I am not afraid. I am fine with being alone, I have been alone for over ten months now. Didn't look, didn't date. But I know that I have the desire to share my love with someone special. Whoever that may be.
I had an experience in 2003, being hit by a car that made me realize the value of life as it is having faced near death. I took a whole new outlook on life and how we take it for granted. Death is something to me.
Oh another one, This is actually a lunch one but it'll give you time to prepare A bacon, lettuce, and tomato sandwich on pita bread. I just toasted it dry in a skillet. Yummy!!
Anyone ever have a fried egg sandwich on toast with mayo & ketchup? I know it sounds discusting. My brother made them one morning while we were camping. I was shocked, they are actually very good. Kevin
We seem to be sharing alot of the same pain lately eh kat? Good luck hon, Trust is out there you just need to find the right one to share it with Kevin
thanks kat, sorry to here about your mom. I've lost my dad, gf and sister in law in the last 6 years, and quite a few friends. cancer is a hard battle to deal with. my prayers are with you. Kevin
I just need to vent a little. I am going to a cancer benefit tomorrow for a very close friend of mine who is dying of cancer. Her days are few. I am no longer attatched and wish that I would have been able to show the love that I have to that special someone. My daughter won't be around for Christmas, therefore it will be the first time I have been alone during this holiday. I was SO looking forward to Christmas this year. I will be alright I just have been seeing things wither and I am the type that everyday is usually a good day. This kind of hit the heart.
Couldn't sleep! Been waking up every couple hours. That sucks! In my case I wasn't eluding the truth, I have a criminal background and after getting to know each other I wanted her to know that I wasn't trying to hide my past. It just didn't fit into her life or what she wanted. In my opinion, like I said before what happened 15 years ago should be at least be given some concideration, or merit and you have moved beyond that. You should not just abandon the other person with no explanation if you ever had any respect for that person.
It is an option and one that would be respected. Its just not the way I would deal with it if I felt that person was making an honest approach at trying by laying all their cards on the table. Everyone has a past, and everyone has things they are not proud of. If I was faced with the situation I would do what was right for me. And by doing so, I would give that person the concideration of moving on if they were being upfront.
Yes I would definitely want to know their past, and I would respect their honesty. If an alcoholic had quit drinking for 15 years, and said it would never happen again, I would question their sincerety, but knowing that they fought the battle, not I,I would give them my respect for being honest. They would know what could happen if they relapsed. The result would be detrimental to all those around them. If they were honest about all phases of the situation, I would at the very least give them my concideration. Not kick them to the curb.
I just needed to validate my own thoughts here. I agree that it is the right thing to do at whatever cost, and yes the way you go about it is essential. thanks guys.
RE: Are You Afraid To Fall In Love?
I am not afraid. I am fine with being alone, I have been alone for over ten months now. Didn't look, didn't date. But I know that I have the desire to share my love with someone special. Whoever that may be.