Weimarlady Forum Posts (1,305)

RE: How you make choice with which person you will start conversation?

Yup, which is why I always try to behave myself on here...

RE: How you make choice with which person you will start conversation?

Off the topic, but does this happen to everyone who's been on this site long enough? LOL

RE: How you make choice with which person you will start conversation?

I read their profile carefully and if they sound interesting, and don't have any unacceptable (to me) things listed in their personal stats (job/marital status/etc), I'll email. I'd never go solely by their picture if the narrative is absent or doesn't make any sense to me. Sometimes I'll just send a flower to compliment a person on something I thought was really cool, even though it is obvious that it would not go any further (they are not single anymore/looking for a different age or geographical range/etc).

RE: DO U HAVE TO HAVE CHEMISTRY ON THE FIRST DATE,IF NOT WILL IT DEVELOP LATER?

And I would not necessarily expect that to happen the very first time you meet the person, but maybe I'm just weird. To me, the VERY main thing is finding out whether we interest each other, whether the emails that seemed promising would be supported by any connection when meeting in person for the first time. I would only meet someone in person who I thought could potentially be at least a good friend. At least for me it is very possible that the person is interesting to talk with, to discover the way they think (and be pleasantly surprised) etc, and the proper attraction can grow gradually as you learn about each other.

RE: Mein auto

RE: Mein auto

Yesssss!!!

This (quite seriously) would be my dream car lot...



In real life though, I drive a 1990 Mazda 626, it's a coupe... GREAT car, has survived our trips to Russia etc (LOL) and many an off-road adventure

RE: Tattoos.... nice? or not..

I don't mind tattoos on someone else's body, they can be really creative/beautiful and can tell something about the person... However, I must admit that the washed out, blue ones (depicting dubious text or images) that look like the person had them done by a buddy at the beginning of his 25 years in prison, those would scare me away....

RE: What is the one thing you cannot live without?

Hiya!

RE: What is the one thing you cannot live without?

Where's the option "my dog"?

My freedom.

RE: Leyla Rae

Hmmmm.... Well, I'm sure pretty much any short word like that would mean SOMETHING in SOME language... I wouldn't worry about it. All I can say is that if I was to have a child, I'd choose a meaningful name for him/her, i.e. something of importance to me, related to my culture, family etc... I named my dog after a female character in a movie that I really liked.

RE: Leyla Rae

In what language?

RE: if you were forced to spend the rest of your life in one country and could never leave ..where would

I'd probably have to say right here in Latvia. "Could never leave" - did you mean not even travel anywhere? That's a depressing thought... as it only takes a few hours to cross our whole country from border to border... But still I'd have to say Latvia, I have lived here all my life and know I could happily continue this way. (And I agree with Baltica about our climate, but this is nothing new to us, we have it this way every year and the spring at last is so much more appreciated, isnt it?) I guess if I could not travel anywhere, I'd go and sit at the seaside and try to wave to the Swedes across from us... Or drive to the border and talk to the Russians through the barbed wire... LOL What a scary thought, considering we just joined the Schengen zone...

It's the first time I'm replying to one of your topic Gilly, and I see that hypothetical though they are, they're not that easy to answer!

RE: How you feel when you see babys???

It immediately makes me wonder if its parents had any temperament testing, working ability assessment and health screening for genetic diseases (common for the breed) before mating, and if they both were old enough to be bred from.

RE: Does this annoy you?

I think so! It would be naive to expect that a life-time hobby could suddenly be dropped because we fall in love... For a while, indeed, it may be put on the back burner, but after some time, when things get back to normal .... So yeah, get to know each other...

Also I'm amazed how some people seem to want to know exactly which place they would occupy in my heart - before or after "the dog".... Well, if you MUST compare yourself with my fur kid....

RE: what do you like a rose or a hug , think its kinda romantic to give a rose.

I feel kind of sorry for flowers that have been cut, it's kind of sad to see them die gradually in that vase on the table. I much prefer to look at them growing in the wild or in their flowerbeds rather than cutting them off and bringing them inside.

RE: So I Met This Guy...

I'm with foreveryoung and dragonfly.

RE: "DO MEN ENJOY FLOWERS? LIKE WOULD U FLOWER HIM ON CS?

Maybe I'm wrong, but I'd assume that it's the thought that counts? Being a non-drinker myself, I have a hard time sending them that bottle of wine (just can't get over it!), so I just choose a flower of some sort - I'm not sending it for the sake of sending a flower, it's the message that I want to reach the person, that's all. Maybe there could be a "thumbs up" choice there instead of one of the flowers, or "hats off".

RE: Men, What turns you onto a girl?

LOL, a53xis, and I thought only dogs had such detailed standards!! Boy was I mistaken!!

RE: Age vs. Maturity: Differences between men and women

I agree with Mike's observations, however sometimes the older guys get excited about meeting a mature but younger lady, only to find out at some point that she is NOT quite as fully mature as she seemed to be.

RE: Birds .....

Nope, never knew that... (then again I'm not really interested in any kind of political matters, animal rights or otherwise...) I spent many years with our local animal protection society, but we never did anything truly extreme. Letting all the pet parrots out of their cages would, undoubtedly, cause them to die, especially in our climate here?

Mesotherapy as an anti-aging treatment? Your experiences?

Thank you for your input... So it would seem to be too drastic to use for people who are not obsessed quite SO much with their looks? Thanks a lot for the input (and more comments are welcome), it's pretty new here and I just wanted to know of ladies (or maybe men too) in other countries used it and would know to tell about it. Thanks, I'll pass these answers on to my friend.

RE: If you were lost on a paradise island which 3 things would you want to have with you???????

Well, the title said "things", so I took that literally.... LOL Of course the Weimaraner is coming too!

Mesotherapy as an anti-aging treatment? Your experiences?

A friend of mine (in her late 40's) is considering this, have you had it done or know of someone who has? What are your/their experiences? Is it worth it, does it really help? If you don't want to comment on it in public, at least a vote would be appreciated!

RE: If you were lost on a paradise island which 3 things would you want to have with you???????

A pen and a notebook
My camera
My hair conditioner

RE: boredom??

I wouldn't know, it's been a long time since I've been truly bored...

RE: List Ur Favourite Techno/Trance songs Dj's

Yup, Faithless! Yello, do they count as "trance"? At any rate, they're (were?) great... "Fat Cry" from the Zebra album, for example....

Joe T Vanelli "Play with The Voice" comes to mind...

RE: Birds .....

I think there is a certain US-based "animal protection" organization (read: animal rights extremists) whose long term plan is to ban dog ownership altogether, cos it's "cruel".... "Pet ownership is an absolutely abysmal situation brought about by human manipulation", they say....

RE: Real Life Dating VS> Online Dating

Well, I feel this is definitely a quicker way of meeting people. In real life, I'd have to get dressed up, drive to town, sit at some cafe and talk, just to find out we have nothing in common? (and the initial attraction to their looks/eyes/smile was very misleading?) And I couldn't leave immediately after I realized it was a waste of time either, could I? I'm not really sure how real life "dating" is done with complete strangers, I've mostly ever met new people through my hobby, work or studies, and mostly either I was not looking for a relationship, or they were "taken".

Whereas this here is a quick way of digging through hundreds of profiles, just to find some that sound interesting and catch your attention, and then after one chat one can pretty much tell whether it can be continued or not. I firmly believe that if you have nothing to talk about online, you'll have nothing to talk about in person, and this just happens to be one of the main points of even looking for someone (for me).

I do realize that somebody I might be chatting with, might just be passing time on a dating site waiting for his wife to cook dinner, but sooner or later that will come in the open, no doubt about it.

OK, I'm off to resume digging! donning working gloves and picking up the shovel

RE: Long distance relationship.

Thank you Riya & Detente!

RE: Be honest...do you think you're eligible?

Now you've made me wonder, I'd need to go study some books on making somebody happy.... Good question indeed!

Seriously though, I may be mistaken but I think that's the whole magic of love - that you may not even THINK you would be "able to make someone happy", but just by being in love and caring about the person, you just do it somehow. You may not seem like anything special to a lot of other people, but you fascinate that special person, they are truly interested in you and you absolutely make their day without even doing anything extraordinary.

Gosh, this forum has so many interesting threads, a lot to think and learn...