I'm here to look as in window shopping...the Asian imports have been particularly attractive lately....though I've also enjoyed the European products too....
I really like when a woman spends time to look nice for when we meet. A 'frumpy' looking woman is a turn-off....So wearing something causally cute that looks good on her is a plus....same is true for her face & hair...She doesn't have to look beautiful, just something that brings out her strong features....
As for behaviour, politeness, kindness, attentiveness, and a nice smile works for me......
Most of the time I can tell by the end of the first time we meet....If there is chemistry, it can take three or four dates...If its something that gets uncovered over time, then about 4-5 months....
There can be many things that makes me decide it won't work out....One of the reasons I ended my last relationship is I didn't feel she was contributing enough to the relationship. She never paid and very rarely offered to pay for any date. It was rare that she planned any of our dates, and I would always get the impression that she felt entitled....
I love my mother & talk with her at least 4 times a week. She is 84 and has really slowed down the past few years. I know she is losing her memory. I want to spend as much time with her as possible as I know her time here is limited. My mom has been a role model for me throughout her life....Her 'kill them with kindness' philosophy has been a successful way in dealing with angry or negative people....Also my mom taught me manners & the difference between doing whats right and doing what's wrong....She also taught me to take responsibility for my actions & not to blame others for whatever situation I might find myself....
I don't know how that transfers to my relationship with women, but i hope i'm treating them with respect....
I love when a women does something nice for me. It may be something simple like making my morning coffee just the way I like it. Or sending my an Ecard with something nice written on it....doing those little things for those we love the most really turns me on.
when she started to empty her closet full of shoes on me.....i learned to duck behind the bed after I had a heel imprinted on my forehead.....i guess i figured it out pretty quick......
I don't go back once a relationship is over....I just can't seem to bring back those feelings once they are gone....some people will say anything to get back what they have lost.....be cautious...
yes women do judge men by their professions & the money they make....i know this for a fact because i have experienced the downside of this even though i have a decent job....the last woman i dated made more money than me, probably a lot more.....when we were dating i asked her if she told her friends about me. Her response was yes both the good & bad....evidently my career & my having 3 sons living with me were the 'bad'.....(she was single with no kids)....of course she said that was just her friends saying that, but yanno these are the prejudices some of us guys have to overcome....
you are entitled to express your preferences....haven't read your profile but if you are getting responses from 'big' women maybe you need to be even more clear about what you want as far as size.
And those that say looks don't matter but personality does matter haven't read too many profiles....90% of all the profiles sound the same so how are you going to tell somebody has a better personality or one to your liking more than another person?
I'm not real...All i want is to get in a woman's drawers....i will lie & act like i'm real interested....but once i get to their house I ask to see their bedroom....that's when i get my chance... and when she is not looking I go to her dresser & look in all her drawers....oh yeah, i love to get into a ladies drawers....
i'm a Taurus....i should have taken a survey of women i've dated....though I can say i seem to meet many Capricorns....also seem to get along with Cancer, Scorpio, Libra, Taurus....not sure about the other signs.....not sure it really matters, though I do read my horoscope regularly....
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RE: ur CS crush
I haven't been on here long enough to have a crush....