No...never have, never will be in one either. I find it to be an oxymoron.
The only kind of "open relationship" I want is the kind where there's enough love and trust to have totally open communication with each other.
That was an incompatibility I just broke a relationship up over. He wanted one of those, I didn't. Monogamy is my middle name (actually, it's Kathleen, but you know what I mean).
I was in an open relationship and didn't know it.....it was not my choice, nor would I ever choose to be in such a relationship. As soon as I found out, I was outta there....or she was, depending on how you look at it.
Conrad73: Similar Question been bandied around in the EU-Forum!http://www.connectingsingles.com/forum_98_81989_1/polyamory_vs_monogamy.htm
Thank you! I went there and read it, and I´m with you on that one: it does smell like chrlatanism to me. Best selling self-help esoteric 3rd class "philosophy".
Moema: Thank you! I went there and read it, and I´m with you on that one: it does smell like chrlatanism to me. Best selling self-help esoteric 3rd class "philosophy".
Wher I said esoteric please read pseudo-spiritual although I´m struggling for a better word here.
My heart and soul belong to one woman and one woman only so it follows that my body could no more seek anything else with any sort of honesty. Never been and never will. I would rather die alone than betray my own inner essence. Others may find some solace in the comfort of such a relationship and I wish them the best but it would spiritually kill me and I do not believe in that sort of suicide.
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