Online Dating Question (39)
cardsfan24: Ok, let's say your talking to someone, and well it's so up and down like a roller coaster you can't think straight. In the meantime you have friends that mail you and you mail them.
You start being attracted to another friend...that mails ya know the one that's the rollercoaster relationship.
50% percent wants to go and just keep talking because your realizing that maybe that's not a relationship you want to pursue...you would rather pursue your friend that mails ya.
Well, the friend that mails ya, thinks you flirt like crazy and jump girl to girl,
So what would the advice be...
It' s not my situation so to speak, or is it...well nah lol, it's a friend's but im helpin..
You start being attracted to another friend...that mails ya know the one that's the rollercoaster relationship.
50% percent wants to go and just keep talking because your realizing that maybe that's not a relationship you want to pursue...you would rather pursue your friend that mails ya.
Well, the friend that mails ya, thinks you flirt like crazy and jump girl to girl,
So what would the advice be...
It' s not my situation so to speak, or is it...well nah lol, it's a friend's but im helpin..
Hello
I think I have got the jist of this.
'YOur friend' has been in touch with a girl, then he is attracted to another girl who he is in touch with?
YOu are not committed to one person, so therefore, you are free to pursue whichever avenue you want.
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Sommerauer71: Hello
I think I have got the jist of this.
'YOur friend' has been in touch with a girl, then he is attracted to another girl who he is in touch with?
YOu are not committed to one person, so therefore, you are free to pursue whichever avenue you want.
That was my advice.....too...i mean no commentment...then no relationship RIGHT?I think I have got the jist of this.
'YOur friend' has been in touch with a girl, then he is attracted to another girl who he is in touch with?
YOu are not committed to one person, so therefore, you are free to pursue whichever avenue you want.
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cardsfan24: That was my advice.....too...i mean no commentment...then no relationship RIGHT?
Cardsfan
If you feel the first girl is not giving you anything to hold onto, then you go where ever you want.
You are an adult, you are free to make your own choices, without any explanation, if you have entered a union that you are not happy with or not getting what you feel you want from the communication, or you want to be friends, then be honest, do not make it complicated.
I am in touch with a few people on here, I make it completely clear of where I am coming from, they know the score, so if they sulk or become snide, I state that I have been honest from the start.
Nobody owns you, only you, you go where you want to my darling and enjoy any communication and what it may lead to.
If anybody has a problem with that, then that is their problem and only theirs.
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cardsfan24: That was my advice.....too...i mean no commentment...then no relationship RIGHT?
That's what I think too...if they never agreed to a relationship then...they are free to date or pursue whomever they choose...but I would also let the other person know that's what they intend to do!!!!!!!!!
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Sommerauer71: Cardsfan
If you feel the first girl is not giving you anything to hold onto, then you go where ever you want.
You are an adult, you are free to make your own choices, without any explanation, if you have entered a union that you are not happy with or not getting what you feel you want from the communication, or you want to be friends, then be honest, do not make it complicated.
I am in touch with a few people on here, I make it completely clear of where I am coming from, they know the score, so if they sulk or become snide, I state that I have been honest from the start.
Nobody owns you, only you, you go where you want to my darling and enjoy any communication and what it may lead to.
If anybody has a problem with that, then that is their problem and only theirs.
Very well damn put...k.. good advice here...If you feel the first girl is not giving you anything to hold onto, then you go where ever you want.
You are an adult, you are free to make your own choices, without any explanation, if you have entered a union that you are not happy with or not getting what you feel you want from the communication, or you want to be friends, then be honest, do not make it complicated.
I am in touch with a few people on here, I make it completely clear of where I am coming from, they know the score, so if they sulk or become snide, I state that I have been honest from the start.
Nobody owns you, only you, you go where you want to my darling and enjoy any communication and what it may lead to.
If anybody has a problem with that, then that is their problem and only theirs.
And busted i am...lol
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No commitment hon, you are merely getting to know someone. There is no harm in getting to know other people as well. Now if the other girl is feeling like you are in some sort of relationship your friend might want to make that clear (politely)...
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Hugz_n_Kissez: That's what I think too...if they never agreed to a relationship then...they are free to date or pursue whomever they choose...but I would also let the other person know that's what they intend to do!!!!!!!!!
Yeah but confusion sets in so much shelley, cuz it's so funny with trolls and stuf y akow what imtalkin about there...------ This thread is Archived ------
DaisyChick: No commitment hon, you are merely getting to know someone. There is no harm in getting to know other people as well. Now if the other girl is feeling like you are in some sort of relationship your friend might want to make that clear (politely)...
good to see ya around 
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cardsfan24: Very well damn put...k.. good advice here...
And busted i am...lol
And busted i am...lol
You do what is right for you, you only have a responsibility to you, unless of course, you have promised to marry, girl no 1.
Then you have a responsibility to that commitment.
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Sommerauer71: Cardsfan
If you feel the first girl is not giving you anything to hold onto, then you go where ever you want.
You are an adult, you are free to make your own choices, without any explanation, if you have entered a union that you are not happy with or not getting what you feel you want from the communication, or you want to be friends, then be honest, do not make it complicated.
I am in touch with a few people on here, I make it completely clear of where I am coming from, they know the score, so if they sulk or become snide, I state that I have been honest from the start.
Nobody owns you, only you, you go where you want to my darling and enjoy any communication and what it may lead to.
If anybody has a problem with that, then that is their problem and only theirs.
If you feel the first girl is not giving you anything to hold onto, then you go where ever you want.
You are an adult, you are free to make your own choices, without any explanation, if you have entered a union that you are not happy with or not getting what you feel you want from the communication, or you want to be friends, then be honest, do not make it complicated.
I am in touch with a few people on here, I make it completely clear of where I am coming from, they know the score, so if they sulk or become snide, I state that I have been honest from the start.
Nobody owns you, only you, you go where you want to my darling and enjoy any communication and what it may lead to.
If anybody has a problem with that, then that is their problem and only theirs.
Nicely put
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cardsfan24: good to see ya around
Yeah I have been a ninja lately
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cardsfan24: Yeah but confusion sets in so much shelley, cuz it's so funny with trolls and stuf y akow what imtalkin about there...
Yeah I know...I just meant to make it clear so that there is no misunderstanding...you are dating others or whatever the case may be because that's what dating is...however some may see it differently!!!!!!!
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Hugz_n_Kissez: Yeah I know...I just meant to make it clear so that there is no misunderstanding...you are dating others or whatever the case may be because that's what dating is...however some may see it differently!!!!!!!
Oh cripes I just read you're only talking to the first one...then no...you don't have to say anything...do your own thing and you don't owe any explanations...Just as summer said!!!!!!!!!
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Sommerauer71: You do what is right for you, you only have a responsibility to you, unless of course, you have promised to marry, girl no 1.
Then you have a responsibility to that commitment.
sommer howd you get so damn smart...Then you have a responsibility to that commitment.
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Hugz_n_Kissez: Oh cripes I just read you're only talking to the first one...then no...you don't have to say anything...do your own thing and you don't owe any explanations...Just as summer said!!!!!!!!!
yep stick with me, i know confusin...just tryin to figure out what would this all be considered in ppls minds...cuz i know what my mind is like...------ This thread is Archived ------
cardsfan24: Ok, let's say your talking to someone, and well it's so up and down like a roller coaster you can't think straight. In the meantime you have friends that mail you and you mail them.
You start being attracted to another friend...that mails ya know the one that's the rollercoaster relationship.
50% percent wants to go and just keep talking because your realizing that maybe that's not a relationship you want to pursue...you would rather pursue your friend that mails ya.
Well, the friend that mails ya, thinks you flirt like crazy and jump girl to girl,
So what would the advice be...
It' s not my situation so to speak, or is it...well nah lol, it's a friend's but im helpin..
You start being attracted to another friend...that mails ya know the one that's the rollercoaster relationship.
50% percent wants to go and just keep talking because your realizing that maybe that's not a relationship you want to pursue...you would rather pursue your friend that mails ya.
Well, the friend that mails ya, thinks you flirt like crazy and jump girl to girl,
So what would the advice be...
It' s not my situation so to speak, or is it...well nah lol, it's a friend's but im helpin..
Hi cards, lots of good advice being given to you. All I'd like to add is, as long as that person is being completely honest, and not playing mind/emotional games, then just see where it all leads
If there is obvious 'discomfort' in a relationship, online, or not, something ain't right 
That friend just needs to be careful that it doesn't turn into a 'web of intrigue', gets so messy then :, so best to keep it simple and stay cool 
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Right you are, see that's what i think this whole online thing is to just come here have funn with friends and if ya email a few girls than do that, just check out leads maybe there is somethin there maybe there ain't------ This thread is Archived ------
cardsfan24: Right you are, see that's what i think this whole online thing is to just come here have funn with friends and if ya email a few girls than do that, just check out leads maybe there is somethin there maybe there ain't
Yeh cards, you're the man!
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cardsfan24: just check out leads maybe there is somethin there maybe there ain't
Can't argue with that.
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You start being attracted to another friend...that mails ya know the one that's the rollercoaster relationship.
50% percent wants to go and just keep talking because your realizing that maybe that's not a relationship you want to pursue...you would rather pursue your friend that mails ya.
Well, the friend that mails ya, thinks you flirt like crazy and jump girl to girl,
So what would the advice be...
It' s not my situation so to speak, or is it...well nah lol, it's a friend's but im helpin..