i looked at that chart and was surprised it says Sweden has a higher crime rate than the US. I am not surprised about Finland though everyone i ever talked to from there was so polite to me, they seem to have a gentleness about them and a loyalty. I used to talk to a man in a trivia game, he was married and said so right away. Unlike many other married on there he never flirted with anyone but was so polite, he was the one who told me i should find a boyfriend from there.
I will admit when having intimate times i do not like music or talking , only the breathing and sounds, the intensity of the moment where only the 2 of you exist. Nothing external to break the connection.
If it is the same person, realize they will never change, and when they tell you they love you, it is out of wanting to control you. Even 12 after we have been apart if he sees me he still tries to tell me he loves me.Someone who loves you will not hurt you on purpose or put you last. The things done to me are very personal so i will not write my experience here, but i do understand the feeling you can never do enough, that you have no value, they tell you you are ugly but will not leave you even when you ask them to.
As far as i can tell, your upbringing is very rare. People who are wounded in their upbringing will often make wrong choices, because anything can be better than where they were. Once someone starts healing they want better for themselves, that is ho so many broken homes can happen.
seems strange to me that you think somehow that there re more good men in this world then there are good women. It seems to me you do not think there are any good women, so how can there be any good men.
I disagree because i have had many men who said they loved me , but never treated me like they did. Unless you have witnessed actions of their love words mean nothing.
pork is so good cooked in a wood cook stove, you place it on the ashes wrapped in tinfoil and you roast it for hours, it comes out so tender with a hint of smoke flavour
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RE: Happiest nation in the world?
i looked at that chart and was surprised it says Sweden has a higher crime rate than the US. I am not surprised about Finland though everyone i ever talked to from there was so polite to me, they seem to have a gentleness about them and a loyalty. I used to talk to a man in a trivia game, he was married and said so right away. Unlike many other married on there he never flirted with anyone but was so polite, he was the one who told me i should find a boyfriend from there.