Hi Rya,good to see you as always.It's the middle of the night here and I sit waiting for the world to wake up.Get's lonley when even the cats go sleep in other room
I have been tonld since childhood I was exceptionally inteligent.I know my IQ is high.I did well in college,yet I would prefer common sense.Something I didn't have most of my life.If it was a choice,I'd go with the latter.
It's not just for finding a mate,although many do,close to home.There are so many topics and people post 1 after the other.Good way to get to know people,laugh,share or get advice.This thread is like a graveyard.I was just wondering your reasons for not.To each his own.
Good advice for some to follow.There are also other ways to get info both free and for a price.There are also tips that are somewhat common sense but people don't use them.Like 1st meeting,a public place only.Take separate cars to meet.Never invite a date you just met recently in for coffe,unless you have something else on your mind.Of course even then,you may be in danger.Also if you have children you are endangering them ossibly.Probably not,but is it a chance you want to take.Meet in day hours only.Be clear with the person before going out where is the relationship now and is it going to be a hug good night or more.Always make sure someone knows where yur going to meet and approx. when you will get home.If person seems to be somewhat threatening in manner,intoxicated,or talks about what you consider inapropriate,even that gut feeling go with it.Excuse yourself and leave by a way that he/she can see your going to car. Okay Parker I know you will attempt to make this post look humorous or stupid.This advice is for men too.There are many men bring a girl home for the night and woke up with a empty house.Better careful than not.If a man gets upset by your setting rules,say whatif it were your sister o mom?
I don't mean is there complications like live far apart.I just wonder what it is that is seen as "not what I thought".Looks?Finacial,attitude?How are they different?Why would anyone be a fake.If you know your going to meet,you'll be caught and it won't even get off the ground.
you really hit it off,but whenyou meet,your disappointed,angry,or hurt,maybe suprised?They are not as they represented themselves to you?I ask because I hear it so much.I had a man from site I met in person thank me later for being real,the same person he knew be4 meeting.I thiught it odd to be thanked cause I'm me.So why do people do that?Has it happened to you,what was reason it wasn't what you thought it would be like? I don't get it,the truth will come out.
It varies quite a bit,so other. 1 day dress heels 1 day some of my vintage clothes next day tomboy like I'm 64 next day youthful,some punk style. I am known for that.I don't follow trends unless I really like something.I am an individual and wear what I want,when I want,no reason.
I teared up 2x when 1 person in blogs and 1 in forum mailed me thank you messages.They were touching to me.Also whensomeone for no reason sends me a message to just say hi and when in a thread,someone says hi to me,or where you been,good feeling.
Morning Riya,mbcasey and others who posted this am(here anyway 9:5am).How about we all as soon as 1 of those battles start,leave the thread,don't go back.Possibly 1 of the troublemakers will cease when he/she sees getting no attention?
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I put other since the only people who have im'd me on site have been men I don't reconize at all,and most start the "your so beautiful" line.So no other choice was appropriate.Sorry I did talk on there 2x to someone from forum,but freinds only.I would like people to im me,or at least many people fr here,that I reconize.I do im off site and like it,unless I'm in the middle of something important when they come on.If I don't want to corespond with whoever,I either disconnect while lading,or will say hello,nice to meet you but busy right now.Guess I'm in the minority in this thread.That's okay always been a rebel.
I agree with the group so far.I have met a few folks from here and others live far,but after some time we went off site to our own address's and also the phone.I have 2 freinds who have left site but our freindship has remained.I enjoy meeting people,always have.Also have been told I have a big heart,because I really do care about other human beings seriously.I see it as how we all should be,not big hearted.There are some who have conflicting ideas with me,or people I would not want in my home,but very few.I try to make it known and will say it here,anyone who wants to vent,comment,ask,or see if we would enjoy starting a freindship are welcome.As long as it's respecting me.Not like the man who wanted to knowif I had photos of my feet.To me this is a community.Weird?To each his own.Some years back I had pen pals from all over world.We shared photos etc. and a few have become good freinds.1 comes to visit now and then.So although I may disagree with you or have different beleifs,as I said except for a few on here,I love you guys.I have laughed,cried,learned and debated on here. to you who have gotten to know me better and those who have said kind things to me.
Morning I am suprised when some onhere get hot,they act like children.I know there are immature people in the world,but seems there may be more than I thought.This is public and permanet(postings),you may regret what you have said later.I also beleive it should be handled personally when between 2 or3 people.I have seen a thread on here last week where a ew of the posters were on here from early say8am all the way through to 7pm or so.Astonihed,don't they stop for lunch?I refuse in r/l or here to argue.I will debate certain issues with respect and maybe learn something new as Riya said earlier.I have only 1 time in a year had someone get nasty with me,I just went on as if I didn't see it,she brought it up again and I left the thread becuse then I was ready to say something back.Sad,but if 1 of the 2 or the group who are having at it should suddenly have a crisis,then the person(s) would be saying how sad.I will pray for her.I never say never,so hope I never react in fthread in a negative way.
Must say though that I do see many people on here as real as real life and care about them.Some have become freinds,we phone and or get together.I don't see this as entertainment.I wouldn't date someone who I consider part of a group of entertainers.Real people here
When I first joined I was new to pc and had no way to get pic on.I got some mail,but when I did get pics on,loads of letters.Must be important to alot of people.It doesn't matter to me.When I bring someone up,1st I read profile,then look at pic.Looks arn't of much importance to me,just an added bonus if he's a ooker.
Pick the 1 you find amusin1)peed down my leg a boyfreinds bosses wedding reception 2)thrrew up at dinner table,1st time meeting my fiance's family 3)fell out 2nd floor window naked 4) at 16 had 2 steady guys,who thought they were the only 1.While at mall hanging on 1 of them,the othercaught me.They said I had to decide which 1.5)passed gas in car on double date at drive in.
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RE: Smiling.. Men Vs Women..
Hi Rya,good to see you as always.It's the middle of the night here and I sit waiting for the world to wake up.Get's lonley when even the cats go sleep in other room