I have flowered woman on this sight I have IM'd them what am I doing wrong? (25)
I'm a very open-minded type of guy brought up as one in a few Gentleman-like mannor, and treat the ladies as such at all times. What in the world am I doing wrong to go on a date with one of these ladies on this sight or even get noticed or responses from them for that matter. I don't understand it. 
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I didn't vote. 
I don't think there's anything wrong (except the 'sneaky', but no big deal). Give it a little time.
I don't think there's anything wrong (except the 'sneaky', but no big deal). Give it a little time.
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At first, i thought it read: 'i deflowered this woman on this site....'
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lusciousmile: At first, i thought it read: 'i deflowered this woman on this site....'
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1st, check and see how long it has been since she has been on. Perhaps she has been gone a while and hasn't logged in.
2nd, maybe she is already talking with someone and is not interested in you.
2nd, maybe she is already talking with someone and is not interested in you.
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Have you mailed these women and had correspondense with them?
Personally I never except ims from people I havent exchanged mails with.
Personally I never except ims from people I havent exchanged mails with.
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sneakypete13: I'm a very open-minded type of guy brought up as one in a few Gentleman-like mannor, and treat the ladies as such at all times. What in the world am I doing wrong to go on a date with one of these ladies on this sight or even get noticed or responses from them for that matter. I don't understand it.
Are you picking ladies who live close by??
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sneakypete13: I'm a very open-minded type of guy brought up as one in a few Gentleman-like mannor, and treat the ladies as such at all times. What in the world am I doing wrong to go on a date with one of these ladies on this sight or even get noticed or responses from them for that matter. I don't understand it.
Well why in heavens name would you come up with a screen name like sneakypete? I'd be wary too.
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unfortunate choice of name there pal.. ... otherwise be patient.. get to know the girl, then she will happy to speak to you.. girls just don't necessarily like random IM's I certainly don't
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Aries01: unfortunate choice of name there pal.. ... otherwise be patient.. get to know the girl, then she will happy to speak to you.. girls just don't necessarily like random IM's I certainly don't
Definitely mother instinct tonight girl?
You must be on your period.
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cristina: Definitely mother instinct tonight girl?
You must be on your period.
You must be on your period.
Nope... I don't even have a valid excuse.. ah I'm just a big 'mammy' at heart... can't help it...
... how r u sweetie 
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cristina: Definitely mother instinct tonight girl?
You must be on your period.
You must be on your period.
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Aries01: Nope... I don't even have a valid excuse.. ah I'm just a big 'mammy' at heart... can't help it... ... how r u sweetie
Oh girl, i'm so fine with myself
.Hope you are feeling good dear
Yeah, you are a big mammy indeed.
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Hi Tumpa, long time no see, good to see you baby! 
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cristina: Hi Tumpa, long time no see, good to see you baby!
Good to have him back. Let's hope he stays.
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lusciousmile: Good to have him back. Let's hope he stays.
Check that out....twice as nice...good to see you too Cristina!!
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Good to see all in tis thread presently.Hope your all content in life and where your going.As for you sneak pete,I see nothing wrong with your user name.There are many stranger or peverse names used on sites including this one.I know many woman will not im or have it turned off.Try a letter to someone you find interesting.That sometimes will get a response as opposed to a flower.You can always send me a flower though
,I am not 1 of those ladies who received 1
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I have to agree that the screen name is a bad choice. Even if it's a nickname in RL, it doesn't translate well as a screen name on a dating site.
Also, a lot of women on here have their IM turned off because it freezes up the screen and just doesn't function well at all here. So...re-do the profile to change your screen name, and then send emails and flowers to women you're interested in.
Otherwise, your profile looks good, although adding a few more photos would help.
Good luck.
Also, a lot of women on here have their IM turned off because it freezes up the screen and just doesn't function well at all here. So...re-do the profile to change your screen name, and then send emails and flowers to women you're interested in.
Otherwise, your profile looks good, although adding a few more photos would help.
Good luck.
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you have to remember that your talking about a woman most of them only want to talk & some of them only want to see how much attention they can get . sorry but thats a fact. 
it burns me up to !!!!
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ohhh, sorry but hello 2 every1
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druidess6308: I have to agree that the screen name is a bad choice. Even if it's a nickname in RL, it doesn't translate well as a screen name on a dating site.
Also, a lot of women on here have their IM turned off because it freezes up the screen and just doesn't function well at all here. So...re-do the profile to change your screen name, and then send emails and flowers to women you're interested in.
Otherwise, your profile looks good, although adding a few more photos would help.
Good luck.
Also, a lot of women on here have their IM turned off because it freezes up the screen and just doesn't function well at all here. So...re-do the profile to change your screen name, and then send emails and flowers to women you're interested in.
Otherwise, your profile looks good, although adding a few more photos would help.
Good luck.
Good Dru.I have to say the name is not complimentary. IM sometimes is very, for lack of a better word, unsettling to me.
I thought it was supposed to give you a message that a CS member wanted to talk to you, and the name. and give you a chance to accept or refuse.
Instead, I am IM'ing with the guy I will soon be meeting, on the forums, or answering email and 3 or 4 other IM's pop open almost at once. Very UNSETTLING!
Try to get to know the women in the forums. I think from the way you describe yourself, in manners, Letter composition may not be a problem. Be light at first though, don't be overwhelming.
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tmack1980: you have to remember that your talking about a woman most of them only want to talk & some of them only want to see how much attention they can get . sorry but thats a fact. it burns me up to !!!!
Sorry you are having such a hard time. Keep in there, not all of us are like that.
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tmack1980: you have to remember that your talking about a woman most of them only want to talk & some of them only want to see how much attention they can get . sorry but thats a fact. it burns me up to !!!!
If it is attention we are after, then I am doing damn poor at it. I am on here to chat because I am hit on by guys who'd like a visa or tell me I need to lose weight. Which I find a tad rude - just me though. Chatting and all is a better way of getting to know people and that is how I develope a relationship.
I also, have not recieved a flower Mr. Sneaky Pete. So don't know how to respond since I do send out thankyou's.
Good luck.
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tipaly81: If it is attention we are after, then I am doing damn poor at it. I am on here to chat because I am hit on by guys who'd like a visa or tell me I need to lose weight. Which I find a tad rude - just me though.
Good luck.
Good luck.
No, that's very f***ing rude, Tip. You're a beautiful woman. You're also smart and have a good heart. Hang in there, sweetie...you'll find the right one.
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