That is wonderful. I would do the same. If he one can't work due to such reasons, then the other should take care of the family. That is love, not taking advantage of the other, but both doing the best they can to help each other.
The last guy i wanted to date, had this problem. He couldn't even pay his bills on time, all because he didn't want to work. Guess who he expected to rescue him? Me!
If a man has a disability, i can understand, but laziness, no way.
RE: cute older women with younger guys???
Picky.