long distance relationships,does it work? ( Archived) (81)

Jul 23, 2008 11:26 PM CST long distance relationships,does it work?
trulymadlydeeply
trulymadlydeeplytrulymadlydeeplyBangkok, Central Thailand Thailand4 Threads 1 Polls 446 Posts
I have given up... long distance relationship doesnt work.. didnt work for me. SO Im facing reality now that is dating guys nearest to my location..... just here for friends and forums.


anyway.. you have all themeans and its a choice... you choose, you live... you'll be happy.

Good luck.
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Jul 24, 2008 2:21 AM CST long distance relationships,does it work?
Safetydate
SafetydateSafetydateCentral Point, Oregon USA3 Threads 35 Posts
It worked for me for two years, but we had our close calls, ups and downs etc. etc.

But usually, it never works.
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Jul 24, 2008 12:12 PM CST long distance relationships,does it work?
Safetydate: It worked for me for two years, but we had our close calls, ups and downs etc. etc.

But usually, it never works.


how you have close calls if it was long distancewink
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Jul 24, 2008 12:21 PM CST long distance relationships,does it work?
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
Safetydate: It worked for me for two years, but we had our close calls, ups and downs etc. etc.

But usually, it never works.


i like you


welcome to CShandshake
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Jul 24, 2008 12:23 PM CST long distance relationships,does it work?
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
I have tried long distance relationships twice, neither one worked out for me.
I am only here for the forums and friends. I hope to find a local man only, someone to truely get to know in real life first.sigh
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Jul 24, 2008 12:25 PM CST long distance relationships,does it work?
Had a long distancerelationship with a woman once, even though I lived in the same house as her, when we went out I went somewhere she was not and she went out where I was not lasted for 5 years and she wanted out, thing is I was unsure what I wanted to stay or go even before she mentioned it,

She ended up finding some guy that looked like me... blew me away...
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Jul 24, 2008 12:26 PM CST long distance relationships,does it work?
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
mylifewithu: I have tried long distance relationships twice, neither one worked out for me.
I am only here for the forums and friends. I hope to find a local man only, someone to truely get to know in real life first.



wave
i notice a lot of new members from missouridevil


dunno
nevah knooow
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Jul 24, 2008 12:27 PM CST long distance relationships,does it work?
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
mindfful: i notice a lot of new members from missouri
nevah knooow
wave hug Good maybe there's luck for me after all!! applause cheers
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Jul 24, 2008 12:32 PM CST long distance relationships,does it work?
langleygirl
langleygirllangleygirlWestlock, Alberta Canada70 Threads 8,202 Posts
mylifewithu: I have tried long distance relationships twice, neither one worked out for me.
I am only here for the forums and friends. I hope to find a local man only, someone to truely get to know in real life first.


Wise words to follow ....... as it truly takes time and time spent together to understand and learn about another.

Being to quick to "fall" can lead to truly not seeing the person for who they are ....... and truly falling in love with them, warts and all.
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Jul 24, 2008 12:37 PM CST long distance relationships,does it work?
riyablossom
riyablossomriyablossomsomewhere, Pennsylvania USA184 Threads 18 Polls 11,244 Posts
langleygirl: Wise words to follow ....... as it truly takes time and time spent together to understand and learn about another.

Being to quick to "fall" can lead to truly not seeing the person for who they are ....... and truly falling in love with them, warts and all.


yup .. bouquet
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Jul 24, 2008 12:40 PM CST long distance relationships,does it work?
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
langleygirl: Wise words to follow ....... as it truly takes time and time spent together to understand and learn about another.

Being to quick to "fall" can lead to truly not seeing the person for who they are ....... and truly falling in love with them, warts and all.
thumbs up laugh I guess I did learn a lesson at least.applause
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Jul 24, 2008 3:13 PM CST long distance relationships,does it work?
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
"Anything" can work if both parties are "WILLING"......grin
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Jul 24, 2008 3:15 PM CST long distance relationships,does it work?
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
mylifewithu: Good maybe there's luck for me after all!!


Bad news young lady.. "Luck" ain't got nothin to do with it..wink
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Jul 24, 2008 3:27 PM CST long distance relationships,does it work?
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
HJFinAZ: Bad news young lady.. "Luck" ain't got nothin to do with it..
Well that might be a good thing, cause if it weren't for bad luck I would have none at allrolling on the floor laughing As the song goeslaugh Besides most of them can't put up with me for very longrolling on the floor laughing
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Jul 28, 2008 2:10 PM CST long distance relationships,does it work?
friendsfirst
friendsfirstfriendsfirstBurbank, Illinois USA105 Threads 1 Polls 5,965 Posts
HJFinAZ: "Anything" can work if both parties are "WILLING"......


..............to step outside of their comfort zones.And stay out.thumbs up
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Jul 28, 2008 2:13 PM CST long distance relationships,does it work?
cardsfan24
cardsfan24cardsfan24somewhere in paradise, Illinois USA40 Threads 1 Polls 5,169 Posts
brasileiro1: como vai,todos, i was just wondering if anyone had ideas about the above question, i am brasilian but raised in germany and now live in the us in arizona, there is nothing wrong with american girls but i relate better with european girls(as far as talking about art,culture,poetry,cinema) and i really have a thing for british girls(dont ask!). i work for an airlines and fly to the uk quite often and ive lived in europe most of my life so relocating would be no problem for me if i found a special girl to share my life with. Is it impossible ? would no woman take someone from a far distance seriously? Now i seem to have no problem getting messages from older sugar mamas from the uk,but seriously im not that kind of guy(im not just a piece of latin meat,lol). but would a girl my age have anything to do with me or is the distance too much? Ciao,Tschuss,wiedersehen, Obrigado!
hmm..dunno will let ya know...
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Jul 28, 2008 2:18 PM CST long distance relationships,does it work?
darlynda
darlyndadarlyndatazewell, Tennessee USA49 Threads 4 Polls 1,093 Posts
shipoker55: In a word....NO
thumbs up it really depends on how far away and how much you are willing to spend to be together
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Jul 28, 2008 2:21 PM CST long distance relationships,does it work?
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
Well, they can work.

If both parties invest the time and the contact.

Are you all not having some form of long distance relationship on these forums?

Of course it works.

If you want it to.

Either that or I am being far too British.
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Jul 28, 2008 3:14 PM CST long distance relationships,does it work?
Sommerauer71: Well, they can work.

If both parties invest the time and the contact.

Are you all not having some form of long distance relationship on these forums?

Of course it works.

If you want it to.

Either that or I am being far too British.


Nicely put
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Jul 28, 2008 3:17 PM CST long distance relationships,does it work?
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
Been told it wont and not to bother......comfort
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