BlueSkyJBlueSkyJ Forum Posts (229)

Introducing Me

thanks everyone for the warm welcome.....i also wish you all
the best in what you are searching for.....

yay

RE: Would you date someone who is completely not your type?

I am not a one dimensional dater.....I would only date someone
who I felt a connection....that usually means compatibility
and enjoying similar experiences......

Introducing Me

Hi, I'm new here.....My name is Jayson & I'm from
the Los Angeles area......please check out my
profile & if you are interested it would be nice to
chat & get acquainted.....doesn't even have to be
for a date.....its nice to have friends too......
thanks for viewing...

RE: advice needed in this new world

you are supposed to pull into the middle of the intersection before turning left....so no wonder people are honking & giving you the 'finger'

and most people understand that when driving on a nonresidential street it is okay to go about 5 miles over the limit....if people honk it means you should pull to the right so they can pass you by.....

Not everything is black & white when it comes to rules....so yeah...lighten up
scold

RE: Any plans for the weekend?

tonight i am going to the museum of art for a free outdoor live jazz concert....they also give attendees a free ticket to the 4 museums.....i bring a dinner basket listen to the music & then stroll through at least one of the museums....

tomorrow I am meeting a lady friend....she will be calling me in the morning so we can make plans.....

Sunday my sister & i are going to look at homes for sale in Malibu.....

Life is Good wine

RE: long distance relationships,does it work?

LDR----depends on what you are looking for...last month i had a lady come down from northern cal. to visit for a week, last week I had a lady friend from South Florida come visit for about a week....next month i have a lady friend coming to visit for a few days.....so who knows what the wind may bring....

And in October i am planning a return trip to Florida.....Life Is Good grin

RE: ARE THERE ANY HONEST MEN ON THIS SITE?

Its hard to know what goes on in the minds of couples, especially when only one of them is posting.....however, with divorce rates as they are....and my observations of married couples, i wonder why so many people feel inclined to sign a Marriage Certificate.....i think most families are 'quietly dysfunctional'.....the public sees the persona....not what goes on behind closed doors.....not saying 'all' marriages don't work....only indicating that in reality few really 'do' work....i think many stay in bad marriages convincing themselves for whatever reasons that that is what they are supposed to do.....

so to answer your question, you just saved yourself years of unhappiness.....and that is worth sooo much more than splitting bills.....

RE: who are the luckiest people on planet earth ? and why ?

Luck has nothing to do with anything unless its the lottery or other gambling.....

But the Happiest people are those who have found contentment within themselves....So many are out there seeking, seeking, looking for something to grab onto....

If you want to find Paradise, look within yourself....It's already there....yay

RE: So lonely

Sorry you are going thru this lonely period....it recently was like that for me.....and then I decided to take Salsa dance lessons....WoW things have really changed....it is so fun to go out dancing now....

maybe you could find a social interaction hobby too...

banana banana

RE: As I Look Back

Very Nice Poem Daniel....I hope it happens for you sooner rather than later....but as usually happens, love comes when we least expect it....

RE: Should I Go

Simple answer...No....unless all you want is a one nite stand

RE: Post a rumor about the person above you III

She wishes she was Betty Boop grin

RE: HAVE YOU FOUND YOUR BETTER HALF?

HAVE YOU FOUND YOUR BETTER HALF?

Yes, & its just as rotten as my other half....but at least I'm hole again.....

tongue

RE: New from NorCal

Hi Siene....Welcome to the boards from Southern Cal...

RE: Drinks

I love Mojitos....the Mint leaves are so yummy.....

RE: What song are you listening to,part deux?

Boz Scaggs....Harbor Lights

Through the neon doorways
Down the stony streets I fell
All hands high side, all eyes erect, I follow
Sailing shadows, reds and blues
Curtains drawn but I saw through
The window to your soul, and I found you

Whoa, the harbor lights of Venus
Shining through the breeze
That brings me back to you my love
To you my love, to you my love

RE: What song are you listening to,part deux?

Luther Vandross version of Love Won't Let Me Wait...Live Version

I need to have you next to me in more ways than one
And I refuse to leave till I see the mornin' sun

The time is right, you hold me tight
And love's got me high
Please tell me, 'Yes' and don't say, 'No'
Honey, not tonight

RE: What song are you listening to,part deux?

Indigo Girls....I Believe in Love

I want to say that underneath it all you are my friend
And the way that I fell for you I'll never fall that way again
I still believe despite our differences that what we have's enough
And I believe in you and I believe in love

RE: What song are you listening to,part deux?

Radiohead....Fake Plastic Trees

She looks like the real thing
She tastes like the real thing
My fake plastic love.
But I can't help the feeling
I could blow through the ceiling
If I just turn and run.
And it wears me out, it wears me out.
It wears me out, it wears me out.

And if I could be who you wanted
If I could be who you wanted
All the time, all the time.

RE: What song are you listening to,part deux?

Ooh, Baby, Baby.....Linda Ronstadt

I'm just about at
The end of my rope
But I can't stop trying
I can't give up hope
'Cause I'll be here
Someday I'll hold you near
Whisper I still love you
Until that day is here

RE: When you don't like a person

there are people out in this world that are just vicious.....maybe they don't think so, but their actions say so....they are dangerous people in my opinion because they may appear one way to many people but another way to others....i find its best of avoid these people, but sometimes we have no choice.....sometimes we need to protect ourselves, our reputations, who we are as a person....sometimes we do need to take action....in those cases having careful planning & foresight is important as one must determine an effective strategy to deal with the person or the situation....

RE: When you don't like a person

People don't need a chance to get angry they just do.....most people i know carry their behaviors with them.....if i see an angry, hurtful person from a distance i avoid them....if they do something to me......well that depends on the situation.....but i believe in the law of karma so i don't have to necessarily respond....i can take a deep breath & go the other direction.....

better not to get sucked into someone elses negativity...wink

RE: When you don't like a person

If i don't like someone its usually because they hurt me or tried to in some way....perhaps they said something negative about me or tried to do something negative....

i avoid those type of people like the plague.....negative, angry, controlling people don't do well with me...i take wide circles around people like that...

RE: getting laid

I don't think i wanna 'get laid'....it was hard enough getting born...

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RE: Which is worse?

Everything in moderation....i try to keep my cussing to once out of every 50 words, that is why i always carry a tape recorder with me.....if i've been drinking it may increase to every other word....but if i'm at church the worse it gets is OMG.....help

RE: do you have time for a relationship....

I have the time, or I'll make the time for the right person!!!

And i'm not looking...cause there are two things i never find....Easter Eggs &
an exclusive relationship....

RE: Manson Follower Susan Atkins Being Considered For Release

I'm in favor of her dying in prison with no release....if i remember correctly she was the one the stabbed Sharon Tate and with her blood wrote on the mirror PIG....and had no remorse....

she should have been given the death penalty....

RE: What is confidence

Confidence for me would be going up to another guy & putting my arm around him and tell him he did something well.....and not be hung up on the gay thing....(cause i'm not)

Confidence for me would be going up to a woman who is kind, compassionate, loving & look her in the eyes....i would tell her that her beauty grows as i gaze deeper.....

and then I'd bite her dog....LoL...j/k tongue

RE: What scares you most about dating??

I'm not scared about dating....there is some nervousness attached to "Will she like me?".....

but i just go with the mentality of having a good time and trying to get to know that person.....

the hardest part is when the connection & conversation is just not happening.....moping

RE: Friendship

A true friend is someone who reaches for your hand and touches your heart. heart beating

dunno who said that....tongue

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