Actually, if a man (financially stable) starts talking to me, knowing I don't have a job, I think it would be decent of him to pay for my flight, right?
My (lest I get stoned) experience with a long distance relationship:
1. It's a Joke 2. Time consuming 3. Energy depleting 4. Life twisting 5. Not as promising as the man makes it seem 6. Draining 7. Ultimately, not my thing.
Yeah, so I opt to just flirt. That way, I don't get hurt.
Solitare, I totally agree with you on feelings of guilt after doing anything wrong, as it happens with everyone. However, suicide is committed on many grounds. The common denominator: Mental or psychological illnesses/issues/instability.
People commit suicide for reasons as small as being grounded, losing a match or losing a job. Does that mean we should send Man. United packing, let teenagers act unruly and totally abolish employment to prevent this?
Disclaimer: I am not trivializing suicide, just saying that the issue is really with the person doing it, not so much the circumstances.
RE: Do you need to be lovers first before you know he/she is the one for you?
Personally, I think all that poetic talk is utter nonsense.