ynotleon69: i thought i found the perfect one. then it goes strait to hell over her old flame. time to shave me head and become a monk.
this week she has green eyes and red hair.. last week she was blonde, and she had blue eyes. i don’t know.... but i know is that she is my soul mate... something like this will do
i don't think it has to be complicated. folks make it complicated for themselves. (myself included) i find that i only get into trouble when i become concerned about getting love rather than giving, or being, love.
jono7: i don't think it has to be complicated. folks make it complicated for themselves. (myself included) i find that i only get into trouble when i become concerned about getting love rather than giving, or being, love.
I'm the opposite Jono. I used to be able to fall in love because deep down I was a romantic.
I think it's great when someone loves you but I think it's greater when you love someone.
jono7: i don't think it has to be complicated. folks make it complicated for themselves. (myself included) i find that i only get into trouble when i become concerned about getting love rather than giving, or being, love.
emerald888: I thought you were looking for marriage ideas???
yeah... everything was going realy great. she was even more into the marriage idea than me. and then poof i just don't get it. she says she has never been this happy with anyone else. her whole family is mad at her for hurting me. but i will find someone. i never stay sad very long. lif is too short to stop trying. learning and laughing is always beter than staying hurt or stressing.
ynotleon69: i thought i found the perfect one. then it goes strait to hell over her old flame. time to shave me head and become a monk.
Sorry to hear that Maybe you were too good for her. At least you found out before the wedding went ahead I suppose. Doesnt bring much peace I know, but probably saved a lot more headaches.
jono7: i don't think it has to be complicated. folks make it complicated for themselves. (myself included) i find that i only get into trouble when i become concerned about getting love rather than giving, or being, love.
What a lovely sentiment. Unfortunately a lot of people are all about themselves these days, just gotta find the good eggs.
ynotleon69: i thought i found the perfect one. then it goes strait to hell over her old flame. time to shave me head and become a monk.
Sorry to hear that, but I have to wonder at the amount of time you spent getting to know her first before getting so involved? It seemed extremely fast, so maybe love isn't so complicated, but its also about taking the time to get to know people and whether they are a good match for us.
snagsmoore: Sorry to hear that Maybe you were too good for her. At least you found out before the wedding went ahead I suppose. Doesnt bring much peace I know, but probably saved a lot more headaches.
Good luck for your future.
thanx i am glad it didn't go on longer. i would actualy be more upset.... but its against my nature to be sad. or my religion for that matter. i read it in my goofball handbook.
langleygirl: Sorry to hear that, but I have to wonder at the amount of time you spent getting to know her first before getting so involved? It seemed extremely fast, so maybe love isn't so complicated, but its also about taking the time to get to know people and whether they are a good match for us.
thats a verry wise statement. unfortunately, being a romantic is harder to see logic when happiness blinds us from the truth. .. and it seems like the happier we are, the more pain we endure. never the less, we try.
ynotleon69: thats a verry wise statement. unfortunately, being a romantic is harder to see logic when happiness blinds us from the truth. .. and it seems like the happier we are, the more pain we endure. never the less, we try.
Happiness can indeed blind us, and truly I've learned that painful lesson as well (a few times!!!) but hopefully we learn to take it slower.
HarleyquinnBetwixt the stix, Illinois USA1,707 posts
ynotleon69: thanx i am glad it didn't go on longer. i would actualy be more upset.... but its against my nature to be sad. or my religion for that matter. i read it in my goofball handbook.
You mean there's really a handbook for us?
Can you give me that link, I mean after all, it couldn't hurt! Right?
Best of luck & yes, it's not easy to, but try to take things a bit slower! If she's worth it, she'll be right along with you!!!!
Sounds good anyway, doesn't it? I don't know a damn thing!
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