So lonely (22)
It's just a dry spell, it will end.
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mastic55: It's just a dry spell, it will end.
I wish it would end!
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I know how you feel! 
I recently moved back to my old hometown after many years of being away. Everyone I once knew is pretty much gone now. I haven't had much time to make new friends, my job keeps me secluded and school well they are all really young.
Being single is hard especially if you've been in a relationship the majority of your adult life. I get really lonely too, especially when I want to do the activities that usually you do with a partner.
I can't offer much advice but I wanted you to know I am sorry you are having a hard time. If you ever want to talk drop me an email.
I hope things get better for you!
I recently moved back to my old hometown after many years of being away. Everyone I once knew is pretty much gone now. I haven't had much time to make new friends, my job keeps me secluded and school well they are all really young.Being single is hard especially if you've been in a relationship the majority of your adult life. I get really lonely too, especially when I want to do the activities that usually you do with a partner.
I can't offer much advice but I wanted you to know I am sorry you are having a hard time. If you ever want to talk drop me an email.
I hope things get better for you!
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Lonely is such an awful feeling. I know this feeling well!. But mostly because I choose to be lonely. I feel that as bad as lonely is...it is still better than having others around me. I am verymuch an introvert, and don't want to be bothered by other people. I am most alone(but not lonely) when I am in a crowd.
I am a paradox...I am afraid of dying alone, but prefer to be by myself. But I certainly know how lonely feels. My heart(what's left of it) goes out to you
I am a paradox...I am afraid of dying alone, but prefer to be by myself. But I certainly know how lonely feels. My heart(what's left of it) goes out to you
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You may find once you are in the routine of being back at school, that will perk you up a bit. You need distractions.
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BOOGIE74: I am so freaking lonely and I have tons and friends and family. Its summer time and my boys are mostly with thier Dad and that don't help... But my goodness I haven't felt this lonely before.
And what sad I am not dating because I am about to go back to school on the 28th and can't have the distraction. Isn't that sad?
And OMG I have been stood up like 4 times in the last couple of months... And the worst of all my girlfriend (friend only people) stood me up this Saturday for girls night out....
OMG I can't even get myself back into my hobbies or anything I am just so sad...
Any idea's how to feel better about being single?
And what sad I am not dating because I am about to go back to school on the 28th and can't have the distraction. Isn't that sad?
And OMG I have been stood up like 4 times in the last couple of months... And the worst of all my girlfriend (friend only people) stood me up this Saturday for girls night out....
OMG I can't even get myself back into my hobbies or anything I am just so sad...
Any idea's how to feel better about being single?
It takes a lot of guts to post something like this.. sometimes we need to let it out..
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BOOGIE74: I am so freaking lonely and I have tons and friends and family. Its summer time and my boys are mostly with thier Dad and that don't help... But my goodness I haven't felt this lonely before.
And what sad I am not dating because I am about to go back to school on the 28th and can't have the distraction. Isn't that sad?
And OMG I have been stood up like 4 times in the last couple of months... And the worst of all my girlfriend (friend only people) stood me up this Saturday for girls night out....
OMG I can't even get myself back into my hobbies or anything I am just so sad...
Any idea's how to feel better about being single?
And what sad I am not dating because I am about to go back to school on the 28th and can't have the distraction. Isn't that sad?
And OMG I have been stood up like 4 times in the last couple of months... And the worst of all my girlfriend (friend only people) stood me up this Saturday for girls night out....
OMG I can't even get myself back into my hobbies or anything I am just so sad...
Any idea's how to feel better about being single?
I am sooo sorry you are so lonely.
Let me see if maybe I can help you feel better about being single. 
Well...you don't have to share the remote control; you don't have to wash undies with "racing stripes"; you can eat cereal for dinner if you don't want to cook; you can do what you want when you want to; you don't have to be quiet when someone else is sleeping in your bed; you can turn the light on in your room without having to worry about waking someone else up; you don't have to wipe toothpaste off of the sink and mirror; you can spend your money how you want without anyone fussing at you; you don't have to worry about when you get up or go to bed; your car stays clean; you don't have to pick up after anyone else; and last but certainly not least...You can feel good about being able to take care of things without needing someone else to do them for you.
Not sure if I helped any, but hopefully I gave you a chuckle or grin somewhere in there. 
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BOOGIE74: I am so freaking lonely and I have tons and friends and family. Its summer time and my boys are mostly with thier Dad and that don't help... But my goodness I haven't felt this lonely before.
And what sad I am not dating because I am about to go back to school on the 28th and can't have the distraction. Isn't that sad?
And OMG I have been stood up like 4 times in the last couple of months... And the worst of all my girlfriend (friend only people) stood me up this Saturday for girls night out....
OMG I can't even get myself back into my hobbies or anything I am just so sad...
Any idea's how to feel better about being single?
And what sad I am not dating because I am about to go back to school on the 28th and can't have the distraction. Isn't that sad?
And OMG I have been stood up like 4 times in the last couple of months... And the worst of all my girlfriend (friend only people) stood me up this Saturday for girls night out....
OMG I can't even get myself back into my hobbies or anything I am just so sad...
Any idea's how to feel better about being single?
Take a quick trip down to AZ....
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HzChld: I am sooo sorry you are so lonely. Let me see if maybe I can help you feel better about being single.
Well...you don't have to share the remote control; you don't have to wash undies with "racing stripes"; you can eat cereal for dinner if you don't want to cook; you can do what you want when you want to; you don't have to be quiet when someone else is sleeping in your bed; you can turn the light on in your room without having to worry about waking someone else up; you don't have to wipe toothpaste off of the sink and mirror; you can spend your money how you want without anyone fussing at you; you don't have to worry about when you get up or go to bed; your car stays clean; you don't have to pick up after anyone else; and last but certainly not least...You can feel good about being able to take care of things without needing someone else to do them for you. Not sure if I helped any, but hopefully I gave you a chuckle or grin somewhere in there.
Well...you don't have to share the remote control; you don't have to wash undies with "racing stripes"; you can eat cereal for dinner if you don't want to cook; you can do what you want when you want to; you don't have to be quiet when someone else is sleeping in your bed; you can turn the light on in your room without having to worry about waking someone else up; you don't have to wipe toothpaste off of the sink and mirror; you can spend your money how you want without anyone fussing at you; you don't have to worry about when you get up or go to bed; your car stays clean; you don't have to pick up after anyone else; and last but certainly not least...You can feel good about being able to take care of things without needing someone else to do them for you. Not sure if I helped any, but hopefully I gave you a chuckle or grin somewhere in there.
I love it! I've got a list like this in my head. Any time I even think I might be lonely, I pull it out and remember why I'm alone ... and loving it! 
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BOOGIE74: I am so freaking lonely and I have tons and friends and family.
Any idea's how to feel better about being single?
I know how you feel. Count your blessings because it is temporary and you will feel better soon. Find an activity buddy. Someone in the same place you are, single and lonely. Make a standing date and try to find others in the same boat. I have done all of those things this past year. It helps.Any idea's how to feel better about being single?
Wishing you the best!
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BOOGIE74: I am so freaking lonely and I have tons and friends and family. Its summer time and my boys are mostly with thier Dad and that don't help... But my goodness I haven't felt this lonely before.
And what sad I am not dating because I am about to go back to school on the 28th and can't have the distraction. Isn't that sad?
And OMG I have been stood up like 4 times in the last couple of months... And the worst of all my girlfriend (friend only people) stood me up this Saturday for girls night out....
OMG I can't even get myself back into my hobbies or anything I am just so sad...I know what ur saying I am fighting being lonely myself.I am like ship I dont want to die alone or live alone.My heart goes out to u.
Any idea's how to feel better about being single?
And what sad I am not dating because I am about to go back to school on the 28th and can't have the distraction. Isn't that sad?
And OMG I have been stood up like 4 times in the last couple of months... And the worst of all my girlfriend (friend only people) stood me up this Saturday for girls night out....
OMG I can't even get myself back into my hobbies or anything I am just so sad...I know what ur saying I am fighting being lonely myself.I am like ship I dont want to die alone or live alone.My heart goes out to u.
Any idea's how to feel better about being single?
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BOOGIE74: I am so freaking lonely and I have tons and friends and family. Its summer time and my boys are mostly with thier Dad and that don't help... But my goodness I haven't felt this lonely before.
And what sad I am not dating because I am about to go back to school on the 28th and can't have the distraction. Isn't that sad?
And OMG I have been stood up like 4 times in the last couple of months... And the worst of all my girlfriend (friend only people) stood me up this Saturday for girls night out....
OMG I can't even get myself back into my hobbies or anything I am just so sad...
Any idea's how to feel better about being single?
And what sad I am not dating because I am about to go back to school on the 28th and can't have the distraction. Isn't that sad?
And OMG I have been stood up like 4 times in the last couple of months... And the worst of all my girlfriend (friend only people) stood me up this Saturday for girls night out....
OMG I can't even get myself back into my hobbies or anything I am just so sad...
Any idea's how to feel better about being single?
Please, love..... please don't take it personally. I have been on this site for near on 3 years and not had much (suitable) interest, so....
There are many reasons for this which are too long-winded to go into now but, please be assured it is more down to the society we live in nowadays than it is you.... truly!!
I can, at some point, give you a more detailed reason as to why if you so wish, but for now.... trust me, things will come good!! Honestly!!
Give yourself some time and space, as in ..... "YOU" time, yeah? Women are naturally not very good at allowing time for themselves, particularly if they have/have had children. When you are feeling stronger and more confident you will be better placed to seek what, or who, you wish...... yeah?
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roseofsharon: Please, love..... please don't take it personally. I have been on this site for near on 3 years and not had much (suitable) interest, so....
There are many reasons for this which are too long-winded to go into now but, please be assured it is more down to the society we live in nowadays than it is you.... truly!!
I can, at some point, give you a more detailed reason as to why if you so wish, but for now.... trust me, things will come good!! Honestly!!
Give yourself some time and space, as in ..... "YOU" time, yeah? Women are naturally not very good at allowing time for themselves, particularly if they have/have had children. When you are feeling stronger and more confident you will be better placed to seek what, or who, you wish...... yeah? <---- for the beautiful lady!!
There are many reasons for this which are too long-winded to go into now but, please be assured it is more down to the society we live in nowadays than it is you.... truly!!
I can, at some point, give you a more detailed reason as to why if you so wish, but for now.... trust me, things will come good!! Honestly!!
Give yourself some time and space, as in ..... "YOU" time, yeah? Women are naturally not very good at allowing time for themselves, particularly if they have/have had children. When you are feeling stronger and more confident you will be better placed to seek what, or who, you wish...... yeah? <---- for the beautiful lady!!
Thank you for your insight. I have been single for 2 years. Been taking time for myself quite a bit I might Add... I think the night I wrote this I was feeling pretty lonely. I didn't mean to sound like I don't take time for myself. I have hobbies and interests that normally keep me from feeling this way.
Honestly I started feeling this way when I started hanging out with my brother and his wife. The have been married for 5 years and they just seem so in love and so happy with there two beautiful girls.
Anyhow I am okay this evening... And I have my bottle of Merlot too
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BOOGIE74: Thank you for your insight. I have been single for 2 years. Been taking time for myself quite a bit I might Add... I think the night I wrote this I was feeling pretty lonely. I didn't mean to sound like I don't take time for myself. I have hobbies and interests that normally keep me from feeling this way.
Honestly I started feeling this way when I started hanging out with my brother and his wife. The have been married for 5 years and they just seem so in love and so happy with there two beautiful girls.
Anyhow I am okay this evening... And I have my bottle of Merlot too
I understand what you are saying my sister and brother-in law are the same, they just adore each other and have been together since they were 16 years old.Honestly I started feeling this way when I started hanging out with my brother and his wife. The have been married for 5 years and they just seem so in love and so happy with there two beautiful girls.
Anyhow I am okay this evening... And I have my bottle of Merlot too
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BOOGIE74: Thank you for your insight. I have been single for 2 years. Been taking time for myself quite a bit I might Add... I think the night I wrote this I was feeling pretty lonely. I didn't mean to sound like I don't take time for myself. I have hobbies and interests that normally keep me from feeling this way.
Honestly I started feeling this way when I started hanging out with my brother and his wife. The have been married for 5 years and they just seem so in love and so happy with there two beautiful girls.
Anyhow I am okay this evening... And I have my bottle of Merlot too
Honestly I started feeling this way when I started hanging out with my brother and his wife. The have been married for 5 years and they just seem so in love and so happy with there two beautiful girls.
Anyhow I am okay this evening... And I have my bottle of Merlot too
It is not uncommon to look at others and admire there happiness and see what you desire It can make us sad and feel like we are not worthy We need to rise up and say we are worthy and in time the right person will come along to experience life together and share one anothers happiness
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Sorry you are going thru this lonely period....it recently was like that for me.....and then I decided to take Salsa dance lessons....WoW things have really changed....it is so fun to go out dancing now....
maybe you could find a social interaction hobby too...
maybe you could find a social interaction hobby too...
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And what sad I am not dating because I am about to go back to school on the 28th and can't have the distraction. Isn't that sad?
And OMG I have been stood up like 4 times in the last couple of months... And the worst of all my girlfriend (friend only people) stood me up this Saturday for girls night out....
OMG I can't even get myself back into my hobbies or anything I am just so sad...
Any idea's how to feel better about being single?