RE: Apologies

You're the luckiest or maybe there isn't anything to expect from nothing if parents didn't had anything ? dunno
Most of us expect or hope for fairness in family relations. wine

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RE: SEX

laugh That's faire enough and reasonable.
I would make exception if partner is sick.

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RE: What right does a man have to shout at a woman

thumbs up A useful exercise of compassion to someone that doesn't participate.
It's like throwing 'a bone to dogs' and we're suckers chewing on it with passion...laugh
Anyway it's also healthy to have a good laugh at ourselves...laugh wine

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RE: What right does a man have to shout at a woman

Next case.rolling on the floor laughing
You're right, most of us feeling passionate to help and support...but we don't know who's playing us....therefor we might also become a case to study.laugh
Just kidding.cheers

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RE: SEX

:Probably that's what is most man afraid to hear, if women feels equal to speak out, 'that experience was nothing to write about.' laugh

Another thought on a more serious note is....
I believe many of us on the CS missing s*xual life, more are talkers than practical lol and each one missing... for a different reasons...but 20 years is a long time wow wine
I remember one client of my, she lost memory due to the car accident, she couldn't remember giving birth to her 27 years old daughter but what she could remember was ex hasbuned that was cold in the bedroom and would turn his back sleeping as soon he would finish with sex. After he left her for 20 years younger women, she didn't want to have no man in her life. blues
Sounds as self - punishment, while he moved on fast with the third wife.wine

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Women can say the same thing for some man to call them a man slut that boost about sleeping around and how he did it, as if is a pride to get medal for it, lol. That's low mentality.
You're confusing somethink here, the power is not in between legs, compeeting,who will get more sex goals or who will speak about sex in a more dirty vulgar way. scold I don't care to hear about sex that humiliates and degrades women.
It's all about equality in having the same rights to be treated as equal communicator with a man, without judgments.

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RE: Apologies

You're sunshine that deserves the best.
hug teddybear

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RE: Apologies

laugh Sorry I couldn't helped myself laughing.hug I've told something very similar to my family when they ask me to pay for family graveyard (oversease), that it would feel as punishment for me in next life (if such exist) to be barried next to any of them.laugh I rather write a book like Erica Yung about female sexuality so if it becomes a best seller, they would die from embarisment living in a conservative environment.::roll: cheers

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RE: Apologies

laugh
Which ashes ? confused All my relatives are oversease.wine

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RE: SEX

For your satisfaction we keep our legs cross as long we like it and shake it off when we like it.... and No man can kill Women Power to talk - Hun.



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Strange, but my dad was more modern progressive in his views than my old fashion brother and I presume, some of clashes between my father and brother come out of challenging the authority of Alfa male in the family, and Sigmund Freud analysis would explain that as basic instict in compeeting of 2 male's lol where us girls took adventige of it so my sister could get away with short skirts, while my brother had to bite his nails that he can't do nothing about it because father said to my brother ; ' Shut the furk up, if your sister has a great pair of legs to show, I am proud of that and boys can die watching.' Lol
Perhaps my father was a early feminist without knowing lol.
In my birth country, in my generation and probably still now, majority of women doesn't leave family, until she gets married and than hasbuned bossing her around.Only in really big cities,it's almost like anywhere else in the western world cities. wine teddybear

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RE: SEX

laugh You see...I didn't wanted to manchen a world 'slats' but I was prepared it will come out from someone.laugh Fark...am laugh

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RE: SEX

A peek is not enough, chew the whole book as rare delicious desert, as forbiden fruit ...laugh cheers
I remember in my teenager's years, my brother found me reading Erica Jung books and dobbed me in to parents. My mother was waiting for my father decidion, for which I thought his going to hit the roof from patriarchal point of view.uh oh
It was an pleasent shock that my father was more discussed with my brother unbrotherly behaviour and told him off wow that one day when he has his own daughter he can boss her around as father and he gave me Erica Yung book back....and after 30 or so years,living in a way more progressive country, surprisingly this female sexuality is still taboo to many man.wow cheers

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RE: SEX

thumbs up Very true, indeed ! Fark em laugh teddybear handshake

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I recomend book from American novelist Erica Jung 'Fear of flying' that is controversial about female sexuality.
She broken all traditional values of women silence.laugh I've read her books in my youthful age, and admired her guts /courage to say things that I couldn't hear myself saying.
Americans are truly revolutionary nation.wine
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RE: SEX

thumbs up Some or maybe majority of man would prefer that women stay silent in public and pretend Virgins shyness as in conservative patriarchal view, it's a perception of a 'loose women' who can even speak casually about it. Maybe some Brave women should make a thread to ask man; 'Why women can't equally discass sex subject, without being judged and probably some man will threat them as women without honour ? '
Is it about traditional man Dominatory position that hurts ? dunno
cheers

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RE: SEX

Just to add, that wasn't casual. I've almost married the guy.

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laugh I like to congratulate you for being a Brave women to make questions on this sensitive subject for women honour and glad that I am not the only one that is able to say a bit about sex (from what I've learn from sex therapist point of view) ....but hypocrite Bullies will still purposely forget that and point finger at me, how discasting I am to talk about sex.
To answer you're question, yes it did happened to me before...but when other important matters overflows the cap already full and if is too much of sex, no matter how good ...that can make one feel overwhelmed and disappear.laugh

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RE: Scammers

Poor old man. He needs friends. Maybe you could introduce him with some lady that also needs companionship?
Isolation makes him more vulnerable.
One would have to give up a day job to play or hunt all scammers ....it's too many of them.
Sadly it can become unhealthy obsession and waist of time...wine

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RE: What right does a man have to shout at a woman

thumbs up Important puzzles of clue is missing.
Regardless, I still don't see anything wrong in bringing sympathy card to express sencire condolences ? dunno
What could she done wrong to deserve this ?

Contrary,it would make me trully disappointed if person very close to me forget altogether to show any sympathy in the moment of grieving...uh oh

I remember ex friend of my send me a condolences card when my dad past away and I always thought of it as beautiful kind gesture,which gave me a smile of comfort that not all good is lost, regardless that our life path went diferent way....
cheers

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RE: Concentrate

I appologise to Scottish people, it wasn't aimed at them, just an idea of skirt that's inspirational...laugh

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RE: Concentrate

Its a surprise that Politically Corect 'with equality in mind', haven't yet put advertisment of a man in Scottish skirt - banding over with half naked hairy bottom, looking at ...who's ever looking ...suggestively.uh oh

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RE: What right does a man have to shout at a woman

When person is grieving, I would think that the most appreciative thing is to find a comfort in the arms of a person he loves dearly.
Maybe he lost his mind out of too much pain but knowing him for a 5 years is not a short time, you could of read something in his pattern of behaviour during 5 years, if something dicitful is mingling and maybe you refused to face it and discass it with him openly. What's there to loose, except gladly loosing waist of time and energy, in hoping that one day he will be what you wish him to be in loving kind way and not accepting him as he is, possible dicitful lier ?
Maybe he has Narcissistic trades, double life that his not telling you about.
Let him go, if he doesn't take initiation to willingly fully explain and appologise. Best of luck.wine

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RE: Apologies

hug I think if all of us help a bit with our own imdividual experience, it's great if you can take some of that and make your own wisdom - suitable for your unique situation, as well, we probably also help ourselves to share with others in finding some relief & comfort, learning there's more of us, each to their own, looking from so many different and similar angles ...cheers

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RE: Apologies

hug I feel for all who come to similar personal deeply painful situation that's challenging on so many levels...
It takes spiritual Hercules to patiently deal with injustice and to overcome it, if pain of being betrayed can ever vanish in the thick air...
My father was sick when siblings made a tremendous pressure on him & manipulated him to change a will and over the phone he complained to me but I couldn't do nothing, although I've worrned siblings to not make his end of life harder, which foll on the deft ears.
What one meant to do, it will do it anyway !
When old people become sick, it's most vulnerable state to be manipulated. I can't fully blame my father to piss on his headstone but maybe I could do it on siblings headstone if they leave this Earth before me...but by that time I wouldn't care any more, Karma caches up eventually.cheers

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RE: Finally

Is that why horses runing faster in NZ when they see NZ man affectionately caressing them.rolling on the floor laughing peace

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RE: Do you think you're better of alone...?

It was only a friendly respond with the bits of friendly humor.wine
peace

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