It's no longer an open wound, but a reminder to be a little more cautious next time.
...and, yes, you are right....does make it stronger.
You are a lovely lady and you deserve an equally good man with a big heart.
I'm sure there are plenty of us "war" veterans scattered amongst this place....some still licking their wounds, some partially recovered and others fully healed.
What impresses me in others, on first meeting, is someone who exudes a quiet inner confidence(not to be confused with arrogance), absolute honesty, respectful, a cheeky humour and wit.....and has manners.
RE: What if love had a scent?
The biggest turn-on for me is his natural odour...