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Your 1st meeting,you find no way you want to see him again....

how do you end the night?Like if he says I'll call soon,had a great time?
How do you reply,HONESTLY???

RE: role play

Sorry ladies,I can see why when looking at thred it sounds strange.Truth is many of us are caregiver personalities oor naturally maternal.Not like you want to change a mans diaper,but making him take cold medicence,reminding him to wear a scarf etc.Of course many of us are not aware of this.Sadly many are attracted to a man because we want to take care of him,subconcously.

RE: Tool And Nightlady officially dating!!! Come in and wish us luck and congratulations

Hope you both happiness,excitement,passion.contentment,good times
and a long lasting relationship. a toast to your future together,it's not all fun,remember that when needed do the work,it can make love last all your days.

RE: If Adam were a googlite?

This should have been a blogoogle

RE: Anyone want to chat?

Check mail response,i word.

RE: Anyone want to chat?

I don't d massages to anyone.I give and do alot in relationship,not selfish,but I need massges,and they help me sleep

RE: Anyone want to chat?

Yu know what I mean I think?Your right this or the phone is some comfort,but sould use a backrub or someone to laugh at a comedy movie with,or even take a late-early walk.

RE: If u could choose .....

meant strong arms

RE: If u could choose .....

stron arms and compassion for all people

RE: Anyone want to chat?

I am bessed as always.It's just night,the later the worse I feel so alone
at times.

RE: Anyone want to chat?

It's 4:25 am est USA,I have awoke,can't get to sleep.It's dark,windy and even my cats r sleeping.So chat yes please

RE: Happy Birhtday NUALA

it's your b-day. and many more.

RE: Does the fear of rejection hold you back?

I feel it is all in how you see you,how much you value yourself.I would not mind being rejected in a freind or date situation.I like me and I have confidence,I am okay,no one has to validate that for me like years ago.If I can reject another,why should they not have right to do same to me.We are not all going to want to be best freinds,or all want to date the same people.People getting angry or using some childish come back to hurt you has low self-estteem and little or no self-worth.I feel bad for those people who live life by what they think others think and do what the crowd does tofit in.Iwas there from childhood for about 30 or so yrs.

RE: TWO CHOICES

Yes,no doubt.If others knew the situation at the time,I beleive most would do the same.It's that human commpassion that makes me beleive,the cup is 1/2 full.I have heard and witnessed alot of love,nurturing,giving of time and items.It's 2 fold,you help another to have or feel something good and at the same time you feel good tooand can bring a smile to your heart.
too,but also smiling.

RE: Guys! I need a guy's perspective!

If are being real with him,and talk that often,havn't you ever brought your weight change into it somhow?Could it be he had romanic,loving relationship just ended before calling you?Maybe he is lonley for anyone to talk to since that brea up.Or he may respect your opinion and have talking to you as part of his solution.

Like a few others have said,why wonder,drive your head crazy when you could be using it for moreimpotant things.Ask right out,"since we've been doing this for awhile now,I have started to wonder,why you called me at 1st out of the blue and what would your choice be with us?Freinds,best pals,dating but shy of asking?"Be honest say what you feel.Isay it like it is in life last 20yrs.,put's aside that going over the maybe's in your head.Whatever he wants from you or to give you,get it out.Otherwise you 2 will at some point move on your own ways and you'll never know.If he wants to meet,say something about your weight issue,it may not be to him.

RE: Richard

Nixon,Gere,or richard than I am?







Is this a smart alec thread?

RE: What does a guy gotta do to find a girl on here!???

Maybe that last comment is a hint to your ?,is that how you talk to women about women. BUzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz your generalizingand your wrong

RE: Richard

okay am I dense on this 1.What is the theme of this,Richard?

RE: your block list

Tennore1 are you really an actor?Or are you into singing-your user name?

RE: Homelessness and Society...If any of you can ...

personally I have met many people homeless while volunteering in soup kitchen.I talked to several,some lost everything to drugs and achohol.! woman with 3 children,left her violent husband,no family,there they were.She had them wash in public bathrooms.A caring sensitve lady.Couldn't get job ot county asst. cause no phone no. to give.Another man was an attorney,he made some bad finacial decisions and slowly lost it all,too embarresed to tell family.You meet all kinds.

In my area we have 1 homeless shelter which is for men only.They have to be in by 8pm,1st come 1st serve,16 beds.Then at 8am must leave.In larger county next to me several shelters,many offer meals and some offer Christian guidance.THE CITY MISSION in Clevelnd has as of 5 yrs. ago 35 beds for everyone.Also Salvaion army serves hot meals and gives free medical care 1 time a week,also help with clothing.
I don't judge others,I don't know why they are homeless,but they are humans and many deserve respect.It seems to be getting better govt. and non'profit org.s also peoples attitude,but a long way to go.
I was homeless at 17 out inTexas to Wyoming,thumbed,slept under tress r behind buildings.1 reason I appreciate whatI have.

RE: OK Guys, The Women are Tired...

As Whistlers mother said,or maybe it was Grandma Smuckers."what's good for the goose is good for the gander.

RE: Slay Your Demons.

Thanks,it helps to hear that really.I go out of my way,not to hurt others or let myself be hurt.

RE: The CS Family.

Paws you are right on.I think I would miss CS folks like I'd miss those close if I moved.Some people can be arrogant or just plain mean and some are so lovable and caring.Alot like family when you think about it

Glad to see your back

RE: hola everyone

I have a few imes,no one I know on there feels like different sight.Anyway I can im fine but chat,my letters don't always show.I have to push hard,it's not a place where you should be so slow to respond.All I got from signing on while I was trying was come ons.

RE: Guys do you like to cuddle?

Cuddles bring endorphins out in the brain,so does a hug of any kind. weall need touch of somekind.
I love to snuggle,cuddle or just have my hand on his leg (Yes the kind he walks on!)Also hugs for no reason in particular.


I understand zells opinion tho.Some pople want their space,they are not comfortable having someone get too close or touch,mostly someone other than their partner.

RE: Why do big girls have to finish last????

temptations,sounds like a few replies and your cheering up some.Be who you are and enjoy it here

RE: who wants to meet someone new in manchester

Just send me my ticket,on my way Would love to see Manchester
or anywhere over there.


To CS Mod. I'm joking about ticket just in case.

RE: Growing older....

I act anywhere from 16-60.I can't control my body changing,but my way of thinking and enjoing whatever I want,that I can do.With age comes wisdom I hear said,and I agree I've learned enormous amounts since my 30's.I enjoy life as much as possbleBesides sadly thee are people who never get to experience it,passing at 9yrs on plant or 33yrs.So everyday I'm here I feel blessed

RE: what song reminds you of your special moments in your life

Rock and roll lullaby by B.J. Thomas,was out when my 1st newborn and I were alone.use to sing it as I rocke him


Babe by Styx my son who is gone now told me when it was out,mother that will always be our song.about 20 yrs. ago or so and my eyes well up when I hear it,like right now.

RE: Mornings

I don't do mornings!
Okay if I have too,I don't answer phone until 2 cups of coffee,if anyones here I don't talk or answer them.Even my cats stay out of my way for at leasr 30 minutes.