can there be love after 45?

'Please do not comment with the intention of just being rude or trollish...please'...Thank You

I keep asking myself if there is a reason to try and start dating again. How often do we look back at the previous relationship and see nothing but mistrust, betrayal, hurt and still find the courage to try again. there had to be good times along the way...right? ...And what about being single for a while; to reclaim who you are or what was changed to share in the company of the one you give you heart to. Sure compromising is part of building a life together with someone...yet after the fall out; can or do you want to give up another piece of you...to find someone? Is being in your mid-40's or any age an obstacle to finding another love? ...and what if you are so damaged...there is no room for you in other peoples lives? Thanks everyone for letting share. Rev@32

p.s. 'asking again...please no rude comments or what nots'. Thanks

where are you?

see somebody gets it. thanks

where are you?

It seems there are no matches in the town i live in. so i have to expand my search i reckon. where are the tank girls... goths...strange and unusual gals of this world? i know never know where she is...do you?

Good guy or Good looking guy?

very true... very true. thanks for you reply. Rev@32

Good guy or Good looking guy?

kudos... great response.

Good guy or Good looking guy?

Not at all. i would never think people in general would want just settle or take what is given. I am not saying a good guy should look like he just step out of a garbage can. people should try and groom and look decent... if anything to build their own self confidence... yet you know what the Rev says... You simply cannot pour syrup on a turd and make it a pancake. lol

So let me ask this question... how often will a ambercrombie looking guy take the time to try and get to know the woman is trying to date? or is he just over confident in his looks and attitude that it doesn't matter?

Thanks, Rev@32

Good guy or Good looking guy?

I would never say all women or anyone think the same way about topics... yet in my experience with friends, family and yes even strangers... i have watched and observed how some of the female persuasion say one thing yet mean something different when it comes to what they are looking for. could say its a basic contradiction in looking for what will make them happy. Thanks for your comment.
Rev@32

Not looking for a Lady

Seriously that made me laugh. Even though it is right on the money... happens to be the case. Thanks for sharing.

Not looking for a Lady

I have read and heard people say this more often than not. A lady looks for a distinguished looking man. well dressed. articulate. tall. broad shouldered. good hair. rich. good job. home. car. independent. etc. And i promise... i totally get that. pretty much why i am not looking for a 'lady'. I like my women... wild, free, crazy, insane, a lot off her rocker and doesn't dress to impress others. She feels comfortable wearing ripped up clothes as well as going to the store clothes. I am not saying to be compatible we need to dress like slobs... just wear clothes or have a style we feel fits us like cat in room fool of fake mice. I buy my clothes from walmart, thrift stores or what nots like yard sales... i like the clothes that put the 'fun' in 'funky'... you know? So ladies you are all looking for the rouged handsome gentlemen and i am sure they looking for you too... for me i am on the ever look out for my tank girl and/or the gal who is just cool being who she is. thanks... Rev@32

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