Online Dating Question ( Archived) (39)

Aug 18, 2008 2:43 AM CST Online Dating Question
cardsfan24
cardsfan24cardsfan24somewhere in paradise, Illinois USA40 Threads 1 Polls 5,169 Posts
Ocee35: Can't argue with that.
come on ocee...give me the non sugar coated advice...what do you think bro?
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Aug 18, 2008 2:45 AM CST Online Dating Question
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
cardsfan24: come on ocee...give me the non sugar coated advice...what do you think bro?



Well you and I talk...do you think you need to consult me before you talk to someone else???




UMMMMMM NOOOOOOO...so why would you have to anyone else.........wink comfort hug teddybear hug bouquet
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Aug 18, 2008 2:46 AM CST Online Dating Question
iamsimply
iamsimplyiamsimplyHolland Landing, Ontario Canada15 Threads 6 Polls 166 Posts
In any scenario the prime thing is to not compromise yourself with dishonesty! I believe a woman will respect you and understand if your open and honest and if she doesn't ... well that's not your problem, it's hers. Every time you say or do something stupid people will remember and you undermine yourself especially with dishonesty. Build a code of ethics ans live by them, change them if need be but stick to them and you will never feel bad about something you have don!beer conversing dancing
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Aug 18, 2008 2:48 AM CST Online Dating Question
cardsfan24
cardsfan24cardsfan24somewhere in paradise, Illinois USA40 Threads 1 Polls 5,169 Posts
iamsimply: In any scenario the prime thing is to not compromise yourself with dishonesty! I believe a woman will respect you and understand if your open and honest and if she doesn't ... well that's not your problem, it's hers. Every time you say or do something stupid people will remember and you undermine yourself especially with dishonesty. Build a code of ethics ans live by them, change them if need be but stick to them and you will never feel bad about something you have don!
hmm...damn you threw me acurvball, i like that though and your right code of ethics, i forgot that dammit.l..
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Aug 18, 2008 2:50 AM CST Online Dating Question
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
cardsfan24: hmm...damn you threw me acurvball, i like that though and your right code of ethics, i forgot that dammit.l..



He's right...if you're always you...open and honest...which I know you are...then there is no need to second guess any decision you make!!!!!!!!!!


wink comfort hug
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Aug 18, 2008 2:51 AM CST Online Dating Question
Ocee35
Ocee35Ocee35Jackson, Michigan USA69 Threads 2 Polls 3,852 Posts
cardsfan24: come on ocee...give me the non sugar coated advice...what do you think bro?


KK..straight from the hip.


This ain't shopping for car insurance, there is no "compare and save" here, the two situations deserve to be evaluated independently of each other,

but your "we're just following up leads here" attitude is dead on in my opinion.
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Aug 18, 2008 2:53 AM CST Online Dating Question
cardsfan24
cardsfan24cardsfan24somewhere in paradise, Illinois USA40 Threads 1 Polls 5,169 Posts
Ocee35: KK..straight from the hip.This ain't shopping for car insurance, there is no "compare and save" here, the two situations deserve to be evaluated independently of each other,

but your "we're just following up leads here" attitude is dead on in my opinion.
That's what i knew ocee was gonna give me, right on no b.s....thanks bro

Shelley your right i guess i teeter totter sometimes,...dunno why
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Aug 18, 2008 2:59 AM CST Online Dating Question
Ocee35
Ocee35Ocee35Jackson, Michigan USA69 Threads 2 Polls 3,852 Posts
cardsfan24: That's what i knew ocee was gonna give me, right on no b.s....thanks bro



Anytime...cheers
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Aug 18, 2008 3:03 AM CST Online Dating Question
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
cardsfan24: That's what i knew ocee was gonna give me, right on no b.s....thanks bro

Shelley your right i guess i teeter totter sometimes,...dunno why



Yes but if you go by what you say and see things clearly as they are...which is talking...and it's only up and down and that's it...which is the getting to know someone part....then just keep that in mind and follow it...oh and the other part is...your decisions are yours not someone elses to make...who cares what other people think...as long as you stay true to who you are????????


That's the part you have to stop doing...hug teddybear hug bouquet
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Aug 18, 2008 3:04 AM CST Online Dating Question
cardsfan24
cardsfan24cardsfan24somewhere in paradise, Illinois USA40 Threads 1 Polls 5,169 Posts
Ya know what i think ...almost the hell with dating...lol im gonna become a monk...
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Aug 18, 2008 3:07 AM CST Online Dating Question
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
cardsfan24: Ya know what i think ...almost the hell with dating...lol im gonna become a monk...



Now ya know where I'm at.....angel angel grin
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Aug 18, 2008 3:08 AM CST Online Dating Question
Lagoona22
Lagoona22Lagoona22Bugibba, Majjistral Malta161 Threads 11 Polls 10,711 Posts
I'm already a monk....shaved my hair off, and taken an oath of celibacy....


doh


Hugz_n_Kissez: Now ya know where I'm at.....
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Aug 18, 2008 3:09 AM CST Online Dating Question
cardsfan24
cardsfan24cardsfan24somewhere in paradise, Illinois USA40 Threads 1 Polls 5,169 Posts
Lagoona22: I'm already a monk....shaved my hair off, and taken an oath of celibacy....
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Aug 18, 2008 3:15 AM CST Online Dating Question
iamsimply
iamsimplyiamsimplyHolland Landing, Ontario Canada15 Threads 6 Polls 166 Posts
Now your just trying to get all those love starved nuns upset!!beer dancing
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Aug 18, 2008 3:15 AM CST Online Dating Question
cardsfan24
cardsfan24cardsfan24somewhere in paradise, Illinois USA40 Threads 1 Polls 5,169 Posts
iamsimply: Now your just trying to get all those love starved nuns upset!!
that's it im gonna og dig a whole and hidelaugh
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Aug 18, 2008 3:17 AM CST Online Dating Question
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
Lagoona22: I'm already a monk....shaved my hair off, and taken an oath of celibacy....



I haven't shaved my hair yet.....professor roll eyes grin wave
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Aug 18, 2008 6:03 AM CST Online Dating Question
venere08
venere08venere08Puglia and Autumn, South Australia Australia121 Threads 2 Polls 9,996 Posts
cardsfan24: Ya know what i think ...almost the hell with dating...lol im gonna become a monk...


Hey cards, don't rush into it, otherwise you will run the risk of making a 'monkery' of relationships rolling on the floor laughing

Seriously though, take your time professor . Check out the best monasteries. As you know, monks make the best liquers, and they have all the secret recipes. Infiltrate, but do it sensitively laugh
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Aug 18, 2008 6:37 AM CST Online Dating Question
fireliter
fireliterfireliterAllen Park, Michigan USA502 Threads 14 Polls 5,902 Posts
cardsfan24: Ok, let's say your talking to someone, and well it's so up and down like a roller coaster you can't think straight. In the meantime you have friends that mail you and you mail them.
You start being attracted to another friend...that mails ya know the one that's the rollercoaster relationship.

50% percent wants to go and just keep talking because your realizing that maybe that's not a relationship you want to pursue...you would rather pursue your friend that mails ya.

Well, the friend that mails ya, thinks you flirt like crazy and jump girl to girl,

So what would the advice be...

It' s not my situation so to speak, or is it...well nah lol, it's a friend's but im helpin..


If this is the case and their assumption is "dead wrong," they should ask themselves what kind a friend are they to you really.

I've always found generalization as compared to total honesty works when you are attracted to more than one. Some things one should just not reveal in the beginning stages of a possible budding relationship.
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Aug 18, 2008 7:52 AM CST Online Dating Question
slim1977
slim1977slim1977my heart will always be in, Tennessee USA16 Threads 943 Posts
quick and dirty advice not knowing the whole situations, go with the heart, if she feals he jumps girl to girl, the bigest thing he has to go is prove to hear that he has real fealings for her.
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