True, but some people just go out of their way to take away other people's choices. It isn't as though there aren't plenty of places that you cannot have children so why ruin it for people who don't want to have to deal with children? You're just an a**hole if you want to go out of your way to make peoples lives miserable.
It was an apartment building. As a parent, I would choose to have some room to move, a bit of a yard at least so the kids weren't cooped up inside all the time. It isn't about money, it is about freedom of choice that you can live in an environment that suits you and I don't think that asking for a peaceful environment without noisy kids is too much to ask for. I have kids and I wouldn't expect to live in an environment full of people who don't know what it is like to have children anyway. It is just looking to make bad blood with your neighbours but if you are a person who likes to invite drama into your life, then why not, do it just to piss people off.
Sorry to hear that Maybe you were too good for her. At least you found out before the wedding went ahead I suppose. Doesnt bring much peace I know, but probably saved a lot more headaches.
I understand that you are still entitled to go out to dinner and other activities when you have children and of course if you don't do these things then they don't learn appropriate behaviour in those environments but I just don't see how other people are not entitled to create a space that caters for their preferences without some smartarse bucking the trend because they get their noses out of joint that they are not included.
I was watching ACA last night who were making a big deal out of an apartment block who refused to allow people with children or expecting children to buy into it. Apparently this is against the law but I question why? Why can't people who aren't fans of screaming annoying children have a peaceful space to live? And does this mean I have every right as a mother with kids to maybe buy into a retirement village? Surely they can't discriminate against me because I am not old??
When I went to China, I holidayed without my kids because I wanted respite from them, then I had to put up with someone else's kids who were on the tour with us. It didn't ruin my holiday, but it would have been a hell of a lot better without them there.
I get sick of hearing about people who want to get into something that is not for them. Why can't we leave people in their comfort zones without having to interfere? If you love kids so much, go and live next to a creche or something.
I am struggling with the concept that someone would hack themselves up just in case they may get cancer. I can understand if someone did actually get it, but just in case?? I know she had an 87% chance of getting it which is very high but she also had a 13% chance that she wouldn't. Also after the procedure, she will still have a 5% chance of getting it so what is she going to do in case the mastectomy doesn't work? She is also considering having her ovaries removed because she also has a 50% chance of getting ovarian cancer.
I just feel it is a defeatist attitude that you are going to get something and all these procedures come with their own risks also. Why sacrifice quality of life just in case of anything? Stay inside wrapped up in cotton wool in case you get run over by a bus.
I agree, and I think you can take what you like from any culture and religion to use what suits you. I don't think we need to pigeonhole ourselves into one belief system and I think if more people did this instead of conforming to structured belief systems we would be far more balanced within ourselves.
Next time try giving the wine to the kid. Just kidding.
Glad to hear you got her down. It is very stressful when that happens and I think it just gets worse the more you stress, the more they do. Enjoy your wine
It didn't really bother me much until after the second time I was held up at work. I am typically a very strong & independent person but having to come home to an empty bed after 2 big ordeals like that in the middle of the night did leave me feeling very isolated and lonely. It would be nice to have a pair of strong manly arms to wrap around me sometimes.
Just suck it up. You aren't going to be everyone's cup of tea and there is no point pretending you can be. Better to spend your energy trying to find someone who does want you instead of worrying about those who don't.
It isn't unfair either, maybe if you were on the receiving end of some of the harassing people out there you will understand why the blocking feature is there. There is also a reporting feature so if you harass people who dont want you contacting them then you may find yourself booted off the site and your profile closed down.
My wife and I were sitting at a table at her high school reunion, and she kept staring at a drunken man swigging his drink as he sat alone at a nearby table.
I asked her, 'Do you know him?'
'Yes,' she sighed,
'He's my old boyfriend.... I understand he took to drinking right after we split up those many years ago, and I hear he hasn't been sober since.'
'My God!' I said,
'Who would think a person could go on celebrating that long?'
RE: Is anybody watching Eurovision?)))
I don't see much tv, didnt know it was being aired and I am really not into it anyway. Struggling to see what all the fuss is about the Voice.Are you a fan?