The problem we face is one of political correctness It is impossible to even tell someone the truth about an issue without this person becoming offended. Even when this truth needs to be known for the good of the person involved.
You tell someone they should consider a diet, they are offended tell them you are concerned that their children need to be on a stricter diet with more exercise, again they are offended. Even when done in the most caring and sensitive manner.
I realize this is a sensitive subject, and there are some with thyroid, and metabolic disorders. This is the exception. If this one issue was better addressed, it would be a great relief on the health care problems that many nations face today.
Obesity has become one of the major problems of America, and many other western nations.
RE: Guys! I need a guy's perspective!
Why, instead of trying to over analyze this,don`t you just ask him? If you and he are as friendly as you say
you are, then there is no reason this would be a risk to the
relationship. Be honest and forthcoming, I think he will appreciate
that. Isn`t that the way you`ve always been with him?