rainbowdream2017 Forum Posts (2,486)

RE: Donald Trump & the Russians

Not true ! You say thay because you can't handle any different view from you're own.

RE: Donald Trump & the Russians

RE: Are you afraid of being hurt again?

I think, in up's and down's of our daily life dynamic, being effected with work rush or what ever sudden unexpected events ...who can say that any of us always say a perfectly right word to people we love and care for ? People who truly appreciate Love will make mutual effort to overcome any issue's.
True Love is kind, it does not hurt you, it makes you grow as it sees you better than you are and you can not fail in Love eyes that takes all you're flows as flowers ...with smile of understanding.

RE: To who r u special ?

RE: Covert Narcissism —

Narcissist is never attracted to another Narcissist, they recognise each other as if they watch their own reflection in the mirror...
Narcissist is only attracted to Co- dependent empathic person !

RE: For anyone who wants to understand what is happening in the west today. especially Harbal

Have I missed some important news from Australia, are they building wall here like in USA ?
I don't think there's need for that in Australia. We are on the big island,surrounded with ocean.

RE: For anyone who wants to understand what is happening in the west today. especially Harbal

RE: Covert Narcissism —

All narcissists are a**hole but not all a**hole are narcissists.
The lack of empathy for our feelings and their refusal to own any responsibility their actions have caused. Also an unwillingness to compromise emotionally; it's all about them all the time, a ton of lies from little to big and when those lies are discovered, Narcissist would not admit they were lies but would rationalize his/her reasons for hiding them. Narcissist is always in search of supply, not that Narcissist care about you at all.
Narcissist will always find a way to use and exploit Co-dependent even in underhanded ways.
There is also a difference between possessing empathy but choosing not to exert the energy to express it or being completely incapable of empathy.
Narcissist manipulative tactic and style is the nice cycle with love bombing and telling you what he/she think you want to hear. If one watches Narcissist actions and not his/her words, it can make a big difference in choosing the escape plan .... or becoming depressed and loosing self esteem.
After nice love bombing cycle it's starts another period of devaluing victim, getting angry if you would not do what he/she want you to do or punishing you by using SILENCE treatment.
Looking at a person's value system as evidenced through their actions, not their words will give an idea about character.Although, it's tricky because pathologically deceitful people can put on quite the act.
The thing is they can't always keep it up and you have to watch what seeps through the seams of their mask.Not easy...except if you're already have past experience with a Narcissist a**hole, man or women Narcissist, I don't care, they are Evil.

RE: Scariest dreams tell us

RE: LIVING TOGETHER

Most of us living in the multicultural society's, some 'old emigrants' like to be involved supporting their own small community contributoring in maintainence to keep alive traditional values / heritage like, traditional food from all over the world, Art, folk dance & music, dinner dance parties, sport matches, various celebrations /festivals etc. People doesn't have to reject their own identity to be something else, it should be rather additional complimentary to know more languages than only one, and people should show willingness to grow true adaptation, learning new skills, getting right qualifications to gain job, and being part of the wider community.
I am myself mix of two cultures, who are very similar and yet a bit different, something in between modern and traditional values where as individual I chose my own path suitable for my life. I was married in a Catholic church, not so much for religion ...but let's say traditional values. I still value marriage commitment, rather than living de facto, which I don't exclude but don't value much eather as I do not see real commitment there....and that's probably coming from the influence of my other culture that some times comes to conflict with the one I adopted lol.

RE: For anyone who wants to understand what is happening in the west today. especially Harbal

People won't like the changes that's already happening and there's nowhere to run to.... in the One World Goverment where only group of elite will rule all.

RE: Apologies

You're the luckiest or maybe there isn't anything to expect from nothing if parents didn't had anything ?
Most of us expect or hope for fairness in family relations.

RE: What right does a man have to shout at a woman

Next case.
You're right, most of us feeling passionate to help and support...but we don't know who's playing us....therefor we might also become a case to study.
Just kidding.

RE: Apologies

You're sunshine that deserves the best.

RE: Apologies

Which ashes ? All my relatives are oversease.

RE: Share What You Are Listening To -- Part XX

RE: What right does a man have to shout at a woman

Important puzzles of clue is missing.
Regardless, I still don't see anything wrong in bringing sympathy card to express sencire condolences ?
What could she done wrong to deserve this ?

Contrary,it would make me trully disappointed if person very close to me forget altogether to show any sympathy in the moment of grieving...

I remember ex friend of my send me a condolences card when my dad past away and I always thought of it as beautiful kind gesture,which gave me a smile of comfort that not all good is lost, regardless that our life path went diferent way....

RE: Concentrate

I appologise to Scottish people, it wasn't aimed at them, just an idea of skirt that's inspirational...

RE: Concentrate

Its a surprise that Politically Corect 'with equality in mind', haven't yet put advertisment of a man in Scottish skirt - banding over with half naked hairy bottom, looking at ...who's ever looking ...suggestively.

RE: What right does a man have to shout at a woman

When person is grieving, I would think that the most appreciative thing is to find a comfort in the arms of a person he loves dearly.
Maybe he lost his mind out of too much pain but knowing him for a 5 years is not a short time, you could of read something in his pattern of behaviour during 5 years, if something dicitful is mingling and maybe you refused to face it and discass it with him openly. What's there to loose, except gladly loosing waist of time and energy, in hoping that one day he will be what you wish him to be in loving kind way and not accepting him as he is, possible dicitful lier ?
Maybe he has Narcissistic trades, double life that his not telling you about.
Let him go, if he doesn't take initiation to willingly fully explain and appologise. Best of luck.

RE: Apologies

RE: Apologies

I think if all of us help a bit with our own imdividual experience, it's great if you can take some of that and make your own wisdom - suitable for your unique situation, as well, we probably also help ourselves to share with others in finding some relief & comfort, learning there's more of us, each to their own, looking from so many different and similar angles ...

RE: Apologies

I feel for all who come to similar personal deeply painful situation that's challenging on so many levels...
It takes spiritual Hercules to patiently deal with injustice and to overcome it, if pain of being betrayed can ever vanish in the thick air...
My father was sick when siblings made a tremendous pressure on him & manipulated him to change a will and over the phone he complained to me but I couldn't do nothing, although I've worrned siblings to not make his end of life harder, which foll on the deft ears.
What one meant to do, it will do it anyway !
When old people become sick, it's most vulnerable state to be manipulated. I can't fully blame my father to piss on his headstone but maybe I could do it on siblings headstone if they leave this Earth before me...but by that time I wouldn't care any more, Karma caches up eventually.

RE: Finally

Is that why horses runing faster in NZ when they see NZ man affectionately caressing them.

RE: Do you think you're better of alone...?

It was only a friendly respond with the bits of friendly humor.

RE: Do you think you're better of alone...?

To ask me a vague question, you shell expect a vague answer.
Some people on CS are very busy in constantly trying to correct me in many ways .... which doesn't give me enough time to think of correcting others.
Everybody has flaws, to err is human but if you have the guts to become virtue in making mistakes (like me), you may find is more useful in moving forward.

Try to dress yourself with any sense of fun and find if you can find joy from a position of correctness?

Given ATTITUDE in correction is what marks the distinction between Vengeance and Noble impulse in constractive reasonable criticism (with courteous approach that doesn't cause resentment ).
In my humble view, it's Noble to promote correction of imbalances in terms of correction of social ill.

Communication should be a bridge, it's about connecting, not correcting.
Compassion and not contention, respect and not ridicule, consel and not criticism, flexibility and not rigidity, pragmaticism and not doctrinaire .....and not condemnation.
I kindly suggest, try self-correction, it's the best kick in the pants that must come from your own foot and you'll see how you learn faster.

RE: Do you think you're better of alone...?

I always know you wouldn't miss to let me down...

RE: Do you think you're better of alone...?

I recon it's hilariously funny when people who correct others, at the same time making mistakes.

RE: How soon after meeting online and chatting do you think 2 people should become exclusive and why?

Agree !
The people involved are the only one who can answer for themselves. There's no right or wrong answer between two people mutual agreement and how others like to formulate other people relation, insisting to put people in the box, as if unwritten law must be followed, that's kind of judgmental indoctrination....although we all have a right to own opinion.

RE: Do you think you're better of alone...?

If all man are 'perfect' like him, I would prefer to be alone.