long distance relationships,does it work? ( Archived) (81)

Jul 17, 2008 8:54 PM CST long distance relationships,does it work?
brasileiro1
brasileiro1brasileiro1tempe, Arizona USA3 Threads 17 Posts
como vai,todos, i was just wondering if anyone had ideas about the above question, i am brasilian but raised in germany and now live in the us in arizona, there is nothing wrong with american girls but i relate better with european girls(as far as talking about art,culture,poetry,cinema) and i really have a thing for british girls(dont ask!). i work for an airlines and fly to the uk quite often and ive lived in europe most of my life so relocating would be no problem for me if i found a special girl to share my life with. Is it impossible ? would no woman take someone from a far distance seriously? Now i seem to have no problem getting messages from older sugar mamas from the uk,but seriously im not that kind of guy(im not just a piece of latin meat,lol). but would a girl my age have anything to do with me or is the distance too much? Ciao,Tschuss,wiedersehen, Obrigado!
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Jul 17, 2008 8:57 PM CST long distance relationships,does it work?
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
i love brazil

and actually its funny you like english girls
theres a guy here who wont go near em

i think to answer your question

anything is possible
life is about choices

i dint think there are any certainties that long distance will work or not work

each couple is different
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Jul 17, 2008 8:58 PM CST long distance relationships,does it work?
shipoker55
shipoker55shipoker55St. Petersburg, Florida USA211 Threads 2 Polls 9,362 Posts
In a word....NO
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Jul 17, 2008 8:59 PM CST long distance relationships,does it work?
Shadow_lover
Shadow_loverShadow_loverWest Palm, Florida USA41 Threads 12 Polls 1,317 Posts
I think it can for awhile it depends on the two people involved.
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Jul 17, 2008 9:03 PM CST long distance relationships,does it work?
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
So far it as worked for me and Eric..will be moving to North Carolina to be with him and getting Married
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Jul 17, 2008 9:05 PM CST long distance relationships,does it work?
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
NO IT DOESN'T WORK!!!!sigh doh
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Jul 17, 2008 9:09 PM CST long distance relationships,does it work?
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
mylifewithu: NO IT DOESN'T WORK!!!!


well there ya go...laugh

hi honey
been wonderin how the heck ya are


wave
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Jul 17, 2008 9:10 PM CST long distance relationships,does it work?
keytone
keytonekeytonePortland, Oregon USA36 Threads 3 Polls 1,686 Posts
brasileiro1: como vai,todos, i was just wondering if anyone had ideas about the above question, i am brasilian but raised in germany and now live in the us in arizona, there is nothing wrong with american girls but i relate better with european girls(as far as talking about art,culture,poetry,cinema) and i really have a thing for british girls(dont ask!). i work for an airlines and fly to the uk quite often and ive lived in europe most of my life so relocating would be no problem for me if i found a special girl to share my life with. Is it impossible ? would no woman take someone from a far distance seriously? Now i seem to have no problem getting messages from older sugar mamas from the uk,but seriously im not that kind of guy(im not just a piece of latin meat,lol). but would a girl my age have anything to do with me or is the distance too much? Ciao,Tschuss,wiedersehen, Obrigado!
looks like you have the "means", go for it! let us know what happens,,personally the closest I ever came was exactly "that". a "long distance relationship", now for me,,near or far,,nothing. so cheers and good luck.
cool
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Jul 17, 2008 9:11 PM CST long distance relationships,does it work?
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
mindfful: well there ya go...

hi honey
been wonderin how the heck ya are

Hello !! I am doing ok , need time to heal tho. Bit heartbroken!
wave hug
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Jul 17, 2008 9:12 PM CST long distance relationships,does it work?
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
i cant not believe in love
the magic
the possibilities

honestly at this point
i just couldnt continue on if i didnt have hope
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Jul 17, 2008 9:16 PM CST long distance relationships,does it work?
brasileiro1
brasileiro1brasileiro1tempe, Arizona USA3 Threads 17 Posts
Just wanted to say thank you to everyone! your answers were very helpful and gave me something to think about. You are all GREAT!
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Jul 17, 2008 9:19 PM CST long distance relationships,does it work?
shyatfirst
shyatfirstshyatfirstcobourg, Ontario Canada22 Threads 1,462 Posts
Depends on the people involved. If you are insecure and jeaulous, wouldn't recommend it.
But I do think that it takes work, more so than a "normal" relationship!
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Jul 17, 2008 9:24 PM CST long distance relationships,does it work?
thewall2
thewall2thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada61 Threads 10,499 Posts
I'm skeptic of the long distance thing,but I GUESS IT CAN IF ONE OF THE TWO PARTIES IS willing to move and take a chance.dunno
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Jul 17, 2008 9:35 PM CST long distance relationships,does it work?
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
thewall2: I'm skeptic of the long distance thing,but I GUESS IT CAN IF ONE OF THE TWO PARTIES IS willing to move and take a chance.


yes if both say they want long term
there needs to come a point of living together

oh yeahdance
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Jul 17, 2008 9:42 PM CST long distance relationships,does it work?
KrazieStill
KrazieStillKrazieStillChardon, Ohio USA13 Threads 3,978 Posts
kissmedeeply: So far it as worked for me and Eric..will be moving to North Carolina to be with him and getting Married


Yes it can work. Kiss and Eric are proof.
No one really knows until you test the waters. You could live right down the street from each other and it could work or not.
I wouldn't let distance stop me. I don't think distance would stop a relationship--the people involved stop the relationship.
Arizona is nice, lived in Vegas (stones throw from the Hoover Dam) and lived in the UK for three years. Follow your head, heart and soul.
Good luck.head banger
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Jul 17, 2008 9:46 PM CST long distance relationships,does it work?
wonderwoman1
wonderwoman1wonderwoman1ottawa, Ontario Canada55 Threads 2 Polls 241 Posts
it would never work and it can work but a moment in time all will finish with a divorce

so i don't bother to have a long distance relation there's plenty of nice mack in my town....lol.

by the way long distance relation are just lies....lol.
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Jul 17, 2008 11:36 PM CST long distance relationships,does it work?
cardsfan24
cardsfan24cardsfan24somewhere in paradise, Illinois USA40 Threads 1 Polls 5,169 Posts
ahh depends on the couple, ay know like Livin on a Prayer Bon Jovi style...
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Jul 18, 2008 12:00 AM CST long distance relationships,does it work?
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
ANYTHING can work, "IF" people WANT it to work..
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Jul 18, 2008 12:03 AM CST long distance relationships,does it work?
cardsfan24
cardsfan24cardsfan24somewhere in paradise, Illinois USA40 Threads 1 Polls 5,169 Posts
HJFinAZ: ANYTHING can work, "IF" people WANT it to work..
cheers good post, great advice...man ppl should listn to you more...
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Jul 18, 2008 12:41 AM CST long distance relationships,does it work?
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
HJFinAZ: ANYTHING can work, "IF" people WANT it to work..



wow hj

youre soooo smart


bowing



very happy
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