rainbowdream2017 Forum Posts (2,486)

RE: Do u want to get married ?

Without giving any doubt in your AIR word of honour...a LEGAL word is heavier to play with. Imagine if eather, you or your partner die and the one who is left to deal with all LEGALITIES is also forced to deal with your whole family /relatives that may play as Kings and Queens with all that matters...

RE: How soon after meeting online and chatting do you think 2 people should become exclusive and why?

Isn't that a Devil hot line number ? You're giving me a way too much credit.

RE: How soon after meeting online and chatting do you think 2 people should become exclusive and why?

Yep, it makes sense....and if a man behaves as Wind Blower, there's nothing to hang on to but to treat him as Wind Blower and make sure, Not to Miss to keep rainbow options open ..
Perhaps is also cultural thing - mix with individual attitude to matter?

RE: Apologies

Dear Lindsy. We never stop learning lessons as long we live, with new people, in a new situations ... and let's hope we learned Lesson well enough, to make a short cut, to use our knowladge from previous experience as valuable guide.

RE: Apologies

DeeDee is always generously kind appologetic person and although we're all imperfect, I can not see in her doing anything purposely wrong to hurt ... therefor I think she suffers and struggles a great deal to accept other people 'wrong doing - without sorrow and regret.'

I love your wise elaboration.

RE: Apologies

Again, I love your maid point through picture.
I think maybe Gerlard said, that nothing scares him more than a Pissed Off Womem which reminded me of Me It must be accumulated loads of crup to take me to that point...and I preffer to be tottaly calm in self control, seing myself as that 'Lamb with a pistole' or I am humble in undervaluing my own qualities when someone wakes up scorpion in me.
Wishing you a long life.

RE: What race, country or origin of people, do you think is the most attractive and why

RE: What race, country or origin of people, do you think is the most attractive and why

I have green eyes that change in blue..and only green eyes can change colour ! However, that has nothing to do with forgetfulness.

RE: What race, country or origin of people, do you think is the most attractive and why

In my youth I lived oversease,in my birth country, I was broth up accepting as normal and natural slight diference in skin color; very white or light dark skin (olive skin) etc. and I still don't get it, what's the preference about it instead of personality and person as a whole pacage.

RE: How soon after meeting online and chatting do you think 2 people should become exclusive and why?

Most probably you didn't yet find the one to secretly wish that she spends most of the time talking to you...but because your female friends ' chasing you for commitment' that put's you off.
Guess that Reverse Psychology works most often than we like to acknowladge and see it ....
When a man feeling hot for lady , more she appear unreachable, like a wind...more commitment he wants and vice versa ?
Generally speaking, I think it's a bit ridicules to seek commitment from someone you don't know that well....and yet if initiation doesn't come from a man,
if he continues waisting time with everyone and not seking more out of each meating from one ....I think i wouldn't waist time on such type.

RE: Time to go and get some work done, this place takes up to much time.

I think it's an psychological adiction that smocks on an idea of social interaction -where in fact, you may become anty - social for outside world.
I know how many times a man or talkative women would approach me in a Coffe Shop or anywhere else and at first I give polite respond, offering polite assistence and engaging in a small talk but when stranger can't stop talking...that annoys me to the point that I politely say ' I am busy on the phone' or I look around to run away elsewhere...as I love my 'social life' on the phone, connecting with my real life friends on Facebook or other social media....

Psychological addiction to something - could be like nicotine to smokers.

RE: Is there such a thing as healthy jealousy in a loving relationship or does it just cause conflict?

Maybe she didn't specificly pointed at you being in relationship. I've understood as rather general remark to anyone.
In regard to jealousy, in my humble view, if there isn't any pinch of jealousy , I would think that partner doesn't care, but when is too much of it for no good reason ...it's illness and being control freak.

RE: Is gun control the solution to these unspeakable tragedies?

RE: Is gun control the solution to these unspeakable tragedies?

That's Political Correctness to censor or ban any truth and the same people who do that, ask you to open your mind and accept their style of bies justice

RE: Is gun control the solution to these unspeakable tragedies?

I think London is a very corrupt city, look at London city Major who covers up for every terrorists attacks, normalising terrorism act & just about to say ' get over it and shut up' - as well he associates with therrorist too....but not happy to welcome USA President in London and making UK and American relations more difficult.

RE: How was your V Day??

I believe, If a man doesn't honor women with at least 1 rose on V day, I would suggest
' Run as fast as you can and never look back on that guy.'
I wouldn't even see him as friend because even between me and my female friend's we exchange to each other at least simbolic presents when ever one feels like, without any obligations or special reasons, it's just because ....and when a man looks for any excuse, not to give anything on V day, it's such a shameful miserable tight a**hole that I wouldn't want to know him as aquintence eather...although wouldn't tell him nothing at all as that's not something to seek or demand from anyone.
Cheers.

RE: Is gun control the solution to these unspeakable tragedies?

Ive hear news that since refuges in Biblical propotional number flood EU and rapes are sky rocketing ...Austria's WOMEN massively baying all kind of guns to protect themselves.
Personally I dislike guns but considering changes in the world, I am for owning guns by healthy mind citizens.

RE: What race, country or origin of people, do you think is the most attractive and why

Prince of Monaco has child outside marriage with a black lady and his son has a dark skin but still looks like father. with mix of his dark color mother.
Anyway,I agree with you.

RE: What race, country or origin of people, do you think is the most attractive and why

It's true, most of us are primarly attracted to what is the most familiar to us in our own race....which doesn't exclude other races attractions.

RE: What race, country or origin of people, do you think is the most attractive and why

Does that include naked native women from Amazon with long wooden stick true their nose that never sow a white man and probably think that we're alive Zombies ?

RE: What race, country or origin of people, do you think is the most attractive and why

South Pole penguins are very far .... It must be distance that attract you the most, underlying fear from commitment.

RE: What race, country or origin of people, do you think is the most attractive and why

I wouldn't have a clue what RACE, country or origin of people is the most attractive....but I do recognise ugly or beautiful souls.

RE: What race, country or origin of people, do you think is the most attractive and why

Conscience is everything and the amount of light that possitive attitude give self and others the power to take on a path of unexpected transformation and the potential of opportunities is a magnificent attraction.

RE: Apologies

My past experience has not defined me, destroyed me or defeated me, it has only strenghtened me....It's what we do after falling down that determines wheather we are life worriors that doesn't give up, pick up our broken hearts peaces and keep going or wheather we are week to find the strength to move on from a deep fixation in our minds.
I have faith that life always has a means and a purpose for everything that it throws our way, a journey of experiences filled with lessons,clues, hardships with challenges that must be confronted and overcome in time by adjusting our sails...it's important to be flexible in our daily life, to find peace and contentment in positive attitude, as well it's important to confront our fears about anything or anyone and make the right choice. I believe each time when we hesitate to confront our matter of concern, we're prolonging what we will eventually face, sooner or later, so it's better sooner. No use of seeking appologise or hoping for it or even hearing word 'sorry' if it doesn't come with genuine intentions to make any difference....
Many wisdoms came out of truth but in the end, we must find truth and define our own wisdom.
The family members or friends that we know 'yesturday' are not the same people today, nor will be the same in the future, nor will we be the same tomorrow, its a constant process of change and to resist accepting this changes is to fight against the inevitable....it's like hiting the brick wool that will only brake our life.

RE: Apologies

Every person and situation is different but I think, most of them lie to themselves to feel better with their councious, most of them have no regrets what so ever...and probably the only sorrow they have is that they didn't rip you off more.
I think, people with a good heart, sense for justice and fairness, simply can't understand that other side may not feel and think anything to consider adjusting injustice and far away appologetic for any wrong doing. Before making my definite choice with family issues, I've felt it was helpful to me, reading lot's of books, everything that relates to what I was searching for... how to deal with this type of egocentric behaviour as with family, it's too much emotions involved to see things clear in traying to still hang on for the idea of family meaning....and after all reasurch and psychological analyses, I've come to conculusion that as hardest it can be, cut off the cancerous part in body, just like a sergion in operation room... no matter if is a family member or friend and who ever that try to plays with your mind and heart. That's me but if people can sit around the table and talk honestly 'what went wrong'...I would always give a chance, as long I believe that there is change of heart and sencire regrets for the wrong doing.

I like your funny caricature.

RE: Apologies

Very wise thoughts.

RE: Apologies

Dear Lindsy,
truly the hardest betrayal comes from family members. Another problem is that family betrayel doesn't only stay between siblings but is going on forever to effect our children and our childrens -children who will not know each other...except by name and searching true Facebook and when we die or they die, maybe we won't even know it. I don't feel like calling them my family as family not suppose to behave deceitful...
My daughter some times gets occasional messages from my sister, they all want contact with my daughter and my daughter left up to my 'wisdom' which is to be polite in respond and distant, not giving away nothing.
I guess, they want to get info from my daughter, about our life and what will I do with a big house, maybe hoping I will give it away to them. After betrayal it's hard to believe in any sencire feelings ! It's never enough to them, regardless how much more they got from inheritance.
I am sorry what your mother went true and you too. The same could of happen to me if I made a different decision. It's admirable in generousity, how your mother handle her issue with her family.
I think if my family are poor, I would probably give them all but they all got (from the same parents) so much and without struggles, served to them on the silver plate as they live there and since I've left country, they always enjoyed to make a sarcastic teasing , calling me 'adventures' for my life struggles in a new country and I might of be 'a bit crazy' but I appreciate all my struggles as valuable experience, while they laughted off - enjoyong traveling the world with our parents money, even before death of our father and I still work as donkey. Some how villains seems to be always ahead in they're careful made plans and luck of circumstances...and I wish them all well but so long ...far away.

RE: Apologies

Yes. My lovely 2 siblings tried to rip me off from my share of inheritance...just because they thought I am too far to do anything about it. Indeed it was psychologically and emotional difficult to face that my own blood can use all kind of tricks, missinfirmations, emotional blackmails to misslead me so Ive took Lawyer... Anyway after a few years of legal battle Ive won, they where ' forced' to make compromise if they want to enjoy inheritance or to legally battle with me to the rest of their life and although its all over now (except some birocratic paper work to be finalized) nothing in our family relation will ever be the same or in our children relations as casens....and when I can cut my siblings out of my life, I can as well cut out anyone else that trys to do any demage in my life.
I will never get any appologies and I don't expect it, I am just content that they know, they can't take me for a ride ....You learn to be strong, there's no other choice but in certain situations to stright forward 'hit the snake in the head ', do what you have to do, make a peace with yourself that you did what's rightful and be happy with what you have in your life what ever that is.
Hurt does mingle around but if you know what you did is rightfully adjusted, what else you can do ? We can't change nature of people, only ourselves how we deal with things. All the best in finding your own solution how to deal with this issue...

RE: What Advice Would You Give To C/S Members On Here!

RE: What Advice Would You Give To C/S Members On Here!

I am humble and that's why I am amassed that some Villains gives me a way too much credit to be bothered mentioning me and a few others (who they dont like) in PM's as if the Kingdom would be lost if friendship is made with any of us who are less than likeable to your wicked gangs...