why does finding love have to bo so complicated? ( Archived) (29)

May 15, 2013 8:05 PM CST why does finding love have to bo so complicated?
ynotleon69
ynotleon69ynotleon69Tuscaloosa, Alabama USA73 Threads 21 Polls 798 Posts
i thought i found the perfect one. then it goes strait to hell over her old flame. time to shave me head and become a monk.
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May 15, 2013 8:14 PM CST why does finding love have to bo so complicated?
Bogart_1960
Bogart_1960Bogart_1960Ask me !, Provence-Alpes-Cote d'Azur France36 Threads 1 Polls 10,012 Posts
ynotleon69: i thought i found the perfect one. then it goes strait to hell over her old flame. time to shave me head and become a monk.


this week she has green eyes and red hair.. last week she was blonde, and she had blue eyes. i don’t know.... but i know is that she is my soul mate... something like this will docheers
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May 15, 2013 9:18 PM CST why does finding love have to bo so complicated?
Kasih
KasihKasihJakarta, Indonesia1 Threads 67 Posts
ynotleon69: i thought i found the perfect one. then it goes strait to hell over her old flame. time to shave me head and become a monk.


they say relationship is like a haunted house on the inside, you walk confidently toward the house you saw but once you're inside then .. BAM

anything can happen.

But the thing is, nothing will ever happen if you dont come in.
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May 15, 2013 9:19 PM CST why does finding love have to bo so complicated?
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
ynotleon69: i thought i found the perfect one. then it goes strait to hell over her old flame. time to shave me head and become a monk.


No, say it isn't so. shock jaw drop hug
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May 15, 2013 9:45 PM CST why does finding love have to bo so complicated?
Cyn_Real
Cyn_RealCyn_RealHappily Taken,, New Territories Hong Kong3 Threads 515 Posts
ynotleon69: i thought i found the perfect one. then it goes strait to hell over her old flame. time to shave me head and become a monk.


women don't like Mr.KnowEverythingButDoesn'tKnowAnything...and stalkers...
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May 15, 2013 9:45 PM CST why does finding love have to bo so complicated?
jono7
jono7jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 8,017 Posts
i don't think it has to be complicated.
folks make it complicated for themselves. (myself included)
i find that i only get into trouble when i become concerned about getting love rather than giving, or being, love.
wine
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May 15, 2013 9:48 PM CST why does finding love have to bo so complicated?
montemonte
montemontemontemonteunknown, New Jersey USA114 Threads 4 Polls 5,631 Posts
ynotleon69: i thought i found the perfect one. then it goes strait to hell over her old flame. time to shave me head and become a monk.



You mean the proposal is off shock

I guess you don't need anymore ideas from us sigh
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May 15, 2013 9:51 PM CST why does finding love have to bo so complicated?
montemonte
montemontemontemonteunknown, New Jersey USA114 Threads 4 Polls 5,631 Posts
jono7: i don't think it has to be complicated.
folks make it complicated for themselves. (myself included)
i find that i only get into trouble when i become concerned about getting love rather than giving, or being, love.



I'm the opposite Jono. I used to be able to fall in love because deep down I was a romantic.

I think it's great when someone loves you but I think it's greater when you love someone.
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May 15, 2013 10:03 PM CST why does finding love have to bo so complicated?
purr4mance
purr4mancepurr4manceCleveland, Ohio USA4,825 Posts
jono7: i don't think it has to be complicated.
folks make it complicated for themselves. (myself included)
i find that i only get into trouble when i become concerned about getting love rather than giving, or being, love.


I know.

It's ridiculous

too much analyzing
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May 15, 2013 10:04 PM CST why does finding love have to bo so complicated?
emerald888
emerald888emerald888wicklow, Wicklow Ireland2 Threads 1,054 Posts
ynotleon69: i thought i found the perfect one. then it goes strait to hell over her old flame. time to shave me head and become a monk.


I thought you were looking for marriage ideas???confused
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May 15, 2013 11:57 PM CST why does finding love have to bo so complicated?
ynotleon69
ynotleon69ynotleon69Tuscaloosa, Alabama USA73 Threads 21 Polls 798 Posts
emerald888: I thought you were looking for marriage ideas???
yeah... everything was going realy great. she was even more into the marriage idea than me. and then poofconfused i just don't get it. she says she has never been this happy with anyone else. her whole family is mad at her for hurting me. but i will find someone. grin i never stay sad very long. lif is too short to stop trying. learning and laughing is always beter than staying hurt or stressing.wave
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May 16, 2013 12:04 AM CST why does finding love have to bo so complicated?
leo1shay
leo1shayleo1shayToronto, Ontario Canada2 Threads 161 Posts
ynotleon69: i thought i found the perfect one. then it goes strait to hell over her old flame. time to shave me head and become a monk.


jaw drop I am shocked wow
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May 16, 2013 12:12 AM CST why does finding love have to bo so complicated?
snagsmoore
snagsmooresnagsmooremelbourne, Victoria Australia13 Threads 1 Polls 411 Posts
ynotleon69: i thought i found the perfect one. then it goes strait to hell over her old flame. time to shave me head and become a monk.


blues Sorry to hear that sad flower Maybe you were too good for her. At least you found out before the wedding went ahead I suppose. Doesnt bring much peace I know, but probably saved a lot more headaches.

Good luck for your future.
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May 16, 2013 12:14 AM CST why does finding love have to bo so complicated?
snagsmoore
snagsmooresnagsmooremelbourne, Victoria Australia13 Threads 1 Polls 411 Posts
jono7: i don't think it has to be complicated.
folks make it complicated for themselves. (myself included)
i find that i only get into trouble when i become concerned about getting love rather than giving, or being, love.


What a lovely sentiment. Unfortunately a lot of people are all about themselves these days, just gotta find the good eggs.
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May 16, 2013 12:43 AM CST why does finding love have to bo so complicated?
langleygirl
langleygirllangleygirlWestlock, Alberta Canada70 Threads 8,202 Posts
ynotleon69: i thought i found the perfect one. then it goes strait to hell over her old flame. time to shave me head and become a monk.
Sorry to hear that, but I have to wonder at the amount of time you spent getting to know her first before getting so involved? It seemed extremely fast, so maybe love isn't so complicated, but its also about taking the time to get to know people and whether they are a good match for us.
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May 16, 2013 12:47 AM CST why does finding love have to bo so complicated?
ynotleon69
ynotleon69ynotleon69Tuscaloosa, Alabama USA73 Threads 21 Polls 798 Posts
snagsmoore: Sorry to hear that Maybe you were too good for her. At least you found out before the wedding went ahead I suppose. Doesnt bring much peace I know, but probably saved a lot more headaches.

Good luck for your future.
thanxhug i am glad it didn't go on longer. i would actualy be more upset.... but its against my nature to be sad. or my religion for that matter. i read it in my goofball handbook. laugh
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May 16, 2013 12:53 AM CST why does finding love have to bo so complicated?
ynotleon69
ynotleon69ynotleon69Tuscaloosa, Alabama USA73 Threads 21 Polls 798 Posts
langleygirl: Sorry to hear that, but I have to wonder at the amount of time you spent getting to know her first before getting so involved? It seemed extremely fast, so maybe love isn't so complicated, but its also about taking the time to get to know people and whether they are a good match for us.
thats a verry wise statement.professor unfortunately, being a romantic is harder to see logic when happiness blinds us from the truth. .. and it seems like the happier we are, the more pain we endure. never the less, we try.
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May 16, 2013 12:58 AM CST why does finding love have to bo so complicated?
langleygirl
langleygirllangleygirlWestlock, Alberta Canada70 Threads 8,202 Posts
ynotleon69: thats a verry wise statement. unfortunately, being a romantic is harder to see logic when happiness blinds us from the truth. .. and it seems like the happier we are, the more pain we endure. never the less, we try.
Happiness can indeed blind us, and truly I've learned that painful lesson as well (a few times!!!) but hopefully we learn to take it slower. hug
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May 16, 2013 1:00 AM CST why does finding love have to bo so complicated?
Love will find us when we are not so complicated!
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May 16, 2013 1:16 AM CST why does finding love have to bo so complicated?
Harleyquinn
HarleyquinnHarleyquinnBetwixt the stix, Illinois USA10 Threads 1,707 Posts
ynotleon69: thanx i am glad it didn't go on longer. i would actualy be more upset.... but its against my nature to be sad. or my religion for that matter. i read it in my goofball handbook.


shock wow You mean there's really a handbook for us?

Can you give me that link, I mean after all, it couldn't hurt! Right?confused dunno grin


Best of luck & yes, it's not easy to, but try to take things a bit slower! If she's worth it, she'll be right along with you!!!!

Sounds good anyway, doesn't it? I don't know a damn thing!rolling on the floor laughing





SHANTIsad flower wine
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