I euthanised my ego many, many moons ago but it still comes back to haunt me occasionally, much to my chagrin. I try not to take much seriously for the most part. I originally came here because of curiousity and now I'm a lifer. Hell of a sentence!
Robert, you are an intelligent, articulate, caring and attractive young man! I think you'll do well here. There's no need for other somewhat questionable sites.
The leaves have already changed here and they're starting to fall off the trees. e've had several night below freezing and plenty of frost for almost a month now.
If you enjoy the other person's company then it doesn't really matter what you're doing. It's just getting to know the other person and if it works out then you can do all the other interesting and fun stuff without any pressure or worries. Even being hogtied. If that's what you like.
RE: what woman want?
That's part of the package!