Ive tried, the guy was only in the UK, (2 hour plane flight) I went there, he came here, but in the end the time and the cost of it all, killed it, and unless you can move to the same place I think its too hard to make work, I cant nor want to move back to the UK, he cant come here unless he got work,
so we called it a day, shame as we got on really well,
HI.. Yes I have replied to a few people regarding my art and theirs, and chatted, and yes I would meet, BUT I would have to state it was to talk about our art, and nothing else.. (as in dating)
Yes I mean personally, afterall, beauty is in the eye of the beholder
I would meet someone that I though looked ok as in the flesh they might look even better... lol, ... but I mean if you looked at their photo and really did not find them one little bit attractive
I did a thread like this a couple of years ago, but seeing as there are so many new wembers since I did it... lets debate again....( and it follows on from the 'shallow' thread quite nicely)
SO.... you get a mail/flower from a guy/women you dont find 'at all' attractive... and they live fairly close, so would you reply and meet them?
Personally, I would'nt, as I would not want them to get the wrong idea and think there is the chance that I wanted a relationship.....
I was seperated for 4 years before my divorce came through, only took so long as it was a complicated divorce due to properties, and us being in different countries.
I was dating 6 months after we split, and had no intention of taking him back, so a guy being seperated does not bother me.... though if he was not taking any steps to divorce then I would wonder why.....
No, I wont date single dads, I would of done when my daughter was younger, but shes 18 now and flown the nest, so its child free time for me... here in Spain you meet ex-pats whos kids often live in the UK, and come to visit in the holidays, and I dont mind that, as my daughter flies over to visit me...
But to date someone who has youngs kids (under 16) at home all the time, or who see their kids every weekend, well thats a no no for me...
For me... I only date guys 6' and over, ok maybe 5'11' at a push..
It the first thing I look at on a profile, I just have a thing for tall men, I did try dating a short guy, but nope, It was like dating a kid.. (sorry all you short guys)
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Nice one Bodleing....
RE: Would you Date and initiate a relation with some one in a different country?
Ive tried, the guy was only in the UK, (2 hour plane flight) I went there, he came here, but in the end the time and the cost of it all, killed it, and unless you can move to the same place I think its too hard to make work, I cant nor want to move back to the UK, he cant come here unless he got work,so we called it a day, shame as we got on really well,