for my daughters' friends and their friends I have an open door to all on Christmas Day...sometimes so many young people show up, eat, laugh and just have a great time
plus friends and family
just all about togetherness
to all the people alone on CS on this day I would love to share my home, food and warmth with you
Hello Lovemedofr, I agree with you and I think that we can form a somewhat opinion of a person that we have seen in their pic/pics online or their physical appearance in person, this attraction has also to be activated into all other areas of their life, ie how much we have in common, values, beliefs and morals, etc
all good, Prapiroon....you do your thing and I do mine
we protect ourselves but we need to let others in (beyond the shield) to allow them into our minds, hearts and well-being > lives
if this does not occur in a positive way, well we have learned more about others but lots more about ourselves...maybe reach out with words, you have nothing to lose and they have more to gain
Hi Prapiroon, if I distrust a person soooo much then I would be better off without this person in my life from the beginning
if I need to spy on them to understand them for the better...or the worst, well this is telling me volumes..not only about them but me
I would rather get to know the person away from FB and draw my judgments and conclusions from there ie. in the way they communicate with me; be it skype, messages, phone, letters, meeting in person etc
also there is a gut instinct as to a person's character
just like to give a clean slate, and I am no fool, and take it from there
hi KZ, have you made some friendships on here in this time....
if you cannot find anyone who you click with or they click with you, then just keep trying and not be disappointed as many people here understand just how you feel
For me to hold a grudge over another, I find that this just drags me down as a person
I deal with a problem normally face-to-face, directly and assertively and also listen to the other person's point of view
discuss and work out if possible (think it is best to try then not at all)...if not, move on and learn from the experience and use it as a valuable guideline in the future
rather live my life without carrying the overload of baggage from grudges with me
bullies......as they are inconsiderate, condescending, scumbags who like to hurt others that are not so strong and.....just need to be severely crushed and put into the moment of any victim that they have chosen
what goes around, comes around and just hope the blow and smack to the head puts one into perspective
I do not mind doing the slapping into place!!!!
having said this....I generally like people..............who are not bullies!!!!
hello Frenzzy...I think that when a woman doubts a man's love for her is when there has been a number of occasions that she has reason to believe that he is not being true to her. Normally if there are doubts things have happened where she feels that she cannot trust him.
His actions and behaviour have caused concern for her to trust him and then causes conflict between them
A man can also doubt a woman for all of the above reasons
If a person is not believing in another's love for them it is because they feel pushed aside, unloved and not cared for in the relationship
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RE: Alone on Christmas
Hi IIP, I can send both....