Why is it so hard to find someone. (88)
jenndis2002Victoria, Texas USA1 Threads 25 PostsRemember in high school/college how easy it was to find someone to date or "fall in love with". Why now is it so hard to meet someone? I just don't understand? Can someone help me out here.
------ This thread is Archived ------
Well given that you are not with any of those individuals perhaps you've discovered more about yourself and what you desire in a partner?
Remember its not a matter of "dating a lot of people" but finding some"one" special ... take your time you are worth it.
Remember its not a matter of "dating a lot of people" but finding some"one" special ... take your time you are worth it.
------ This thread is Archived ------
jenndis2002: Remember in high school/college how easy it was to find someone to date or "fall in love with". Why now is it so hard to meet someone? I just don't understand? Can someone help me out here.
Because we idealize our partner, therefore he/she will only exist in our minds
------ This thread is Archived ------
langleygirl: Well given that you are not with any of those individuals perhaps you've discovered more about yourself and what you desire in a partner?
Remember its not a matter of "dating a lot of people" but finding some"one" special ... take your time you are worth it.
Remember its not a matter of "dating a lot of people" but finding some"one" special ... take your time you are worth it.
luckily I have not thrown away my international women's language translator, I understand what you mean .. women want everything and the opposite of everything
------ This thread is Archived ------
Maybe because it was a play back then. Now it's serious.
Or maybe now everyone seems to want more than can really give.
Or maybe now everyone seems to want more than can really give.
------ This thread is Archived ------
jenndis2002: Remember in high school/college how easy it was to find someone to date or "fall in love with". Why now is it so hard to meet someone? I just don't understand? Can someone help me out here.
Youth have energy and vitality whereas people become bitter, hopeless, jaded and expectant as they grow older - they call this wisdom. But they are wrong, the people of these Western times grow older and none the wiser.
------ This thread is Archived ------
In response to: Remember in high school/college how easy it was to find someone to date or "fall in love with". Why now is it so hard to meet someone? I just don't understand? Can someone help me out here.
Now they are women and men, out from school
which means more beer, less love
------ This thread is Archived ------
Jokerman73: Because we idealize our partner, therefore he/she will only exist in our minds
sounds right.------ This thread is Archived ------
Simples, less choice. 
The older we get, the less singles are around. Ok, at some stage you start meeting people on round 2.
Looking at guys between 35 to 45 - a lot simply don't want a relationship or had bad experiences and well, don't want a relationship.
The older we get, the less singles are around. Ok, at some stage you start meeting people on round 2.
Looking at guys between 35 to 45 - a lot simply don't want a relationship or had bad experiences and well, don't want a relationship.
------ This thread is Archived ------
KNenagh: Simples, less choice.
The older we get, the less singles are around. Ok, at some stage you start meeting people on round 2.
Looking at guys between 35 to 45 - a lot simply don't want a relationship or had bad experiences and well, don't want a relationship.
The older we get, the less singles are around. Ok, at some stage you start meeting people on round 2.
Looking at guys between 35 to 45 - a lot simply don't want a relationship or had bad experiences and well, don't want a relationship.
you took the words right out of my mouth... 
------ This thread is Archived ------
It's not hard to find someone.
It's hard to trust someone so people hold back and don't make the first step in fear of getting hurt.
It's hard to trust someone so people hold back and don't make the first step in fear of getting hurt.
------ This thread is Archived ------
I only have to look in the mirror to answer that.
------ This thread is Archived ------
I refuse to get discouraged!! 
I am just starting on this venture of getting a second chance at love so I will remain positive that it will not be too hard to find someone.
I am just starting on this venture of getting a second chance at love so I will remain positive that it will not be too hard to find someone.
------ This thread is Archived ------
KNenagh: Simples, less choice.
The older we get, the less singles are around. Ok, at some stage you start meeting people on round 2.
Looking at guys between 35 to 45 - a lot simply don't want a relationship or had bad experiences and well, don't want a relationship.
The older we get, the less singles are around. Ok, at some stage you start meeting people on round 2.
Looking at guys between 35 to 45 - a lot simply don't want a relationship or had bad experiences and well, don't want a relationship.
Try for in your 60s and 70s!
Married men want a fling. Single men don't know what they want, except they have been in relationships and now feel free. And add to that - in that age group there are 10 woman for every single man!
What's a girl to do?
------ This thread is Archived ------
rebel2: So, its not just a rumour then?
------ This thread is Archived ------
KNenagh: Simples, less choice.
The older we get, the less singles are around. Ok, at some stage you start meeting people on round 2.
Looking at guys between 35 to 45 - a lot simply don't want a relationship or had bad experiences and well, don't want a relationship.
yep,on my own,again./good song.The older we get, the less singles are around. Ok, at some stage you start meeting people on round 2.
Looking at guys between 35 to 45 - a lot simply don't want a relationship or had bad experiences and well, don't want a relationship.
------ This thread is Archived ------
Obstinance_Works: Youth have energy and vitality whereas people become bitter, hopeless, jaded and expectant as they grow older - they call this wisdom. But they are wrong, the people of these Western times grow older and none the wiser.
I'm not bitter or feeling jaded....I take all my mistakes and wrong decisions as stepping stones...I may not be wise, because I'm not old lol....but all my experiences have made me wiser...stop bashing the western world all the time :)
------ This thread is Archived ------
I agree with those that say our taste and expectations change over time, when we're young we look for physical attraction (I'm still young by the way ) as we get older we realize that beauty is only skin deep and look for a stable relationship which in our day and time is going to be almost impossible because this day and age everyone is out what they want, what can I get out of this or that...only looking out for themselves
) as we get older we realize that beauty is only skin deep and look for a stable relationship which in our day and time is going to be almost impossible because this day and age everyone is out what they want, what can I get out of this or that...only looking out for themselves------ This thread is Archived ------
I can find them,but they keep running off
------ This thread is Archived ------
rebel2: I can find them,but they keep running off
watch,the ones w/ canes,lower ur sights,to walkers,lol.dad,wanted me to go to bingo w/ him,i held open,the door to,for lady,she wacked me,in the leg n told me to get away,lol.------ This thread is Archived ------
This Thread is Archived
This Thread is archived, so you will no longer be able to post to it. Threads get archived automatically when they are older than 3 months.
« Go back to All Threads
« Go back to All Threads
More Threads
The Real Stormy Story
Kultur-multur
Would you hire this guy - for any job?
Are the ads on here as phony as some of the profiles?
Karen McDougal - Playmate Model will testify in Hush Money Trial
beauty of the heart
Gal / sdarlagg passed away on April 10, 2024
See It All The Time
Unions support Democrats!
biggest lie
More Threads
Report threads that break rules, are offensive, or contain fighting. Staff may not be aware of the forum abuse, and cannot do anything about it unless you tell us about it. click to report forum abuse »
If one of the comments is offensive, please report the comment instead (there is a link in each comment to report it).
If one of the comments is offensive, please report the comment instead (there is a link in each comment to report it).
Stats for this Thread
4,083 Views
87 Comments
Created: Oct 2013
Last Viewed: Apr 10
Last Commented: Oct 2013
0 Likes
Related Forums
- The Real Stormy Story
- Kultur-multur
- Would you hire this guy - for any job?
- Are the ads on here as phony as some of the profiles?
- Karen McDougal - Playmate Model will testify in Hush Money Trial
- beauty of the heart
- Gal / sdarlagg passed away on April 10, 2024
- See It All The Time
- Unions support Democrats!
- biggest lie