I think deep down we all know, if discussion with another person can make any difference to overcome problem or if is a waist of time to find ourselves in argument that only lead to upset us more...which in such case is better to let go ....and most importantly let go of any strong feelings that are toxic for our own well being.We can't change people, we can only do best in our abilities to make our life better. After all,our life happiness matters more, than looking always back in the past on thing that went wrong ...
I wonder, what is there to envey, to go from one person to another? To me, it sounds more like changing shoes and socks, and not particularly being attached to any.... I wouldn't want to be with one of that type,as Bell in my head would say 'I am next ' Is not good to take a long time to grieve...but is not good jumping from one person to another. More than anything, it's probably emotional immaturity.
That would be just ordinary plain fly...and I always dream of someone doing something extra... extraordinary... like pedaling bicycle true ocean could be perfect idea...
If sharks doesn't grab you along the way, maybe 6 months ... and that would be a real apreciative sacrofice that for such brave heroic attempt, you would truly deserve to be given bicycle for present.
I am sorry to say, most of the time, 'wander land of dream world' is a ferry tile funtasy...and yet, if two people build together relationship with compromises,love and care,it can be just that. When I travel to Australia to be with my hasbuned, I was in romantic love funtasy land, wasn't sure if my life would be comfortable, expected to live in a desert 'from love and water' ... and my late grandmother wanted me to put in my laguage pillow and a blanket and bed - sheets, just in the case if I might need it. Well i am not sure that I am any more capable of such loving funtasy, not knowing in what am I going into...
I give him 'pinats' to share...as thank you for travelling a world for me... and yet if i come to realisation that he is worth it, he might be lucky to get a world from me.
By the way, I am use to taking care of myself and never expected someone paying for my relocation or anything ...but I am a bit old fashion and think,gentlemen would offer or at least share concern if he has anything serious on his mind. People should just get use to help and support each other in many ways if they really plan to be together as if everything becomes an issue, from a toothpick, it's better to give up stright away ...
RE: Apologies
I think deep down we all know, if discussion with another person can make any difference to overcome problem or if is a waist of time to find ourselves in argument that only lead to upset us more...which in such case is better to let go ....and most importantly let go of any strong feelings that are toxic for our own well being.We can't change people, we can only do best in our abilities to make our life better.After all,our life happiness matters more, than looking always back in the past on thing that went wrong ...