Sounds quite similiar, hardest thing i found was i was being told to sit tight and not worry. I felt so disloyal to my colleauges but i couldn't financially afford to stand by my convictions.
I went thro a 'Re Structure' as they called it. with the farce of mediation. I was one of the lucky ones they wanted to keep, had to go through a ridiculous interview for lower graded job and a pay cut of 3,000 pounds a year! Was successful at the interview, then a week later i was given additional responsibility and my 3,000 pounds back ! But it achieved what they wanted and they got rid of the people they wanted to. !! The whole thing was awful and very unsettling and disruptive
yep, it's funny but she has A daughter now, and i see her setting the same rules i set for her, and getting just as stressed as i did how it all evolves
RE: Why is this site always so slow to bring the result's that it is meant to bring? "A DATE"
maybe you should send someone a flower ??