yeah My ex BF did that too.. he was umming and arring for sooo long.. In the end I just lost interest in him.. fizzled out.. gave up.. We still stay in touch on and off.. then a while ago (like a year later!) he started contacting me saying 'I have made a huuuuge mistake' blah blah....
RE: What was your first paycheck-type job & how old were you?
Blimey! yeah haha