In any scenario the prime thing is to not compromise yourself with dishonesty! I believe a woman will respect you and understand if your open and honest and if she doesn't ... well that's not your problem, it's hers. Every time you say or do something stupid people will remember and you undermine yourself especially with dishonesty. Build a code of ethics ans live by them, change them if need be but stick to them and you will never feel bad about something you have don!
iamsimply: In any scenario the prime thing is to not compromise yourself with dishonesty! I believe a woman will respect you and understand if your open and honest and if she doesn't ... well that's not your problem, it's hers. Every time you say or do something stupid people will remember and you undermine yourself especially with dishonesty. Build a code of ethics ans live by them, change them if need be but stick to them and you will never feel bad about something you have don!
hmm...damn you threw me acurvball, i like that though and your right code of ethics, i forgot that dammit.l..
Ocee35: KK..straight from the hip.This ain't shopping for car insurance, there is no "compare and save" here, the two situations deserve to be evaluated independently of each other,
but your "we're just following up leads here" attitude is dead on in my opinion.
That's what i knew ocee was gonna give me, right on no b.s....thanks bro
Shelley your right i guess i teeter totter sometimes,...dunno why
cardsfan24: That's what i knew ocee was gonna give me, right on no b.s....thanks bro
Shelley your right i guess i teeter totter sometimes,...dunno why
Yes but if you go by what you say and see things clearly as they are...which is talking...and it's only up and down and that's it...which is the getting to know someone part....then just keep that in mind and follow it...oh and the other part is...your decisions are yours not someone elses to make...who cares what other people think...as long as you stay true to who you are????????
cardsfan24: Ya know what i think ...almost the hell with dating...lol im gonna become a monk...
Hey cards, don't rush into it, otherwise you will run the risk of making a 'monkery' of relationships
Seriously though, take your time . Check out the best monasteries. As you know, monks make the best liquers, and they have all the secret recipes. Infiltrate, but do it sensitively
cardsfan24: Ok, let's say your talking to someone, and well it's so up and down like a roller coaster you can't think straight. In the meantime you have friends that mail you and you mail them. You start being attracted to another friend...that mails ya know the one that's the rollercoaster relationship.
50% percent wants to go and just keep talking because your realizing that maybe that's not a relationship you want to pursue...you would rather pursue your friend that mails ya.
Well, the friend that mails ya, thinks you flirt like crazy and jump girl to girl,
So what would the advice be...
It' s not my situation so to speak, or is it...well nah lol, it's a friend's but im helpin..
If this is the case and their assumption is "dead wrong," they should ask themselves what kind a friend are they to you really.
I've always found generalization as compared to total honesty works when you are attracted to more than one. Some things one should just not reveal in the beginning stages of a possible budding relationship.
slim1977my heart will always be in, Tennessee USA943 posts
quick and dirty advice not knowing the whole situations, go with the heart, if she feals he jumps girl to girl, the bigest thing he has to go is prove to hear that he has real fealings for her.
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