Why is it so hard to find someone. (88)
jenndis2002Victoria, Texas USA1 Threads 25 PostsI agree with the hard to trust. I should have phrased it the ones who are willing to work at the relationship as much as you are and be a partner not user. I just do not know how to choose the right guy.... I just want some to treat me how I treat them, love me as deeply as I do them and give as much as I do to make things work. Why does that seem impossible?
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jenndis2002: I agree with the hard to trust. I should have phrased it the ones who are willing to work at the relationship as much as you are and be a partner not user. I just do not know how to choose the right guy.... I just want some to treat me how I treat them, love me as deeply as I do them and give as much as I do to make things work. Why does that seem impossible?
Maybe if you stopped measuring his love and effort and trustworthiness against yours, maybe then you'd find him.
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steffffie: Maybe if you stopped measuring his love and effort and trustworthiness against yours, maybe then you'd find him.
Maybe.....but then again why shouldn't I. When I didn't then I was used and walked all over. So why shouldn't they have to meet netter standards.
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I wondered,what makes some people, to elevate themselves as FIRST BEST,and judging others as SECOND BEST.-
hoolet: cos we´re not prepared to settle for second best. It´s better to be alone than in the company of someone who doesn´t make your heart sing.
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LadyDiz: Hi 2intrigued. And may I take this opportunity to say how much I enjoy your sense of humour and darn good sense?
Ahhh a match at last
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tomcatwarne: Ahhh a match at last
mail order brides?lol.------ This thread is Archived ------
jenndis2002: Maybe.....but then again why shouldn't I. When I didn't then I was used and walked all over. So why shouldn't they have to meet netter standards.
It just sounds too transactional in my opinion, like one ounce of love for two ounces of commitment. I prefer to act as if I were rich: give without asking for return.
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hoolet: cos we´re not prepared to settle for second best. It´s better to be alone than in the company of someone who doesn´t make your heart sing.
You can still have a life whilst you are waiting for Mr. Perfect you never know, one of your dates might just blow your mind.
Have fun don't be so damned stuck up, let your hair down, have a ball, you deserve it
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steffffie: It just sounds too transactional in my opinion, like one ounce of love for two ounces of commitment. I prefer to act as if I were rich: give without asking for return.
I don't know if What I am trying to say is coming across right. I agree with you especially about the giving. But wouldn't it be nice for once to find someone who gives as much as you or thinks like you in the idea of giving with no expectations of the same. It gets old when you give and give and give and don't even receive that one ounce back from them. That's not right and that's almost like that poor puppy dog that gets kicked to the curb and keeps coming back...there comes a time when you almost have to stop and say I deserve to be treated better... Well I'm at the I deserve better point. I'm tired of giving and giving. I want and deserve to have someone who feels the same.
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tomcatwarne: Ahhh a match at last
No matter how titillating you may find the idea, I have to disappoint you, Tom. I'm just not that way inclined..
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jenndis2002: I don't know if What I am trying to say is coming across right. I agree with you especially about the giving. But wouldn't it be nice for once to find someone who gives as much as you or thinks like you in the idea of giving with no expectations of the same. It gets old when you give and give and give and don't even receive that one ounce back from them. That's not right and that's almost like that poor puppy dog that gets kicked to the curb and keeps coming back...there comes a time when you almost have to stop and say I deserve to be treated better... Well I'm at the I deserve better point. I'm tired of giving and giving. I want and deserve to have someone who feels the same.
Understood. It seems you've already tried the bad and the ugly... perhaps it's now time for the good
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jenndis2002: I don't know if What I am trying to say is coming across right. I agree with you especially about the giving. But wouldn't it be nice for once to find someone who gives as much as you or thinks like you in the idea of giving with no expectations of the same. It gets old when you give and give and give and don't even receive that one ounce back from them. That's not right and that's almost like that poor puppy dog that gets kicked to the curb and keeps coming back...there comes a time when you almost have to stop and say I deserve to be treated better... Well I'm at the I deserve better point. I'm tired of giving and giving. I want and deserve to have someone who feels the same.
Understood. It seems you've already tried the bad and the ugly... perhaps it's now time for the good
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LadyDiz: No matter how titillating you may find the idea, I have to disappoint you, Tom. I'm just not that way inclined..
Good, that puts me in with a chance, but if you change your mind can I watch
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tomcatwarne: Good, that puts me in with a chance, but if you change your mind can I watch
Well that depends on who you believe you might have a chance with
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I accept you offer and give you one kiss in cinsideration
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jenndis2002: Remember in high school/college how easy it was to find someone to date or "fall in love with". Why now is it so hard to meet someone? I just don't understand? Can someone help me out here.
I dont find it any harder now that I did when I was a teenager, it was almost impossible then to.
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tomcatwarne: I accept you offer and give you one kiss in cinsideration
Bah! You throw those around like confetti.
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steffffie: Understood. It seems you've already tried the bad and the ugly... perhaps it's now time for the good
I hope so...keep your fingers crossed for me and maybe I'll be "taken" like you.. There is always hope right?!!:D
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Glatlol: I dont find it any harder now that I did when I was a teenager, it was almost impossible then to.
We will keep trying though right!?
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jenndis2002: I hope so...keep your fingers crossed for me and maybe I'll be "taken" like you.. There is always hope right?!!:D
Fingers crossed... and remember: if a guy with my face can get himself outta the market, anyone can!
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