Sweetie, I am so very sorry that you are going through such a terrible and hurtful time.. all I can tell you and I know it's not much comfort, is time and friends will be you best way to get past this.. you will never truly stop hurting, but in time it will get better.. Hey, if you need a friend to talk to, I will be there for you.. I know what it's like to lose someone you love and care for.. and I don't mind helping you.. anytime you need to talk..
RE: What would you do if.........
Why would someone go that far and not sever ties? there must be something else going on.. best advice, don't waste time on a man like that...