I have had this happen to me ...I forgave ...but it was taken by him as it was okay.and he kept doing it.. what made it difficult in my situation was ..... it was with the ex-wife before me..... I then became the ex-wife and she again the wife...
I have forgiven him but have never and will never forget the pain of the betrayal or how much it has affected my ability to trust others .....
when it comes to my heart I am no longer willing to take chances.. I am also beginning to ask a lot more questions and no longer take things at face value....
but....this is not a sad story..it is one of encouragement....to show that no matter how the deck is stacked against you ....you can overcome.... it is from these times in my life that give me the strength to overcome the strifes i suffer today..........
I grew up being a pawn in my parents divorce game..I was passed around from relative to relative like a dube....by the time I was 13 years old I was on my own ...working a job at burger chef( lied about my age...it was easy in those days to get fake id's) I met and married someone much older than I and at too young of age....many mistakes have been made along the way due to this self taught way of survival...Never stayed in one school long enough to make friends... seen the bottoms of garbage cans and the insides of gas station bathrooms more than i care to remember.... I am not bitter about this as the lessons I have learned have taught me the most valuable of lessons... what is really important in this messed up world.. love..kindness..compassion...empathy... may i say humbly...I think i did a pretty good job raising myself in spite of it all.....
wow...I have never said that before actually feels good
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if you had seen Pearls pic up...You would never say that....
if I was proud i would never have survived honey....
you said a mouthful my friend....
a lucky lady i would certainly be.....
RE: If you were betrayed by your boyfriend/girlfriend or husband/wife...you would
I have had this happen to me ...I forgave ...but it was taken by him as it was okay.and he kept doing it..
what made it difficult in my situation was .....
it was with the ex-wife before me.....
I then became the ex-wife and she again the wife...
I have forgiven him but have never and will never forget the pain of the betrayal or how much it has affected my ability to trust others .....
when it comes to my heart I am no longer willing to take chances..
I am also beginning to ask a lot more questions and no longer take things at face value....