Weimarlady Forum Posts (1,305)

RE: How quickly do you move w/ a new relationship?

^ was to 'Woody'

RE: How quickly do you move w/ a new relationship?

Yesss! Exactly!

RE: How quickly do you move w/ a new relationship?

....and very likely to lose someone who could become the dearest person in the world to you....

There is, or at least should be, nothing wrong in seeing other people until you've moved to the "exclusive" stage? (for many reasons)

RE: What do you think Rusty is doing now?

WOW, congratulations, Rusty! I didn't know you'd met the lady of your dreams at last!

RE: HOW TO SAY GOODBYE

You DON'T say goodbye to someone who is the dearest to you. What is this about?!

RE: Morning or Night??

I can be both if I have to (depends on when the inspiration hits), but I'd much rather begin my day as early as possible, if possible. I certainly cannot do both in a row anymore (stay up 24h), LOL, there's a risk of me fainting or falling asleep while driving then.

RE: Do you have a pick me up song????

I have a whole pick-me-up Radio Station.... (seriously, our FitFM rules!)

RE: Bu- Bye

Waaaiit!!! Before you leave, tell us how'd you do it? What's the best bait to use, what kind of a net?

RE: How do you feel about your photo rating here?

Good grief... This is just a giant sandbox, who cares... Unless you're here to win a Mr CS contest, not to find that ONE and only lady...

RE: Was i really that rude ??????

I am sure some people just see it as a game or something. (not that it makes it any more attractive to me) Especially ones that are online to waste their time and have nothing better to do in RL....

RE: Was i really that rude ??????

A bunch of BS.

I am always surprised when people on here just fail to understand that you CANNOT (just CANNOT) forcefully MAKE someone be interested in you. Always amazes me how people will try, and try, and try repeatedly when I have stated clearly "thank you but I'm not interested". Finally you want to vomit just seeing them in your "Who's Viewed Me" list, let alone getting another email (if you haven't blocked them by now) or a friend request. Really makes me wonder what's behind it? If I write to a guy and he never responds back, I take it he is NOT interested or NOT available, and I never bug them asking "where did I go wrong".

Whew, my rant for today. Now I'm sure I'll NEVER get a boyfriend.

RE: What you listening to? ...........

Culture Beat - 'Anything'

Is there anything more I can do for you
Should my hair be red or shall it be blue
Is there anything more I can do for you
Shall I let the green grass turn black for you
Is there something more you want me to do
Shall I hand up all of my secrets to you
Maybe then you'll see me too
Is there something more?
yeah yeah yeah

RE: Tell us some places you have visited.....And places you want to visit....Why?

I'd love to visit Nepal, India, Bangladesh for starters, hopefully in this life......

RE: I got a plan for a first date and seeking advice

I wouldn't assume that most women love pink, LOL. Although pink flowers should be ok, they're just flowers, LOL.



This is about the most important thing about the whole business. The aim of the date is for YOU to get to know more about HER in order to find out if YOU could be the person to make HER happy. Or, at least, get a tiny insight into this hugely important question. But, yup, still without making her feel like you're "asking for a resume/CV".

Even if she does ask a question back at you - respond frankly and openly, but don't make it too long and casually turn to her interests, preferences and dreams again. Let her reveal her inner beauty, which will hopefully match the exterior which you obviously already like.



Well, you will need it just to actually DO the "I'll turn my phone off" bit!

And, compliments!! NOT flattery, but real genuine compliments. Focusing on HER, as in: "you are very ......", "it feels so great to talk WITH YOU", "your taste is great", "you are incredible", "you are a great conversation partner", "you are such a good dancer". It's all about HER. (i.e., don't just say "Ohh, I had such a good time tonight", LOL)

RE: Five things you could not live WITH

Interesting thread!

In no particular order:

1. TV on all day long
2. Lights on all day long (in the kitchen, living room, bedroom, everywhere... )
3. Children
4. Cigarette smoke in the house
5. Someone exclusively materialistic

I'm sure there are a few more, this is just what comes to mind immediately.

RE: Tell Me Guys

Whew, your second post is much easier to read that the original one! (I still have to get to the end of it, LOL)

RE: How many keys do you carry?

I have all of mine together, otherwise I'd be forgetting one or the other or something else all the time.

RE: " age does not matter once it's love'

+1! (to me that is above all else)

RE: " age does not matter once it's love'

It really depends. if he was already in the 'grandpa' mode, wearing his long-johns and comfy fuzzy slippers, then no. If he was by some miracle very well-preserved and ready to run with me and participate in all kinds of crazy adventures, then sure.

To me age doesn't really matter, although by that I mean a man older than myself rather than younger. I seem to be 'too old' (too mature if I really want to flatter myself) even for guys my own age, so younger would probably be out of the question.

RE: What are you Passionate about!

Too many to list, but that hasn't helped me find my soulmate in any way (yet?). But, yup, my life pretty much consists of things I'm passionate about - from dogs and languages to driving, mushroom hunting , listening to the music...

RE: Beauty in a Man ..

personally i think 'dr Emmett Brown' in Back to the Future is extremely attractive.

RE: Beauty in a Man ..

that, and basically - masculinity in everything, so that i can feel like a little lady next to him (all of my 5'10
) As for any details, if he was a dog he'd be scrutinized and measured for sure, but with people i'm not worried.

RE: Is it easier to for you to express yourself verbally or with the written word

Hi! I'm OK, been mushroom hunting almost every night!!

RE: Is it easier to for you to express yourself verbally or with the written word

In writing (and that concerns both of my native languages and English too).

RE: Do You Need to Hear an apology?

Ha ha, good question! If it's obvious that the person regrets it (and they do things to make up for it), then perhaps I don't need to hear an apology.

RE: Does it really matter ?

With pleasure, in my next life!

RE: Does it really matter ?

RE: Does it really matter ?

A simple question back at ya, Gentlepaws - did you ALWAYS think like this? Say, in your 20's, 30's? Or are these realizations bound to come to most people much, much later?

RE: What are the Rules of Dating?

Good on her, if I was a hottie, I'd do the same.. For more than one reason. I'd look into all my options before making a choice, that's for sure.

RE: Who are the worst tourists all over the world?

Good point!!