What makes me wonder... ( Archived) (17)

well said, but i do think someone's bragging...lol

sometimes it feels like a lifetime to find someone who wants what you have to give, and you know that if a lady is treated well.... a TRUE lady will spoil the man just as well, but in her own way.... and you know if you find someone who has never been treated with respect you need to have patience... when all a woman has known is abusive relationships it's hard to not be afraid when someone good shows up....it's hard to believe and to let go so she can embrace her feelings

I think you are generalising just a tiny bit! How many more guy models do we see with equally beautiful model girls, how many 'bad' guys do we see with equally 'bad' girls?

My point is that I think you are seeing things that do not truly reflect true life, or relationships, perhaps because you are feeling a bit sorry for yourself?

OUCH!!!!!!!!!!!!!

For one...Chances are if the women are hanging around the guys with drugs more than likely they do them too. It is kind of irrelevant if they are nice looking girls or not, that is only the outside It is who you are not how you look that counts the most. Those women you see hanging around with the druggies, would you really see yourself being with them personally seeing the company they keep or would you look for someone who more shares your morals?

I am sure that there are many more attractive women out there and some of them may find you attractive...I dunno


Good luck!

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Carry On!...NEXT!!!

That was your first mistake, dont compare yourself to most of society. In my opinion, society is messed up, infact most of the couples are not really happy. Our divorce rate is higher than ever. Pople married or got together for the wrong reasons. ie: chemistry, not wanting to be alone, too hard to support themself (money, desire for dual income). In my opinion people today just "settle". They settle becuase they throw their morals and values right out the window, they disregard their dreams and desires they were looking for, they did that because of the reasons I listed above. And becuase that needle in the hay stack they think cannot be found. Also, In my opinion the man and women lost their roles in society. Family values have gone straight out the window. Women have become head of the household because they have control issues and the men have gone along with it because of their need to be accepted and loved. The men in society let womens lib take over, that in my opinion is why this world is falling apart. Now this is why I am still single. I want to marry my best friend, I only want to marry once. I have my standards and dreams and refuse to settle for less. I would rather be happy and unmarried than married and sad and ultimately divorced. I expect the men to take their headship back. I am not saying the women should be at home and pregnant, but what happen to the family values, what happened to the male and female roles, what are we waiting for a female president and for all hell to break loose. Just my thoughts

Some women believe any man is better than no man and will settle for anything or anyone that offers to take her home. They feel life is meaningless if they don't have a man, even if he's not a "prize".

(check out the type of men women fight over on Maury or Springer sometime).

hey,
good point.