We are ok, no hatred at all. I don't yearn to be respected, I have already achieved that. Do I need a woman?, no, but I wish one as a partner, other than that, I do not worry too much.
I think you have had a lot of communication in a short space of time I'm guessing. That can be overwhelming, especially if you have run into bad eggs, like I think you have. You should know who the real ones are by now. Here you are, a Canadian jewel, 3000 miles away, go figure.
I think you brought up a conundrum point in your last sentence. I myself would not initiate because of the pervs, and scammers. I have been reading what a lot you Ladies go through, and it really is a drag. Also, the reluctance because I assume most are here for the forums. So in a sense the concept and purpose of the site, ends up it's own enemy.
RE: SEPARATED yet here???
I have only been here just over a month.