That is so true....like for instance....I cannot stand a guy to wear pointed toed boots....just sends me in the other direction....and I am attracted to dimples...beards....moustaches....just a few visuals....I think visuals come first then personalities follow....when we get aroused....I am not as easily impressed these days....as I was when I was younger....by visuals....maybe because of the bi-focals....
Believe me I am tired and worn out of choosing those rotten tomatoes!!!! I'm ready for a nice plump ripe juicy one....aged to the ripened stage w/ a little shine to it!!!! Bring it on....I know...I know....heh one can dream a little.....
When I worked as a preachers wife and in a Radiology Dept....I always tried my best to remember....someday I will be this age....where will I be? My step-father was the proud Air Force guy retired...now to see him depending on others and deminishing (sp.)before our eyes is so hard...especially the loosing of his bladder control....he was so embarrassed by that.....it pains those around them also....
Sounded to me that it was highly likely the one who made the cell call to his son....atleast the way the reporter reported....my prayers go out to those families....when I was two my Father drowned and was missing for two weeks...my poor Mother was pregnant w/my brother at the time.....and only nineteen....
I think its due to our societal changes....women are more independent....and more and more guys are depending on women to be the bread winner....atleast that's the way I see it where I live....its a tourist area....so many jobs were taken by people they had shipped in from different countries....women are not as controlled by men anymore....they stand on their own.....
Every person is different...as is every gesture...my first husband gave me flowers to say I'm sorry...I hated that...I personaly do not like bought flowers very often....I like the wild ones...that take time to pick....but like I said everyone is different...thats how the florest shoppes make their money....at the time of death...I detest them...only one arrangement is plenty...I told my daughter only one in carnations....the rest can be candles...flowers are beautiful...and I would be greatful...and probably would not state my attitude about them until I really got to know someone very well....
So true....I've had the luck lately...hoping perhaps some wisdome will come soon....maybe Santa Baby can help me....ooops no...I don't mean the one below that wants diapers for Christmas.....
TabooN....Yes in my dysfunctional family....always....My Natural Fathers Mother is 102 and her advice is not to even claim I belong to any of them....Grandma is pretty wise...
Thats a thought...I do know he bought it from his first cousin...I was standing there when he talked him into it and at what price...I guess public record and deeds would have that at the County Courthouse...guess I'll go and dig it up....
Recently....since my step-fathers entrance into Medicare....I have found that my own natural mother has put fifty two acres of land only into the youngest two siblings name....Background....My Father drowned when I was two and Mom was pregnant w/my only whole Brother...she got double indemity life insurance from my Father death which in 1954 was twenty thousand dollars....she also received Social Security checks for my brother and I during the eighteen years we were at home....She remarried my step-father nine months later...he was an airman and a staff sgt for fifteen of those years and they had five more children together...I worked from the time I was nine years old oft and on ....babysitting ect. for my own money....our money went to pay for this land...since I heard conversations at night about this....He (my step-father controlled everything financially) Mother did not even know how to write a check when he was put in long-term eight months ago....my baby half-brother has handled everything. A lot of people have advised me to seek legal help about this....anyone out there know of any cases won on this type of matter?
I suppose everyone has an opinion...so here's mine....If the persons you have been w/in the past would leave you without any explanations...then I don't believe their was a very trusting friendship there from the beginning, surely not in the end..l.which in my opionion comes before all the depth of emotional love, unconditional love (if love is unconditional then these loves would have had a discussion w/you) I can only guess that from their perspective there was not even a good healthy friendship there....Yes, I do believe that there is a possibility of love at first sight...and yes, I do believe I have seen those work...but that has never happened for me but once...and we were great friends for two years before anything else....when your young I think we have more time...as we grow older we sometimes try to rush into things....
Why does it rain? The skies atmoshphere is full....to make things grow...to cleanse the earth? Perhaps thats why we cry tears...Just a thought...I do that sometimes...lol
I have been throught so much also.....my sister dying of breast cancer in 2000....now my step-father w/leukemia....I can't even remember the last Christmas that I wasn't alone...I have my grown teenage sons...but no partner.....be so thankful for those memories....and in the future cherish the little things....hold them tight....my prayers are w/you...that you find that peace during this holiday season.....
He gave me twenty dollars to play on a few weeks ago....I won...he had th balls to want half...after all the times in the past I gave him money to play...I never saw half...I guess you know where I told him to go and jump....I took every cent and invested it...so I can be free of him once and for all....
I provide shelter, food, heat and his car insurance/Like a dummy I co-signed for his recent vehicle/or else he could not have insured it or gotten his tag...I ask for three hundred a month rent...he give me a hard time about for three months now...he pays my utilites and fifty car ins./ totalling one hundred sixty five dollars/ and took the rest of his social security and blew it gambling....
Perhaps you are visiting the wrong places....try some other hangouts....that you normally don't go to....I'm talking about places you would not mind taking your Mom...respectable ones...I am guilty of this very same ole same ole....I guess because its our comfort zone....get out and try some new places....enjoy life a little...notice all the little things that you are attracted to....and most of all appreciate them....
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RE: Why people judge others based only in their appearance?
That is so true....like for instance....I cannot stand a guy to wear pointed toed boots....just sends me in the other direction....and I am attracted to dimples...beards....moustaches....just a few visuals....I think visuals come first then personalities follow....when we get aroused....I am not as easily impressed these days....as I was when I was younger....by visuals....maybe because of the bi-focals....