I only know one American who has a sense of humour who has me in a fit of giggles constantly and that lady is crazyblondeonr and I know a zillion Americans.
If someone wants to confide in me I refuse to want to know because what use to happen was I would never betray their trust in repeating their trust in me.
But they would betray me by eventually opening up to others who would find out I knew from the beginning which made the others feel betrayed by me for keeping my mouth shut.
Now if people want to confide in me I say I'm not interested.
RE: Down under
Eveñ though we have showers st our gym people prefer to go home and sheet me included.