We tend to want to trust, but after we did trust a Couple of times on here, only to find out the Real Person...the good side always come out first...
Later we see the Other side...Two out of two, I Got My heart Burned...
Now I am Gun Shy!
Just because you meet someone, does not mean you know them...
The Real person they are starts showing up after a Few months... With Long Distance involved it can get very costly... Just My experience and opinion... I Wish Most here Better Luck!
Dec 11, 2013 2:33 PM CST Is it easy for you to trust someone while dating online?
LadyDizJohannesburg, Gauteng South Africa1,320 Posts
LadyDizJohannesburg, Gauteng South Africa1,320 posts
Initially cautious, at least until I'm reasonably sure that I'm dealing with a genuine person. From then on, I trust as I would any other person in real life.
HotrodLarrys: We tend to want to trust, but after we did trust a Couple of times on here, only to find out the Real Person...the good side always come out first...
Later we see the Other side...Two out of two, I Got My heart Burned...
Now I am Gun Shy!
Just because you meet someone, does not mean you know them...
The Real person they are starts showing up after a Few months... With Long Distance involved it can get very costly... Just My experience and opinion... I Wish Most here Better Luck!
Hiya Larry I admire your strength in the fact that you did trust and took a few risks. Distance or no distance, there will always be risks we take that don't end up as planned but they do serve as lessons towards caution if nothing else. The important thing is to leave the door open to opportunity even if it's just open a crack.
2intrigued: Hiya Larry I admire your strength in the fact that you did trust and took a few risks. Distance or no distance, there will always be risks we take that don't end up as planned but they do serve as lessons towards caution if nothing else. The important thing is to leave the door open to opportunity even if it's just open a crack.
You are probably right. However it depends on person to person. I met my ex 3 years ago in a language chat, and turned out we spent two years together till ..you know what I mean
Still I am not afraid of meeting someone online, with distance as the globle world isnt that big if two individuals are meanth to be together.
search2014: I just wonder to find out if it is easy for you to trust someone in cyber world dating..
its the same as real life dating but you would have to try a real life relationship to actually get to understand if this person is true at heart. And I don't mean that devious Flousey truearheart
chatonlyman2: its the same as real life dating but you would have to try a real life relationship to actually get to understand if this person is true at heart. And I don't mean that devious Flousey truearheart
CatibraeHULL, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK1,827 posts
Ccincy: The way things are today I'd have an awful time trusting someone in cyber world.They can appear to be a nice person online and be a real jerk when you meet them.
It's obviously a risk you take.Real life can also be very scary too.
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