The Friend Zone (25)
BurninInAZ: Alright now i'm gonna try to write this without sounding too pathetic but i make no promises.
For pretty much my entire life (aka from about age 15 til now) i've had probably close to 20 some really good FRIEND GIRLS not to be confused with girl friends. I've always been a nice guy i'll take em out for dates to the movies, the coffee shop, to a japanese tea garden or somethin like that. most of them i'll start to feel something for them (its kind of hard not to when you spend so much time with a wonderful and pardon my language HOT girl. However whenever I tell them that i like them i get the age old "Oh but your like my brother" or the classic "But we're really good friends." (is friends with benefits out of the question?! yes yes it is)
Ok now i've heard the worst thing you can do with a girl that you REALLY like is actually tell her you like her but i think thats b.s. honestly why can't i be truthful as much as i am with anything else?
What is it that causes a guy to be put behind this wall of "Dont Screw Him"? Honestly I think i'm a decent looking guy, I'm far from Fabio but i still have my merits and always try to be a gentleman. Is it really just a case of nice guys finish last?
any advice would be appreciated.
For pretty much my entire life (aka from about age 15 til now) i've had probably close to 20 some really good FRIEND GIRLS not to be confused with girl friends. I've always been a nice guy i'll take em out for dates to the movies, the coffee shop, to a japanese tea garden or somethin like that. most of them i'll start to feel something for them (its kind of hard not to when you spend so much time with a wonderful and pardon my language HOT girl. However whenever I tell them that i like them i get the age old "Oh but your like my brother" or the classic "But we're really good friends." (is friends with benefits out of the question?! yes yes it is)
Ok now i've heard the worst thing you can do with a girl that you REALLY like is actually tell her you like her but i think thats b.s. honestly why can't i be truthful as much as i am with anything else?
What is it that causes a guy to be put behind this wall of "Dont Screw Him"? Honestly I think i'm a decent looking guy, I'm far from Fabio but i still have my merits and always try to be a gentleman. Is it really just a case of nice guys finish last?
any advice would be appreciated.
Sweetie, just lay one on her out of the blue.....awaken her senses a little bit. She might like it!
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BurninInAZ: Alright now i'm gonna try to write this without sounding too pathetic but i make no promises.
For pretty much my entire life (aka from about age 15 til now) i've had probably close to 20 some really good FRIEND GIRLS not to be confused with girl friends. I've always been a nice guy i'll take em out for dates to the movies, the coffee shop, to a japanese tea garden or somethin like that. most of them i'll start to feel something for them (its kind of hard not to when you spend so much time with a wonderful and pardon my language HOT girl. However whenever I tell them that i like them i get the age old "Oh but your like my brother" or the classic "But we're really good friends." (is friends with benefits out of the question?! yes yes it is)
Ok now i've heard the worst thing you can do with a girl that you REALLY like is actually tell her you like her but i think thats b.s. honestly why can't i be truthful as much as i am with anything else?
What is it that causes a guy to be put behind this wall of "Dont Screw Him"? Honestly I think i'm a decent looking guy, I'm far from Fabio but i still have my merits and always try to be a gentleman. Is it really just a case of nice guys finish last?
any advice would be appreciated.
For pretty much my entire life (aka from about age 15 til now) i've had probably close to 20 some really good FRIEND GIRLS not to be confused with girl friends. I've always been a nice guy i'll take em out for dates to the movies, the coffee shop, to a japanese tea garden or somethin like that. most of them i'll start to feel something for them (its kind of hard not to when you spend so much time with a wonderful and pardon my language HOT girl. However whenever I tell them that i like them i get the age old "Oh but your like my brother" or the classic "But we're really good friends." (is friends with benefits out of the question?! yes yes it is)
Ok now i've heard the worst thing you can do with a girl that you REALLY like is actually tell her you like her but i think thats b.s. honestly why can't i be truthful as much as i am with anything else?
What is it that causes a guy to be put behind this wall of "Dont Screw Him"? Honestly I think i'm a decent looking guy, I'm far from Fabio but i still have my merits and always try to be a gentleman. Is it really just a case of nice guys finish last?
any advice would be appreciated.
Who's Fabio?
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70Libra: Who's Fabio?
Some old dude that looks like a beat-up lion.....I saw him recently...
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NCC1968: Some old dude that looks like a beat-up lion.....I saw him recently...
Ah right... bit of a nobody then?
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70Libra: Who's Fabio?
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You need to start flirting big time... here is the best place to practice... 
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Well, Carpe Diem Darlin...If you are attracted to a girl, step up and kiss her! If not the first date, then definately the second. Let her know right away BEFORE you get sent to the friend zone aka the land of no return. You wont be any worse off. I also see something else. I think that when you meet the right one (and you will) you will have so much to offer in what you have learned from all these G'friends. After all a gentleman who knows when not to be AND understands a ladies heart??? YOu my friend are a real catch! I would wish you luck darlin, but you really dont need it. 
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BurninInAZ: Alright now i'm gonna try to write this without sounding too pathetic but i make no promises.
For pretty much my entire life (aka from about age 15 til now) i've had probably close to 20 some really good FRIEND GIRLS not to be confused with girl friends. I've always been a nice guy i'll take em out for dates to the movies, the coffee shop, to a japanese tea garden or somethin like that. most of them i'll start to feel something for them (its kind of hard not to when you spend so much time with a wonderful and pardon my language HOT girl. However whenever I tell them that i like them i get the age old "Oh but your like my brother" or the classic "But we're really good friends." (is friends with benefits out of the question?! yes yes it is)
Ok now i've heard the worst thing you can do with a girl that you REALLY like is actually tell her you like her but i think thats b.s. honestly why can't i be truthful as much as i am with anything else?
What is it that causes a guy to be put behind this wall of "Dont Screw Him"? Honestly I think i'm a decent looking guy, I'm far from Fabio but i still have my merits and always try to be a gentleman. Is it really just a case of nice guys finish last?
any advice would be appreciated.
Your friends are shy. Keep telling, yes, true, but I am not your brother so how about being more intimate?My opinionn . You are super handsome. Try again be honest , Tell them your feelings close up and then kiss. Their loss f they pass. You have to have some game. You will be ok. Just your age. Keep at it Romeo You will be fine .I promise. Keep smiling and flirting. Soon you will be married and happy for ever after. For pretty much my entire life (aka from about age 15 til now) i've had probably close to 20 some really good FRIEND GIRLS not to be confused with girl friends. I've always been a nice guy i'll take em out for dates to the movies, the coffee shop, to a japanese tea garden or somethin like that. most of them i'll start to feel something for them (its kind of hard not to when you spend so much time with a wonderful and pardon my language HOT girl. However whenever I tell them that i like them i get the age old "Oh but your like my brother" or the classic "But we're really good friends." (is friends with benefits out of the question?! yes yes it is)
Ok now i've heard the worst thing you can do with a girl that you REALLY like is actually tell her you like her but i think thats b.s. honestly why can't i be truthful as much as i am with anything else?
What is it that causes a guy to be put behind this wall of "Dont Screw Him"? Honestly I think i'm a decent looking guy, I'm far from Fabio but i still have my merits and always try to be a gentleman. Is it really just a case of nice guys finish last?
any advice would be appreciated.
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In response to: Alright now i'm gonna try to write this without sounding too pathetic but i make no promises.
For pretty much my entire life (aka from about age 15 til now) i've had probably close to 20 some really good FRIEND GIRLS not to be confused with girl friends. I've always been a nice guy i'll take em out for dates to the movies, the coffee shop, to a japanese tea garden or somethin like that. most of them i'll start to feel something for them (its kind of hard not to when you spend so much time with a wonderful and pardon my language HOT girl. However whenever I tell them that i like them i get the age old "Oh but your like my brother" or the classic "But we're really good friends." (is friends with benefits out of the question?! yes yes it is)
Ok now i've heard the worst thing you can do with a girl that you REALLY like is actually tell her you like her but i think thats b.s. honestly why can't i be truthful as much as i am with anything else?
What is it that causes a guy to be put behind this wall of "Dont Screw Him"? Honestly I think i'm a decent looking guy, I'm far from Fabio but i still have my merits and always try to be a gentleman. Is it really just a case of nice guys finish last?
any advice would be appreciated.
For pretty much my entire life (aka from about age 15 til now) i've had probably close to 20 some really good FRIEND GIRLS not to be confused with girl friends. I've always been a nice guy i'll take em out for dates to the movies, the coffee shop, to a japanese tea garden or somethin like that. most of them i'll start to feel something for them (its kind of hard not to when you spend so much time with a wonderful and pardon my language HOT girl. However whenever I tell them that i like them i get the age old "Oh but your like my brother" or the classic "But we're really good friends." (is friends with benefits out of the question?! yes yes it is)
Ok now i've heard the worst thing you can do with a girl that you REALLY like is actually tell her you like her but i think thats b.s. honestly why can't i be truthful as much as i am with anything else?
What is it that causes a guy to be put behind this wall of "Dont Screw Him"? Honestly I think i'm a decent looking guy, I'm far from Fabio but i still have my merits and always try to be a gentleman. Is it really just a case of nice guys finish last?
any advice would be appreciated.
hmmmmmm
difficult to answer I thinkwhat you wrote sounds very nice though ...to me
but we cannot see the whole "movie"
I would say, do not change your attitude, but you need to find out, how to bring it over...
maybe you are being too brisk?
like a dashing gentleman? 
maybe you are too slimy?
maybe you are more matured than the girls you are going out with
find it out yourself
we all had to go through
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BurninInAZ: Alright now i'm gonna try to write this without sounding too pathetic but i make no promises.
For pretty much my entire life (aka from about age 15 til now) i've had probably close to 20 some really good FRIEND GIRLS not to be confused with girl friends. I've always been a nice guy i'll take em out for dates to the movies, the coffee shop, to a japanese tea garden or somethin like that. most of them i'll start to feel something for them (its kind of hard not to when you spend so much time with a wonderful and pardon my language HOT girl. However whenever I tell them that i like them i get the age old "Oh but your like my brother" or the classic "But we're really good friends." (is friends with benefits out of the question?! yes yes it is)
Ok now i've heard the worst thing you can do with a girl that you REALLY like is actually tell her you like her but i think thats b.s. honestly why can't i be truthful as much as i am with anything else?
What is it that causes a guy to be put behind this wall of "Dont Screw Him"? Honestly I think i'm a decent looking guy, I'm far from Fabio but i still have my merits and always try to be a gentleman. Is it really just a case of nice guys finish last?
any advice would be appreciated.
For pretty much my entire life (aka from about age 15 til now) i've had probably close to 20 some really good FRIEND GIRLS not to be confused with girl friends. I've always been a nice guy i'll take em out for dates to the movies, the coffee shop, to a japanese tea garden or somethin like that. most of them i'll start to feel something for them (its kind of hard not to when you spend so much time with a wonderful and pardon my language HOT girl. However whenever I tell them that i like them i get the age old "Oh but your like my brother" or the classic "But we're really good friends." (is friends with benefits out of the question?! yes yes it is)
Ok now i've heard the worst thing you can do with a girl that you REALLY like is actually tell her you like her but i think thats b.s. honestly why can't i be truthful as much as i am with anything else?
What is it that causes a guy to be put behind this wall of "Dont Screw Him"? Honestly I think i'm a decent looking guy, I'm far from Fabio but i still have my merits and always try to be a gentleman. Is it really just a case of nice guys finish last?
any advice would be appreciated.
Well you seem like a nice young man and to be a gentleman as well puts you a step above a lot of other guys. Are the women you date your age, if so then try someone a little older (maybe up to 5 years). It is always more fun to learn than teach and they are also more likely to be more aware of the dating senario. As has been suggested, try a little smoozing on the second date and don't let them catagorize you as a friend only.
As woman get a little older, they tend to put as much emphasis on being friends as well as lovers so it is probably something that you will experience as you age. You are still very young and don't be in a rush to figure it all out (ain't gonna happen any time soon). Having the brains and nerve to put it out for discussion show that you capable of communicating with all ages and I wish you good luck in your search.
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Just go by your intuition. If you feel she's not feeling it don't push it. You don't want to lose a friend if she's that important to you. You're a good lookin guy and probably are a good catch as you seem to really respect women. Keep your eyes open, she'll come along soon. But at the same time don't be in a rush. Your young. Go out and have fun!
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BurninInAZ: Alright now i'm gonna try to write this without sounding too pathetic but i make no promises.
For pretty much my entire life (aka from about age 15 til now) i've had probably close to 20 some really good FRIEND GIRLS not to be confused with girl friends. I've always been a nice guy i'll take em out for dates to the movies, the coffee shop, to a japanese tea garden or somethin like that. most of them i'll start to feel something for them (its kind of hard not to when you spend so much time with a wonderful and pardon my language HOT girl. However whenever I tell them that i like them i get the age old "Oh but your like my brother" or the classic "But we're really good friends." (is friends with benefits out of the question?! yes yes it is)
Ok now i've heard the worst thing you can do with a girl that you REALLY like is actually tell her you like her but i think thats b.s. honestly why can't i be truthful as much as i am with anything else?
What is it that causes a guy to be put behind this wall of "Dont Screw Him"? Honestly I think i'm a decent looking guy, I'm far from Fabio but i still have my merits and always try to be a gentleman. Is it really just a case of nice guys finish last?
any advice would be appreciated.
For pretty much my entire life (aka from about age 15 til now) i've had probably close to 20 some really good FRIEND GIRLS not to be confused with girl friends. I've always been a nice guy i'll take em out for dates to the movies, the coffee shop, to a japanese tea garden or somethin like that. most of them i'll start to feel something for them (its kind of hard not to when you spend so much time with a wonderful and pardon my language HOT girl. However whenever I tell them that i like them i get the age old "Oh but your like my brother" or the classic "But we're really good friends." (is friends with benefits out of the question?! yes yes it is)
Ok now i've heard the worst thing you can do with a girl that you REALLY like is actually tell her you like her but i think thats b.s. honestly why can't i be truthful as much as i am with anything else?
What is it that causes a guy to be put behind this wall of "Dont Screw Him"? Honestly I think i'm a decent looking guy, I'm far from Fabio but i still have my merits and always try to be a gentleman. Is it really just a case of nice guys finish last?
any advice would be appreciated.
hmmmm... how do i put this in short terms??????
YES !!!!
learn to hit it and quit it bro... otherwise you are gonna be here in 10-20 years asking the same question !!!!!
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MetalMilitia: hmmmm... how do i put this in short terms??????
YES !!!!
learn to hit it and quit it bro... otherwise you are gonna be here in 10-20 years asking the same question !!!!!
YES !!!!
learn to hit it and quit it bro... otherwise you are gonna be here in 10-20 years asking the same question !!!!!
Ignore him!!! He's the worse person to give advice!
I just saw your new pic MM, just as I'm going off to sleep. I hope I don't have nightmares now. Thanks for that.
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BurninInAZ: Alright now i'm gonna try to write this without sounding too pathetic but i make no promises.
For pretty much my entire life (aka from about age 15 til now) i've had probably close to 20 some really good FRIEND GIRLS not to be confused with girl friends. I've always been a nice guy i'll take em out for dates to the movies, the coffee shop, to a japanese tea garden or somethin like that. most of them i'll start to feel something for them (its kind of hard not to when you spend so much time with a wonderful and pardon my language HOT girl. However whenever I tell them that i like them i get the age old "Oh but your like my brother" or the classic "But we're really good friends." (is friends with benefits out of the question?! yes yes it is)
Ok now i've heard the worst thing you can do with a girl that you REALLY like is actually tell her you like her but i think thats b.s. honestly why can't i be truthful as much as i am with anything else?
What is it that causes a guy to be put behind this wall of "Dont Screw Him"? Honestly I think i'm a decent looking guy, I'm far from Fabio but i still have my merits and always try to be a gentleman. Is it really just a case of nice guys finish last?
any advice would be appreciated.
For pretty much my entire life (aka from about age 15 til now) i've had probably close to 20 some really good FRIEND GIRLS not to be confused with girl friends. I've always been a nice guy i'll take em out for dates to the movies, the coffee shop, to a japanese tea garden or somethin like that. most of them i'll start to feel something for them (its kind of hard not to when you spend so much time with a wonderful and pardon my language HOT girl. However whenever I tell them that i like them i get the age old "Oh but your like my brother" or the classic "But we're really good friends." (is friends with benefits out of the question?! yes yes it is)
Ok now i've heard the worst thing you can do with a girl that you REALLY like is actually tell her you like her but i think thats b.s. honestly why can't i be truthful as much as i am with anything else?
What is it that causes a guy to be put behind this wall of "Dont Screw Him"? Honestly I think i'm a decent looking guy, I'm far from Fabio but i still have my merits and always try to be a gentleman. Is it really just a case of nice guys finish last?
any advice would be appreciated.
it's a test to see if you remain true to urself or get off track and loose urself cos of rejection but the choice will always remain with you ... the only other thing I'll say hun, is do urself a favour and don't waste ur time worrying about it cos life's to short.
as others have said... when the right one comes along you'll be fine ...
cheers and all the best
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Jake_J: A moodle
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I think what you're asking us to do, is give you feedback on your behaviour, (what am I doing wrong???) without us knowing what your behaviour is like.
We can say you're too forward, or you're not forward enough, or for god's sake don't pick your nose and flick it in her coffee, because we're not there to see that.
The only thing we can really give you feedback on, is the information in front of us.
Hun, you are a stunningly beautiful young man.
Jac xxx
PS. Deadbutwhy is right, join in the forums. Its fun and you learn loads.
We can say you're too forward, or you're not forward enough, or for god's sake don't pick your nose and flick it in her coffee, because we're not there to see that.
The only thing we can really give you feedback on, is the information in front of us.
Hun, you are a stunningly beautiful young man.
Jac xxx
PS. Deadbutwhy is right, join in the forums. Its fun and you learn loads.
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Dude, stop being a nice guy.
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For pretty much my entire life (aka from about age 15 til now) i've had probably close to 20 some really good FRIEND GIRLS not to be confused with girl friends. I've always been a nice guy i'll take em out for dates to the movies, the coffee shop, to a japanese tea garden or somethin like that. most of them i'll start to feel something for them (its kind of hard not to when you spend so much time with a wonderful and pardon my language HOT girl. However whenever I tell them that i like them i get the age old "Oh but your like my brother" or the classic "But we're really good friends." (is friends with benefits out of the question?! yes yes it is)
Ok now i've heard the worst thing you can do with a girl that you REALLY like is actually tell her you like her but i think thats b.s. honestly why can't i be truthful as much as i am with anything else?
What is it that causes a guy to be put behind this wall of "Dont Screw Him"? Honestly I think i'm a decent looking guy, I'm far from Fabio but i still have my merits and always try to be a gentleman. Is it really just a case of nice guys finish last?
any advice would be appreciated.