Ocee35 Forum Posts (3,852)

RE: who should you trust the most ? your lover / parents ? family /children ? friends / comrades ? god ?

I trust all of the people mentioned

to do the things that people do.

RE: are all woman over forty playing hard to get or just like to tease ya

Retrained in under 20 pages.


I think that may be a new record...

I uh, gotta run, have to mow the basement.













*makes mental note not to stay in one thread too long*

RE: Is it okay to answer your cell phone while out with a friend or on a date?

......

Guys don't pull that stunt. It's not that we have better manners,

it's just that leaving our friends bored in our house...

is asking for trouble.

Time...

Absolutely Cards, it is a choice...

A choice I am more comfortable with because I trust that when when I am ready to climb through those windows again, new ones will open for me.

Armor Fati(love fate), a concept introduced to me here, by Marina.

RE: What good thing happened during your day?

I was reminded when it comes to friendship,

how vastly superior quality is to quanitity.

Instrumentals...

Great stuff, thank you for all the help...

Time...

Everything exists within the frame work of time,

had a moment today, an open window as it were,

but I'm not crawling through those windows right now,

and when I am again that window will have long since closed,

I've never learned to manufacture these moments,

or a time.










Armor Fati, thank you old friend.

We can build...

Gonna consider that a rhetorical question,

don't want go being pretentious tonight....

RE: Is it okay to answer your cell phone while out with a friend or on a date?

I answer my phone, if the caller wants a lengthy conversation, I explain that I'm busy and end the call,

I have no problem with my date doing the same.

Instrumentals...

Thanks Siren( ) I hadn't thought of meditation oriented recordings.

Good idea!

RE: Time for another of my "kinder, more "gentle" questions...

I find very little comfort looking back at any of my past relationships, but one exception to that is that they were all opportunities to learn.

Marriage is a something I'm pretty nuetral about, not something I seek, but am open to with someone I'm in a long term relationship with, if it's important to them. My approach to relationships is more of a one day at a time for as long as it works for both of us, and when someone wants out, it's time to let them go.
Oddly enough my "one day at a time" attitude seems to have a longer shelf life than alot of peoples "til death do us part".

RE: What is 'Mind Games'

Playing the fool is part of being in situations that are beyond us at the time,

but being in them is the best way to learn how to be in them.


Couldn't agree more, it's all about growing.


What we were is almost nothing, when put on the scale with what we become.

RE: BIG PROBLEM

Run.

RE: What is 'Mind Games'

Some people play those games, I have no doubt, but suspect the reputation is alot worse than the reality.

Behavior is such a subjective topic, and when we're hurting it's much easier to blame and accuse than to look at ourselves.



As with your ex, he may well have believed what he said, and while his logic was terminally flawed,

if he believed what he was saying it wasn't a game, just foolish.

RE: What is 'Mind Games'

Starting an argument so you have an excuse to leave the house and go bar-hopping for the night.

Feigning disinterest in the hopes that the other person will confuse their discomfort with rejection, with an emtional attachment to you.

Attempting to make your partner take responsibily for your bad acts.

Claiming to feel something you don't.

.....

....

...

..

RE: want to have friends...

Hi Heart, nice to meet you too.

Making friends here is alot like making friends anywhere else.

RE: "I bet you live further away from me than I do."

I'd marry her, and never wash another dish...

"No honey, I did dishes last night, it's your turn tonight."

Instrumentals...

Thanks Cards I'll give him a listen.

Instrumentals...

When I'm thinking or writing, sometimes I like to listen to music,

the rythym and note changes seem to help with flow, but I find the vocals can be intrusive.

Any artist recommendations?

RE: What is your favorite quote?

George Carlin may be the most qoutable man to ever live.




By and large, language is a tool for concealing the truth. George Carlin

RE: do guys really like nice gals?

Yup, big fan of nice women. If a woman's nasty or mean,

I'll be nothing but a memory,

most likely a short one.

RE: Do girls really want the nice guy?

Sorry Stef, we killed all the nice guys,

the rest of us didn't like the competition.

RE: Do girls really want the nice guy?

Or the Snickers commercial one?

We can build...

We can build spaceships, nuclear submarines, and one hundred story skyscrapers

but we still can't build a damn faucet that doesn't leak.

drip..

drip..

drip..

drip..

RE: Online Dating Question

Anytime...

RE: Online Dating Question

KK..straight from the hip.


This ain't shopping for car insurance, there is no "compare and save" here, the two situations deserve to be evaluated independently of each other,

but your "we're just following up leads here" attitude is dead on in my opinion.

RE: Online Dating Question

Can't argue with that.

RE: What women want....

As far as I can can tell all they really want is a friend,

that makes their toes wiggle.

RE: Visitng the USA - Recommendations

Perhaps the Grand Canyon, the climate there shouldn't support many mosquitos as far as I know,

and I believe there is still a substantial native american influence in the area.

I have never been myself, so this is just a reccomendation of a location for you to look into.

RE: ~*~Whatcha got playin' over there?~*~

Ev'nin DLN...




Pink: Who Knew