just not so crazy about winter)
Good friends

RE: Happy Birthday Hjfinaz....................

Happy Birthday...go for a ride for me, it's threatening rain here and cooling down for the autumn season.

RE: Cart first, horse later????

From another perspective, he may want to really have a child and wouldn't want marriage without one. If she were barren as the old folks used to say, then he wouldn't want her for a wife. Pretty cold but his reality. Not very nice but his love may have conditions.

RE: What is your most embarrassing moment?

I was about 11 years old and really starting to notice how beautiful women were. On a camping family holiday we had set up camp fairly close to these two gorgeous girls (18?) sunbathing in their bikinis and I was so gaga over them I didn't notice where I was running (catching a football) and ran smack into a wooden post (about 12" across) which knocked the wind out of me. I could have dug a hole and crawled into it at the time but now

RE: Would You Help Them Or Walk On By?

I usually think quickly on my feet so I would probably take a picture of the mugger with my cell phone and then tell him/her that their picture has been emailed to the police (caught in the act). Instead of physically intervening it would have the added result of making the perp rethink their choice of careers. If it was a fight I wouldn't hesitate to stop it.

RE: Funny pet names

Had black lab/red setter cross named "FINNIGAN"

seemed to suit him

RE: What have you always loved ever since you were a kid?

Raspberries

RE: EMOTIONS

From personal experience, it is very unhealthy to suppress your emotions. My main objective as a practicing alcoholic was to avoid emotional pain. By doing so from an early adolescent age I stunted my growth and maturity until I resolved the course of action and changed my tactics. I can remember as a child that an uncle promised to take me fishing with him and my cousin on a certain date and I waited for hours on the front steps for them to come. When they didn't, I consciously remember making the decision to never have expectation in others and therefore avoid the disappointment that followed. That decision stayed with me a daily course of action until I remade the decision in sobriety. I started using drugs (LSD in 1964) and eventually graduated to alcohol in my twenties and when I sobered up at 35 I had the emotional maturity of a 14 year old (my age when I started using). It has taken a long time to bring my chronological age and maturity level closer (doubt that I will ever completely catch up, but then again that's what keeps me young ). To repress your feelings is so unhealthy (watch that boss that seems so uptight and see how vindictive he is).

Bottom line is that I believe we all need to experience our emotions to their fullest (whether we choose to share them with the world is another topic) to garner the best experience in life and experience anything like real happiness.

Good topic MM

RE: Our Perfect Wedding Day

Congratulations on both counts, it's terrific to see such happiness and to give credit where it's due. I've also been fortunate to find my lady here but for you to have created life from it is a double miracle. Your smiles say it all.

RE: Attention:Postcard Virus!

Thanks DF...forwarned is forarmed

RE: Wish me Luck and Cross you're Fingers!

Well done...congratulations

What are you taking?

RE: ~~~~~Well would you Do the last person to view you???~~~~

HELL yeah

RE: ~~~~~Well would you Do the last person to view you???~~~~

Nope

RE: The Friend Zone

Well you seem like a nice young man and to be a gentleman as well puts you a step above a lot of other guys. Are the women you date your age, if so then try someone a little older (maybe up to 5 years). It is always more fun to learn than teach and they are also more likely to be more aware of the dating senario. As has been suggested, try a little smoozing on the second date and don't let them catagorize you as a friend only.
As woman get a little older, they tend to put as much emphasis on being friends as well as lovers so it is probably something that you will experience as you age. You are still very young and don't be in a rush to figure it all out (ain't gonna happen any time soon). Having the brains and nerve to put it out for discussion show that you capable of communicating with all ages and I wish you good luck in your search.

RE: Respect

Off to work...have fun all

RE: Respect

If that's true...my sincere condolences. Sometimes I can put both feet in there.