what do you prefer- spontaneity or stability in a relationship? (19)
rob4u777Charlotte Amalie, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)94 Threads 195 Postsconversational.
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Both. Sorry!
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rob4u777: conversational.
Conversational???
ok...
How deep is your loveI really need to learn
cause were living in a world of fools
Breaking us down
When they all should let us be
We belong to you and me
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you need both other wise the relationship would be crap 
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I've been searching for spontaneous stability...Maybe that's the problem...
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A stable relationship, with mandatory spontaneous episodes structured in! 
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I've been told I'm too spontaneous so I've been trying to attend Spontaneity Anonymous, but they keep rescheduling the meetings.
The brochure states to show up whenever you want but so far I haven't been able to catch them.
The brochure states to show up whenever you want but so far I haven't been able to catch them.
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venere08: A stable relationship, with mandatory spontaneous episodes structured in!
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Both good. Trick is finding a guy that is prepared for that spontaneity when it comes and can follow the lead and have some fun. Hard part usually one 1/2 wants stability the day the other 1/2 feels like behaving mental and doing something off the wall. 
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I prefer a mixture of both. I like someone who is stable overall, but can be spontaneous. They'd have to be in order to keep up with me, since I've been known to change plans at the last minute "just because".
I do need the relationship to be stable, though, and a man to be a bit of a homebody since I am more homebody than party animal. However, I'd like them to be sociable enough to go places with me when groups are gathered.
I do need the relationship to be stable, though, and a man to be a bit of a homebody since I am more homebody than party animal. However, I'd like them to be sociable enough to go places with me when groups are gathered.
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Positive chaos! ... everything else is boring... blah...
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I want a lot of both.
In response to: conversational.
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Lee464: I've been told I'm too spontaneous so I've been trying to attend Spontaneity Anonymous, but they keep rescheduling the meetings.
The brochure states to show up whenever you want but so far I haven't been able to catch them.
The brochure states to show up whenever you want but so far I haven't been able to catch them.
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Scubadiva: Positive chaos! ... everything else is boring... blah...
sounds good ...
never tough of that .... a positive chaos
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rob4u777: conversational.
hhhm when was alitte younger spontanity but now would choose stability but have to be advanterous too
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a little bit of both i think the relationship may get to boring if it's "too" stable.
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rob4u777: conversational.
I think there's room for both. Most people like the stability of a committed relationship if that's their thing. That doesn't mean you can't also be spontaneous within that relationship. Ideally I'd be looking for both.
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venere08: A stable relationship, with mandatory spontaneous episodes structured in!
Nice, I like it!!
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