can there be love after 45? (41)

Mon Apr 16, 2018 9:34 AM CST can there be love after 45?
'Please do not comment with the intention of just being rude or trollish...please'...Thank You

I keep asking myself if there is a reason to try and start dating again. How often do we look back at the previous relationship and see nothing but mistrust, betrayal, hurt and still find the courage to try again. there had to be good times along the way...right? ...And what about being single for a while; to reclaim who you are or what was changed to share in the company of the one you give you heart to. Sure compromising is part of building a life together with someone...yet after the fall out; can or do you want to give up another piece of you...to find someone? Is being in your mid-40's or any age an obstacle to finding another love? ...and what if you are so damaged...there is no room for you in other peoples lives? Thanks everyone for letting share. Rev@32

p.s. 'asking again...please no rude comments or what nots'. Thanks
Mon Apr 16, 2018 3:17 PM CST can there be love after 45?
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TattoedMonk: 'Please do not comment with the intention of just being rude or trollish...please'...Thank You

I keep asking myself if there is a reason to try and start dating again. How often do we look back at the previous relationship and see nothing but mistrust, betrayal, hurt and still find the courage to try again. there had to be good times along the way...right? ...And what about being single for a while; to reclaim who you are or what was changed to share in the company of the one you give you heart to. Sure compromising is part of building a life together with someone...yet after the fall out; can or do you want to give up another piece of you...to find someone? Is being in your mid-40's or any age an obstacle to finding another love? ...and what if you are so damaged...there is no room for you in other peoples lives? Thanks everyone for letting share. Rev@32

p.s. 'asking again...please no rude comments or what nots'. Thanks
You obviously have some hard feelings about the past, which is fine, but they'll hold you back. Past relationships are 80% happy memories even for me and I'm a reasonably negative person.
Mon Apr 16, 2018 3:24 PM CST can there be love after 45?
I don´t think so, I have shagged 47 women now and still only love myself
Mon Apr 16, 2018 3:34 PM CST can there be love after 45?
I don't look back I feel you're damaged goods I feel you need to work on yourself before throwing yourself out there good luck.
Mon Apr 16, 2018 3:58 PM CST can there be love after 45?
Hi TattoedMonk

I don't look back at mine and my late husband marriage.It would serve no purpose for anyone to ever look back at an old relationship.It's of my opinion that nothing contaminates a new relationship quicker then bringing old baggage into it.
Mon Apr 16, 2018 4:13 PM CST can there be love after 45?
Bnaughty: I don´t think so, I have shagged 47 women now and still only love myself
I have more than that, even on a bad month!dancing
Mon Apr 16, 2018 4:38 PM CST can there be love after 45?
Off course , hope last thing to give up ..But it is easy to not see the tree in the forest.
Mon Apr 16, 2018 5:17 PM CST can there be love after 45?
One2note: I have more than that, even on a bad month!
Hookers don't count.scold
Mon Apr 16, 2018 5:37 PM CST can there be love after 45?
Miwagi: Hookers don't count.
Every hole's a goal!!
Mon Apr 16, 2018 5:39 PM CST can there be love after 45?
Free04you: Off course , hope last thing to give up ..But it is easy to not see the tree in the forest.
ive spotted plenty of tress in a forest !
Mon Apr 16, 2018 5:47 PM CST can there be love after 45?
One2note: Every hole's a goal!!

Two out of three ain't bad.
grin
Mon Apr 16, 2018 7:12 PM CST can there be love after 45?
TattoedMonk: 'Please do not comment with the intention of just being rude or trollish...please'...Thank You

I keep asking myself if there is a reason to try and start dating again. How often do we look back at the previous relationship and see nothing but mistrust, betrayal, hurt and still find the courage to try again. there had to be good times along the way...right? ...And what about being single for a while; to reclaim who you are or what was changed to share in the company of the one you give you heart to. Sure compromising is part of building a life together with someone...yet after the fall out; can or do you want to give up another piece of you...to find someone? Is being in your mid-40's or any age an obstacle to finding another love? ...and what if you are so damaged...there is no room for you in other peoples lives? Thanks everyone for letting share. Rev@32

p.s. 'asking again...please no rude comments or what nots'. Thanks
Of course, love can come in any age....and there's also different kind of love, platonic is my favourite. rolling on the floor laughing
Mon Apr 16, 2018 7:28 PM CST can there be love after 45?
I don't think age is a factor...everyone always says we come with baggage...well we do...what I never see anyone saying is....deal with it...unpack your bags and deal with your shit so you don't drag it into the next relationship....do the next person a favour so you can start out new with nothing getting in the way.....the next person does not deserve to deal with your luggage.....beer
Mon Apr 16, 2018 7:48 PM CST can there be love after 45?
M4_Mischief: I don't think age is a factor...everyone always says we come with baggage...well we do...what I never see anyone saying is....deal with it...unpack your bags and deal with your shit so you don't drag it into the next relationship....do the next person a favour so you can start out new with nothing getting in the way.....the next person does not deserve to deal with your luggage.....
Reality is that; most often than not, luggage is the key part of " amusement" in accepting someone as he/she is. sigh
In idealistic world I agree with you..cheers
Mon Apr 16, 2018 7:58 PM CST can there be love after 45?
I don't think its that idealistic rain but I do agree that we would likely get to no baggage but is you have baggage that makes you hate all men or all women...why do you want to date in the first place?...In doing so guess that where that transfers?...Right on to your next partner who doesn't deserve to wear your hate...just because one chooses to drag another person into their crap.....as adults we have to learn to get rid of that which holds us back from a healthy relationship....wave bouquet conversing
Mon Apr 16, 2018 9:01 PM CST can there be love after 45?
M4_Mischief: I don't think its that idealistic rain but I do agree that we would likely get to no baggage but is you have baggage that makes you hate all men or all women...why do you want to date in the first place?...In doing so guess that where that transfers?...Right on to your next partner who doesn't deserve to wear your hate...just because one chooses to drag another person into their crap.....as adults we have to learn to get rid of that which holds us back from a healthy relationship....
I feel you misunderstood me. Contrary, I love man - but not all man.laugh Nothing holds me back, except puting parent responsibility first. cheers
Mon Apr 16, 2018 9:05 PM CST can there be love after 45?
No....I was just talking in general...sometimes when I say "you" im talking in general as I was with that post....I understood your post rainy and using hating men or women as an example of baggage that needs to be dealt with before you get in a relationship....wave bouquet
Mon Apr 16, 2018 11:36 PM CST can there be love after 45?
Many people have proven love can come at any age.

Time to put the past to bed. Because realistically no-one wants to pay the price for others wrong doings.
Mon Apr 16, 2018 11:38 PM CST can there be love after 45?
We all have right of love n happiness at any age.
There is love, for everyone who believe it
About past, take lesson from its, the balance keep its as memories that will make us smile n wrinkle our eyes, but not wrinkle our face when we sit alone.
Someday, we will forget the hurt, the reason we cried and who cause us pain
We will finally relize that the secret of being free is not revenge, but letting things unfold in their own way n own time. After all, what matter is not the first, but the last chapter of our life which show how well we ran the race.
So.....smile, laugh, forgive, believe and love all over again.
Worrying doesn't take away tomorrow's troubles, its take away today's peace.
Never give up......Love is there, you only need to believe it and respect its.
teddybear
Tue Apr 17, 2018 3:23 AM CST can there be love after 45?
If you are open and ready to love,
it can come into your life at any age..
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