Good guy or Good looking guy? ( Archived) (51)

Apr 3, 2018 11:15 AM CSTGood guy or Good looking guy?
TattoedMonk
TattoedMonkTattoedMonkbrunswick, Georgia, USA9 Threads 2 Polls 27 Posts

Good guy or Good looking guy?(Vote Below)

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Good guy
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Good looking guy
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Total Votes
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So many times have i read posts, ads and online dating searches... and it seems people have the wrong idea of what they are really looking for. Now i am sure in their heart; they know... yet when it comes to visual appeal it becomes a different entity. So often have many women stated they are looking for a good guy who has a sense of humor, can cook, carry on a conversation, knows what he wants out of life... correct... i am sure you have or posted such ads along the way. Not saying it is wrong to be superficial... yet there should be something said up front about looks as well. I know people see first and that is what entices the senses... even while trying to decide on what to eat... if it looks good... it is good? how many times have you seen a dish of food that just looks absolutely amazing... but when you taste it... just plain awful. same can be said for most people. Not all the "beautiful people" are beautiful on the inside. So is it easier to accept a good looking guy who is a total ahole and could potentially just be wrong for you over a more unconventional man who looks like Shrek and Sasquatch had a love child(lol)... yet has the qualities you are looking for? Let me give this poll a try and see where it goes. Thanks, Re@32thanks
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Apr 3, 2018 12:06 PM CST Good guy or Good looking guy?
CossackCat
CossackCatCossackCatSomewhere, Maryland USA492 Threads 45 Polls 9,137 Posts
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I would need more options. I don't think ALL women think that way. Besides most men think or say or believe, they are a "Good Guy". They certainly say it more than women say "I am a good woman"
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Apr 3, 2018 12:28 PM CST Good guy or Good looking guy?
Stargazer111
Stargazer111Stargazer111Faro, Portugal1 Threads 38 Posts
Hello Tattoedmonk wave ,

I will go for the "good guy", more secured laugh wink
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Apr 3, 2018 2:18 PM CST Good guy or Good looking guy?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
Does a good guy have to be repulsive to the eye?
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Apr 3, 2018 2:36 PM CST Good guy or Good looking guy?
Harbal
HarbalHarbalSouth Yorkshire, England UK49 Threads 3 Polls 2,248 Posts
mollybaby: Does a good guy have to be repulsive to the eye?

Oh dear, now I'm wondering if I've made a mistake by sending you the pics on the other thread.
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Apr 3, 2018 2:41 PM CST Good guy or Good looking guy?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
Harbal: Oh dear, now I'm wondering if I've made a mistake by sending you the pics on the other thread.


I do believe the OP is talking about the face.
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Apr 3, 2018 2:42 PM CST Good guy or Good looking guy?
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
When I'm out grocery shopping, I choose a product based on what's actually inside the package and not on how it's packaged or the mouth watering pic decorating it....same goes for people I choose to relate with in life. It's what's inside that counts because beauty fades but a kind soul lives forever.
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Apr 3, 2018 2:45 PM CST Good guy or Good looking guy?
Harbal
HarbalHarbalSouth Yorkshire, England UK49 Threads 3 Polls 2,248 Posts
mollybaby: I do believe the OP is talking about the face.

I don't think I have any that include the face.
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Apr 3, 2018 2:46 PM CST Good guy or Good looking guy?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
2intrigued: When I'm out grocery shopping, I choose a product based on what's actually inside the package and not on how it's packaged or the mouth watering pic decorating it....same goes for people I choose to relate with in life. It's what's inside that counts because beauty fades but a kind soul lives forever.


2Int , you are a much nicer person than me laugh

I do have to fancy them physically too.

It doesn't have to be a 10 every time, but I can't date anybody I find physically unattractive.

Luckily, I haven't met one of those in years dancing
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Apr 3, 2018 2:47 PM CST Good guy or Good looking guy?
Mercedes_00
Mercedes_00Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,456 Posts
Hands down a good guy.
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Apr 3, 2018 2:49 PM CST Good guy or Good looking guy?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
Harbal: I don't think I have any that include the face.


I didn't think so

You're sorted thumbs up
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Apr 3, 2018 2:53 PM CST Good guy or Good looking guy?
But . . but . . . I'm neither good or good looking . . . . moping
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Apr 3, 2018 2:54 PM CST Good guy or Good looking guy?
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
mollybaby: 2Int , you are a much nicer person than me

I do have to fancy them physically too.

It doesn't have to be a 10 every time, but I can't date anybody I find physically unattractive.

Luckily, I haven't met one of those in years


laugh In my youth, I always went for the handsome dudes and it was rare to find one that was also handsome on the inside so if you can find both in one package, consider it a bonus Molly. wave
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Apr 3, 2018 2:54 PM CST Good guy or Good looking guy?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
I can't see why they have to be mutually exclusive dunno
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Apr 3, 2018 2:56 PM CST Good guy or Good looking guy?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
2intrigued: In my youth, I always went for the handsome dudes and it was rare to find one that was also handsome on the inside so if you can find both in one package, consider it a bonus Molly.


I do grin

But to me, they do not have to be handsome in the conventional sense, just attractive to me.
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Apr 3, 2018 2:58 PM CST Good guy or Good looking guy?
Jilllh
JilllhJilllhSouthern, California USA9 Posts
Good grooming goes a long way for the less fortunate looking
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Apr 3, 2018 3:02 PM CST Good guy or Good looking guy?
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
mollybaby: I do

But to me, they do not have to be handsome in the conventional sense, just attractive to me.


Of course a man should be attractive to you and there are so many variables as to what is considered attractive to each of us. One might see another and think wow, this man or woman is so attractive and someone won't see them that way....same goes for unattractive peeps.
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Apr 3, 2018 3:02 PM CST Good guy or Good looking guy?
Mercedes_00
Mercedes_00Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,456 Posts
Track why don't you see what I see?
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Apr 3, 2018 3:04 PM CST Good guy or Good looking guy?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
2intrigued: Of course a man should be attractive to you and there are so many variables as to what is considered attractive to each of us. One might see another and think wow, this man or woman is so attractive and someone won't see them that way....same goes for unattractive peeps.


I agree.

Just as well, or only a few people would ever get laid laugh
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Apr 3, 2018 3:06 PM CST Good guy or Good looking guy?
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
mollybaby: I agree.

Just as well, or only a few people would ever get laid


True dat giggle
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Apr 3, 2018 3:11 PM CST Good guy or Good looking guy?
bigjb62
bigjb62bigjb62Society Hill, South Carolina USA1 Threads 935 Posts
It's one thing to say you go for the "nice ones" if you meet them at work or through friends where you have more of a chance to get to know them before you date them. But when it comes to online dating, how are you going to know if their nice or not unless you actually date them. So are you going to be more likely to take a chance on someone online who is less attractive or someone more attractive?
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Apr 3, 2018 3:12 PM CST Good guy or Good looking guy?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
I love hearing and seeing what other people are attracted to.
I find it very interesting and intriguing.
I know I have changed over the years in my tastes. Some things haven't changed but others have.

I would never date a good-looking arsehole now
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Apr 3, 2018 3:23 PM CST Good guy or Good looking guy?
MiMiArt
MiMiArtMiMiArtOmaha, Nebraska USA5 Threads 584 Posts
I prefer NiceGuy wink love grin
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Apr 3, 2018 3:24 PM CST Good guy or Good looking guy?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
MiMiArt: I prefer NiceGuy


Why am I not surprised you'd turn up and say that laugh

reunion
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Apr 3, 2018 3:30 PM CST Good guy or Good looking guy?
MiMiArt
MiMiArtMiMiArtOmaha, Nebraska USA5 Threads 584 Posts
mollybaby: Why am I not surprised you'd turn up and say that


Molly reunion

Am I that predictable?!? uh oh

grin
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Apr 3, 2018 3:32 PM CST Good guy or Good looking guy?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
MiMiArt: Molly

Am I that predictable?!?

In this case, yes laugh
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Apr 3, 2018 3:34 PM CST Good guy or Good looking guy?
MiMiArt
MiMiArtMiMiArtOmaha, Nebraska USA5 Threads 584 Posts
mollybaby: In this case, yes


snooty snooty snooty
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Apr 3, 2018 3:40 PM CST Good guy or Good looking guy?
Lucky me that I have the good bad boy in a good bad body. daydream
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Apr 3, 2018 3:47 PM CST Good guy or Good looking guy?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
Kaybee50: Lucky me that I have the good bad boy in a good bad body.


See!

It is possible to have it all cheering
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Apr 3, 2018 3:50 PM CST Good guy or Good looking guy?
mollybaby: See!

It is possible to have it all
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Apr 3, 2018 4:09 PM CST Good guy or Good looking guy?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
Looking at it from another viewpoint, I wouldn't want a man to find my mind or personality attractive, but for him not to be physically attracted to me as well.
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